@anotherone
9 Years
Detached aquarius, initial dating stage
Early Stages of Dating an Aquarius Man
In the early stages of dating an Aquarius man, he often stays polite and helpful but turns cooler or more distant when he feels disappointed, unsure, or emotionally inconvenienced. Many people notice he will not always argue or complain directly after canceled plans, but his energy changes fast. In real situations, the biggest clue is that he still shows basic kindness while pulling back from personal warmth or effort.
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Thanks for your answer 🙂
Should I nudge him with another text, or just let him come to me in his own time?
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Thanks for your answer 🙂Should I nudge him with another text, or just let him come to me in his own time?
Aquas, especially the guys, run on their own schedule. They pretty much get back to you when they feel like it. This is because Aquas can have a different perception of time. A few days without contact isn't as big of a deal is it is for most other signs.
Aquas also go against convention, which even means their manner of communicating runs at their speed, not yours. Aquas also love their freedom. So the last thing you want to do is get too attached to their presence. You'll find that an Aquas may be in your face one day and completely gone the next.
As @Capmercury87 put it, life happens and an Aqua may be off doing whatever else. Aquas can also forget to respond in a normal time frame. Since Aquas cherish their freedom, they may date several people at once. Meaning when this guy isn't talking to you, he may be busy or talking to someone else. Just assume that he has his own life outside of yours.
Astrology aside, since you two are just getting to know each other, delays in communication are to be expected. My advice is to have him respond before you text again. Over texting will only make you look needy right now. Likewise, make sure you're dating other people as well. The worst thing you could do is get hung up on a person too early. It's best to go with the flow and not get too wrapped up in one person.
Thank you for all your answers! His venus is on the cusp of capricorn/aquarius, but it is mainly capricorn. His mars is scorpio...
The thing is he is going away on the weekend, and I'm working very late nights from Wednesday onwards. On Tuesday there is this movie I wanted to watch, and could send him the details of it, what do you think?
Should i tell him when i see him that i am happy to date him casually and get to know him better in a friendly laid back manner? That is what I ideally want, to get to know him better, but don't want to scare him off by talking about this either. It doesn't seem like it based on this post, but I am quite a laid back and happy person, much prefer to go with the flow. Thanks x
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Thanks for your answer 🙂Should I nudge him with another text, or just let him come to me in his own time?
Aquas, especially the guys, run on their own schedule. They pretty much get back to you when they feel like it. This is because Aquas can have a different perception of time. A few days without contact isn't as big of a deal is it is for most other signs.
Aquas also go against convention, which even means their manner of communicating runs at their speed, not yours. Aquas also love their freedom. So the last thing you want to do is get too attached to their presence. You'll find that an Aquas may be in your face one day and completely gone the next.
As @Capmercury87 put it, life happens and an Aqua may be off doing whatever else. Aquas can also forget to respond in a normal time frame. Since Aquas cherish their freedom, they may date several people at once. Meaning when this guy isn't talking to you, he may be busy or talking to someone else. Just assume that he has his own life outside of yours.
Astrology aside, since you two are just getting to know each other, delays in communication are to be expected. My advice is to have him respond before you text again. Over texting will only make you look needy right now. Likewise, make sure you're dating other people as well. The worst thing you could do is get hung up on a person too early. It's best to go with the flow and not get too wrapped up in one person.
You are not smart mister.
We aquas don't date multiple people, depends on Venus etc.
If I have interest in some one I would lose that interest immediately if they were dating other people. This guy is a moron don't listen to him.
Jesus Christ just go to a different forum until you know what your talking about
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That may work for you. I know Aquas who'll date casually and remain detached until someone actually makes an emotional connection with them. This usually takes a while though. They'll also give the other person freedom to see other people.
So your advice is for OP to just wait on this one guy she barely knows? You're also assuming that this Aqua has no other romantic options.
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Thank you for all your answers! His venus is on the cusp of capricorn/aquarius, but it is mainly capricorn. His mars is scorpio...The thing is he is going away on the weekend, and I'm working very late nights from Wednesday onwards. On Tuesday there is this movie I wanted to watch, and could send him the details of it, what do you think?
Should i tell him when i see him that i am happy to date him casually and get to know him better in a friendly laid back manner? That is what I ideally want, to get to know him better, but don't want to scare him off by talking about this either. It doesn't seem like it based on this post, but I am quite a laid back and happy person, much prefer to go with the flow. Thanks x
You've only been out with this guy one time right? When he responds to you, let him know that there is a movie you'd like to see. Invite him out on a date and see what he says. If he says yes, great. If he, says he can't, then table the offer and let him contact you. If he gives you an alternate date/or plan, then that's still a good sign. Basically you can't push an Aqua to do anything, especially not this early.
Beyond that just go with the flow. Don't be too clingy and give him the space to come to you. Once you've seen him two or three times, then you can be direct and let him know you'd like to date him. Don't be overbearing about it, just keep it fun.
Also just know that he may be very busy as a lawyer depending on his field. Some lawyers figure out how to have normal social lives after a while, but a lot of them get SLAMMED by work. Just something to remember.
Keep it light and loose.. Have a full life don't dwell.... They like wondering about you.. Don't spell it all out take your time..
Posted by anotherone
Thanks for your answer 🙂Should I nudge him with another text, or just let him come to me in his own time?
Aquas, especially the guys, run on their own schedule. They pretty much get back to you when they feel like it. This is because Aquas can have a different perception of time. A few days without contact isn't as big of a deal is it is for most other signs.
Aquas also go against convention, which even means their manner of communicating runs at their speed, not yours. Aquas also love their freedom. So the last thing you want to do is get too attached to their presence. You'll find that an Aquas may be in your face one day and completely gone the next.
As @Capmercury87 put it, life happens and an Aqua may be off doing whatever else. Aquas can also forget to respond in a normal time frame. Since Aquas cherish their freedom, they may date several people at once. Meaning when this guy isn't talking to you, he may be busy or talking to someone else. Just assume that he has his own life outside of yours.
Astrology aside, since you two are just getting to know each other, delays in communication are to be expected. My advice is to have him respond before you text again. Over texting will only make you look needy right now. Likewise, make sure you're dating other people as well. The worst thing you could do is get hung up on a person too early. It's best to go with the flow and not get too wrapped up in one person.
You are not smart mister.
We aquas don't date multiple people, depends on Venus etc.
If I have interest in some one I would lose that interest immediately if they were dating other people. This guy is a moron don't listen to him.
Jesus Christ just go to a different forum until you know what your talking about
That may work for you. I know Aquas who'll date casually and remain detached until someone actually makes an emotional connection with them.
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What may work for me sorry?
Ok i have taken all of your advices, and didn't contact him. It is a little strange that he added me on Facebook, and today he liked some of my pics, but hasn't gotten back to me about going to the cinema. I'll just give him space... I don't think I should date an aquarian, they are better as friends. Doesn't seem like he likes me at all.
Aquarians cannot allow themselves to feel too deeply ... The water carrier they hold is full of water (emotions). If they were to allow that to crack they would lose control of themselves, hence their need to detach and distance themselves
Be their friend and keep some healthy distance and none of the pressured romance stuff....
He's a lawyer so he could be in arbitration all day... he's older so he may not text as much-- maybe try calling. Otherwise I wouldn't worry about it. If he really wanted to spend time with you he'd find a way to let you know it and follow through.
I was talking to a guy this morning who was married and his wife passed over a while back...amazingly intelligent guy, very aloof, very attractive. He was dating a beautiful Swedish lady and treated her badly.....he is still chasing her ... She tells me he seems to like the push and pull ... she ended it with him some time ago....but still he chases. She tells me he is also a compulsive Iiar
He is getting married in September. He told me this morning....it's for "companionship" so I replied "how very Aquarian" and he smiled.
Very complex guy.....in his 50s now, but still living a life of divine discontentment
Welcome to the world of the Aqua man
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Thank you for all your answers! His venus is on the cusp of capricorn/aquarius, but it is mainly capricorn. His mars is scorpio...The thing is he is going away on the weekend, and I'm working very late nights from Wednesday onwards. On Tuesday there is this movie I wanted to watch, and could send him the details of it, what do you think?
Should i tell him when i see him that i am happy to date him casually and get to know him better in a friendly laid back manner? That is what I ideally want, to get to know him better, but don't want to scare him off by talking about this either. It doesn't seem like it based on this post, but I am quite a laid back and happy person, much prefer to go with the flow. Thanks x
You've only been out with this guy one time right? When he responds to you, let him know that there is a movie you'd like to see. Invite him out on a date and see what he says. If he says yes, great. If he, says he can't, then table the offer and let him contact you. If he gives you an alternate date/or plan, then that's still a good sign. Basically you can't push an Aqua to do anything, especially not this early.
Beyond that just go with the flow. Don't be too clingy and give him the space to come to you. Once you've seen him two or three times, then you can be direct and let him know you'd like to date him. Don't be overbearing about it, just keep it fun.
Also just know that he may be very busy as a lawyer depending on his field. Some lawyers figure out how to have normal social lives after a while, but a lot of them get SLAMMED by work. Just something to remember.
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sound advice here. speaking from the daughter of a lawyer whose very detached, you will have to give him some time to make accomodations for you in his life which is terribly busy. don't put all your eggs in one basket and keep it fun for now. the less pressure he feels from you, the more comfortable he'll feel making you a regular part of his life.
Go see the movie by yourself and tell him how much you enjoyed it and how much it would have appealled to him. Do not pressure him. If they are interested, they make extremely small steps at the beginning. Approach him in a friendly manner and truly enjoy his company for what he is. Give him lots of space until he makes you his first priority.
Few people have this patience, so think well before proceeding. I succeeded, but I am also an air sign. Good luck!
Thank you all for reading your excellent advice! Love it..
I'm a Taurus but with quite a lot of cancer. I'm very sensitive but also independent and am able to give people lots of space. My best friend is aquarius and omg sometimes she acts so detached... she hasn't spoken to me in three weeks. I've reached out to her twice and will let her come to me this time..
I don't think I've acted desperate so far with this guy, but please correct me if I'm wrong! I haven't double texted him or anything... he is the one who said we should go to the cinema, plus he added me on Facebook two days ago. I asked him if he was free today or tomorrow, with an additional funny pic sent at the same time, he saw he meaaages and hasn't answered. Is this desperate? Serious question.
I did go to the cinema today and it was an excellent movie, should I say that without it sounding bitter?
Aquarius friends of mine who are in relationships seem to have very dominant girlfriends who claimed them. I'm not like this.. I love Aquarius people! I seem to attract them left and right, not sure why...
Aquas have a completely different time frame and perception regarding relationships, so I believe the OP is right. We all have personal expectations. Seeing an Aquarian that commits in a blink of an eye is like winning the jackpot of the lottery. Barely possible. Aquas can be handled by too few to be worth mentioning.
Okey, thanks for your harsh but insightful comments.. 🙂
Posted by anotherone
Thanks for your answer 🙂Should I nudge him with another text, or just let him come to me in his own time?
Aquas, especially the guys, run on their own schedule. They pretty much get back to you when they feel like it. This is because Aquas can have a different perception of time. A few days without contact isn't as big of a deal is it is for most other signs.
Aquas also go against convention, which even means their manner of communicating runs at their speed, not yours. Aquas also love their freedom. So the last thing you want to do is get too attached to their presence. You'll find that an Aquas may be in your face one day and completely gone the next.
As @Capmercury87 put it, life happens and an Aqua may be off doing whatever else. Aquas can also forget to respond in a normal time frame. Since Aquas cherish their freedom, they may date several people at once. Meaning when this guy isn't talking to you, he may be busy or talking to someone else. Just assume that he has his own life outside of yours.
Astrology aside, since you two are just getting to know each other, delays in communication are to be expected. My advice is to have him respond before you text again. Over texting will only make you look needy right now. Likewise, make sure you're dating other people as well. The worst thing you could do is get hung up on a person too early. It's best to go with the flow and not get too wrapped up in one person.
You are not smart mister.
We aquas don't date multiple people, depends on Venus etc.
If I have interest in some one I would lose that interest immediately if they were dating other people. This guy is a moron don't listen to him.
Jesus Christ just go to a different forum until you know what your talking about
That may work for you. I know Aquas who'll date casually and remain detached until someone actually makes an emotional connection with them.
What may work for me sorry?
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No worries, that comment was directed at Capmercury.
I'm very sensitive but also independent and am able to give people lots of space.
Your version and an Aquas version of space and independence various significantly because...
My best friend is aquarius and omg sometimes she acts so detached... she hasn't spoken to me in three weeks. I've reached out to her twice and will let her come to me this time..
This should tell you more or less how Aquas operate.
I don't think I've acted desperate so far with this guy, but please correct me if I'm wrong! I haven't double texted him or anything...
Doesn't matter what you think it's what he 'knows'. Aquas have acute almost scary intuition. They come across as psychics and they can sense this in you.
he is the one who said we should go to the cinema, plus he added me on Facebook two days ago. I asked him if he was free today or tomorrow, with an additional funny pic sent at the same time, he saw he meaaages and hasn't answered. Is this desperate? Serious question.
It's common for Aquarius to go mia in mid conversations or just not reply back at all. They're lazy when it comes to back and forth conversations. They drift off to create space and do what they have to do and come back when they realize they left a pending conversation.
I did go to the cinema today and it was an excellent movie, should I say that without it sounding bitter?
Don't even reply back. Act as though you didn't notice he left.
Aquarius friends of mine who are in relationships seem to have very dominant girlfriends who claimed them. I'm not like this.. I love Aquarius people! I seem to attract them left and right, not sure why...
They end up with Aquarius because #1 those Aquas fell in love and #2 they were patient enough to deal with their Aquas #3 chances are that Aquas are in control of the relationships BEHIND the scenes.
You have placements, possibly your 7th house, in air.
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have i lost all hope with this guy then? We went almost a week with no contact so it's not like i was reaching out every day...
How do I find out my 7th house?
I am moving back home to Sweden for a few months, I just wanted to see him another time before I left. I literally am not expecting a relationship right now
I do not see any harm in contacting him and telling him that you want to hang out one more time in a casual manner before you leave. He will probably agree to see each other again. Only mention when you leave and see his reaction about the possibility to see you again. I cannot say more, as I was not present at your first date to see his body language and I don't know in what terms you parted.
Posted by anotherone
Thanks for your answer 🙂Should I nudge him with another text, or just let him come to me in his own time?
Aquas, especially the guys, run on their own schedule. They pretty much get back to you when they feel like it. This is because Aquas can have a different perception of time. A few days without contact isn't as big of a deal is it is for most other signs.
Aquas also go against convention, which even means their manner of communicating runs at their speed, not yours. Aquas also love their freedom. So the last thing you want to do is get too attached to their presence. You'll find that an Aquas may be in your face one day and completely gone the next.
As @Capmercury87 put it, life happens and an Aqua may be off doing whatever else. Aquas can also forget to respond in a normal time frame. Since Aquas cherish their freedom, they may date several people at once. Meaning when this guy isn't talking to you, he may be busy or talking to someone else. Just assume that he has his own life outside of yours.
Astrology aside, since you two are just getting to know each other, delays in communication are to be expected. My advice is to have him respond before you text again. Over texting will only make you look needy right now. Likewise, make sure you're dating other people as well. The worst thing you could do is get hung up on a person too early. It's best to go with the flow and not get too wrapped up in one person.
You are not smart mister.
We aquas don't date multiple people, depends on Venus etc.
If I have interest in some one I would lose that interest immediately if they were dating other people. This guy is a moron don't listen to him.
Jesus Christ just go to a different forum until you know what your talking about
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Your a female though. It's different for dudes, regardless of sign, guys will be dating multiple girls. It's silly to expect he's only seeing the op after 1 date...
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I am moving back home to Sweden for a few months, I just wanted to see him another time before I left. I literally am not expecting a relationship right now
Reach out again and if he doesn't get back to you then its his loss. You can go back home knowing that on your end you made the effort.
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Ok i have taken all of your advices, and didn't contact him. It is a little strange that he added me on Facebook, and today he liked some of my pics, but hasn't gotten back to me about going to the cinema. I'll just give him space... I don't think I should date an aquarian, they are better as friends. Doesn't seem like he likes me at all.People who say this, don't know how to handle an Aqua and therefore don't deserve to be with an Aqua.
Exactly.. The OP is desperate and the desperation is already showing.. Aquas Imo prefer to start slowly and build a friendship first before getting deep into a relationship. They like a lot of space and probably fair better in universal relationships moreso than one to one relationships. They are the humanitarian of the zodiac along with sag. Kling-ons like the OP needn't apply.
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Your responses are getting cookie cutter. Step up your game.
Thanks! Well when we were going to part, he looked up cinema times for that night on his phone and nothing was on, so he suggested we get a last drink before we leave. We ended up just walking round the city for a bit instead, talking and hugging or holding hands and he kept tickling me. He did a sad puppy face when we were at the tube station, then texted a while later saying 'shame we had to part. maybe we should do this again, go to the cinema'
I've dated two aquarius men. One guy was four years ago, he pursued me for a few months and then after we had sex he totally ghosted me. He came back a year later, I refused to be his friend but after a few months forgave him and we now talk every day and I would consider him one of my closest friends.
Second guy I felt a lot of connection with, but he tried to sleep with me on the first date and got very annoyed and kept rolling his eyes at me when I didn't go to his house. Then he kept flaking on me and then told me he is not over his ex. We are now friends but I've been keeping my distance because he is quite a bitter and harsh person, even though he is very fun to hang out with and can talk about a lot of things with him.
Posted by anotherone
Thanks! Well when we were going to part, he looked up cinema times for that night on his phone and nothing was on, so he suggested we get a last drink before we leave. We ended up just walking round the city for a bit instead, talking and hugging or holding hands and he kept tickling me. He did a sad puppy face when we were at the tube station, then texted a while later saying 'shame we had to part. maybe we should do this again, go to the cinema'
He let the door open. Go for it, but be prepared for nothing. Let him decide. Anyway, I do not believe he may consider anything solid, as you live probably in completely separated locations. Live the moment, but don't be anchored by it.
Thank you compy, I will be back here, but after the summer. Appreciate your answers x
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I've dated two aquarius men. One guy was four years ago, he pursued me for a few months and then after we had sex he totally ghosted me. He came back a year later, I refused to be his friend but after a few months forgave him and we now talk every day and I would consider him one of my closest friends.Second guy I felt a lot of connection with, but he tried to sleep with me on the first date and got very annoyed and kept rolling his eyes at me when I didn't go to his house. Then he kept flaking on me and then told me he is not over his ex. We are now friends but I've been keeping my distance because he is quite a bitter and harsh person, even though he is very fun to hang out with and can talk about a lot of things with him.
I was with two also.....lived with one (nightmare)
There was never gonna be a third.....you know? Sormetimes we need to have two goes to make quite sure, but a third time can be suicide. I am so grateful I never got pregnant with any of those guys...
What are your placements OP?
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I've dated two aquarius men. One guy was four years ago, he pursued me for a few months and then after we had sex he totally ghosted me. He came back a year later, I refused to be his friend but after a few months forgave him and we now talk every day and I would consider him one of my closest friends.Second guy I felt a lot of connection with, but he tried to sleep with me on the first date and got very annoyed and kept rolling his eyes at me when I didn't go to his house. Then he kept flaking on me and then told me he is not over his ex. We are now friends but I've been keeping my distance because he is quite a bitter and harsh person, even though he is very fun to hang out with and can talk about a lot of things with him.
I was with two also.....lived with one (nightmare)
There was never gonna be a third.....you know? Sormetimes we need to have two goes to make quite sure, but a third time can be suicide. I am so grateful I never got pregnant with any of those guys...
What are your placements OP?
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You'll never know. Third time lucky
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I've dated two aquarius men. One guy was four years ago, he pursued me for a few months and then after we had sex he totally ghosted me. He came back a year later, I refused to be his friend but after a few months forgave him and we now talk every day and I would consider him one of my closest friends.Second guy I felt a lot of connection with, but he tried to sleep with me on the first date and got very annoyed and kept rolling his eyes at me when I didn't go to his house. Then he kept flaking on me and then told me he is not over his ex. We are now friends but I've been keeping my distance because he is quite a bitter and harsh person, even though he is very fun to hang out with and can talk about a lot of things with him.
I was with two also.....lived with one (nightmare)
There was never gonna be a third.....you know? Sormetimes we need to have two goes to make quite sure, but a third time can be suicide. I am so grateful I never got pregnant with any of those guys...
What are your placements OP?
You'll never know. Third time lucky
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I will bear that in mind lol
They are interesting people and I am very attracted but romance with them, for me, leaves me wanting to pull my hair out lol
Are you a psychic? 😛
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I've dated two aquarius men. One guy was four years ago, he pursued me for a few months and then after we had sex he totally ghosted me. He came back a year later, I refused to be his friend but after a few months forgave him and we now talk every day and I would consider him one of my closest friends.Second guy I felt a lot of connection with, but he tried to sleep with me on the first date and got very annoyed and kept rolling his eyes at me when I didn't go to his house. Then he kept flaking on me and then told me he is not over his ex. We are now friends but I've been keeping my distance because he is quite a bitter and harsh person, even though he is very fun to hang out with and can talk about a lot of things with him.
I was with two also.....lived with one (nightmare)
There was never gonna be a third.....you know? Sormetimes we need to have two goes to make quite sure, but a third time can be suicide. I am so grateful I never got pregnant with any of those guys...
What are your placements OP?
You'll never know. Third time lucky
I will bear that in mind lol
They are interesting people and I am very attracted but romance with them, for me, leaves me wanting to pull my hair out lol
Are you a psychic? 😛
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Not a psychic lol but I remember one of your stories about aqua males.
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I've dated two aquarius men. One guy was four years ago, he pursued me for a few months and then after we had sex he totally ghosted me. He came back a year later, I refused to be his friend but after a few months forgave him and we now talk every day and I would consider him one of my closest friends.Second guy I felt a lot of connection with, but he tried to sleep with me on the first date and got very annoyed and kept rolling his eyes at me when I didn't go to his house. Then he kept flaking on me and then told me he is not over his ex. We are now friends but I've been keeping my distance because he is quite a bitter and harsh person, even though he is very fun to hang out with and can talk about a lot of things with him.
I was with two also.....lived with one (nightmare)
There was never gonna be a third.....you know? Sormetimes we need to have two goes to make quite sure, but a third time can be suicide. I am so grateful I never got pregnant with any of those guys...
What are your placements OP?
You'll never know. Third time lucky
I will bear that in mind lol
They are interesting people and I am very attracted but romance with them, for me, leaves me wanting to pull my hair out lol
Are you a psychic? 😛
Not a psychic lol but I remember one of your stories about aqua males.
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I meant about the future
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I've dated two aquarius men. One guy was four years ago, he pursued me for a few months and then after we had sex he totally ghosted me. He came back a year later, I refused to be his friend but after a few months forgave him and we now talk every day and I would consider him one of my closest friends.Second guy I felt a lot of connection with, but he tried to sleep with me on the first date and got very annoyed and kept rolling his eyes at me when I didn't go to his house. Then he kept flaking on me and then told me he is not over his ex. We are now friends but I've been keeping my distance because he is quite a bitter and harsh person, even though he is very fun to hang out with and can talk about a lot of things with him.
I was with two also.....lived with one (nightmare)
There was never gonna be a third.....you know? Sormetimes we need to have two goes to make quite sure, but a third time can be suicide. I am so grateful I never got pregnant with any of those guys...
What are your placements OP?
You'll never know. Third time lucky
I will bear that in mind lol
They are interesting people and I am very attracted but romance with them, for me, leaves me wanting to pull my hair out lol
Are you a psychic? 😛
Not a psychic lol but I remember one of your stories about aqua males.
I meant about the future
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Aqua sun with Leo moon would be perfect for you just saying :-P
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I've dated two aquarius men. One guy was four years ago, he pursued me for a few months and then after we had sex he totally ghosted me. He came back a year later, I refused to be his friend but after a few months forgave him and we now talk every day and I would consider him one of my closest friends.Second guy I felt a lot of connection with, but he tried to sleep with me on the first date and got very annoyed and kept rolling his eyes at me when I didn't go to his house. Then he kept flaking on me and then told me he is not over his ex. We are now friends but I've been keeping my distance because he is quite a bitter and harsh person, even though he is very fun to hang out with and can talk about a lot of things with him.
I was with two also.....lived with one (nightmare)
There was never gonna be a third.....you know? Sormetimes we need to have two goes to make quite sure, but a third time can be suicide. I am so grateful I never got pregnant with any of those guys...
What are your placements OP?
You'll never know. Third time lucky
I will bear that in mind lol
They are interesting people and I am very attracted but romance with them, for me, leaves me wanting to pull my hair out lol
Are you a psychic? 😛
Not a psychic lol but I remember one of your stories about aqua males.
I meant about the future
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Aqua sun with Leo moon would be perfect for you just saying :-P
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I am a full on Scorp....those two signs are squared to me and the two I find the least compatible ...
Posted by anotherone
I've dated two aquarius men. One guy was four years ago, he pursued me for a few months and then after we had sex he totally ghosted me. He came back a year later, I refused to be his friend but after a few months forgave him and we now talk every day and I would consider him one of my closest friends.Second guy I felt a lot of connection with, but he tried to sleep with me on the first date and got very annoyed and kept rolling his eyes at me when I didn't go to his house. Then he kept flaking on me and then told me he is not over his ex. We are now friends but I've been keeping my distance because he is quite a bitter and harsh person, even though he is very fun to hang out with and can talk about a lot of things with him.
I was with two also.....lived with one (nightmare)
There was never gonna be a third.....you know? Sormetimes we need to have two goes to make quite sure, but a third time can be suicide. I am so grateful I never got pregnant with any of those guys...
What are your placements OP?
You'll never know. Third time lucky
I will bear that in mind lol
They are interesting people and I am very attracted but romance with them, for me, leaves me wanting to pull my hair out lol
Are you a psychic? 😛
Not a psychic lol but I remember one of your stories about aqua males.
I meant about the future
🙂
Aqua sun with Leo moon would be perfect for you just saying :-P
I am a full on Scorp....those two signs are squared to me and the two I find the least compatible ...
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I'm aware of that. Besides, squares are hot.
You were born under fullmoon not a full scorp. :-)
Posted by anotherone
I've dated two aquarius men. One guy was four years ago, he pursued me for a few months and then after we had sex he totally ghosted me. He came back a year later, I refused to be his friend but after a few months forgave him and we now talk every day and I would consider him one of my closest friends.Second guy I felt a lot of connection with, but he tried to sleep with me on the first date and got very annoyed and kept rolling his eyes at me when I didn't go to his house. Then he kept flaking on me and then told me he is not over his ex. We are now friends but I've been keeping my distance because he is quite a bitter and harsh person, even though he is very fun to hang out with and can talk about a lot of things with him.
I was with two also.....lived with one (nightmare)
There was never gonna be a third.....you know? Sormetimes we need to have two goes to make quite sure, but a third time can be suicide. I am so grateful I never got pregnant with any of those guys...
What are your placements OP?
You'll never know. Third time lucky
I will bear that in mind lol
They are interesting people and I am very attracted but romance with them, for me, leaves me wanting to pull my hair out lol
Are you a psychic? 😛
Not a psychic lol but I remember one of your stories about aqua males.
I meant about the future
🙂
Aqua sun with Leo moon would be perfect for you just saying :-P
I am a full on Scorp....those two signs are squared to me and the two I find the least compatible ...
I'm aware of that. Besides, squares are hot.
You were born under fullmoon not a full scorp. :-)
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Thanks but I've done hot, tension etc.......I just look for funny, like minded people these days, those I can flow with not square up to, that is exhausting
Posted by anotherone
I've dated two aquarius men. One guy was four years ago, he pursued me for a few months and then after we had sex he totally ghosted me. He came back a year later, I refused to be his friend but after a few months forgave him and we now talk every day and I would consider him one of my closest friends.Second guy I felt a lot of connection with, but he tried to sleep with me on the first date and got very annoyed and kept rolling his eyes at me when I didn't go to his house. Then he kept flaking on me and then told me he is not over his ex. We are now friends but I've been keeping my distance because he is quite a bitter and harsh person, even though he is very fun to hang out with and can talk about a lot of things with him.
I was with two also.....lived with one (nightmare)
There was never gonna be a third.....you know? Sormetimes we need to have two goes to make quite sure, but a third time can be suicide. I am so grateful I never got pregnant with any of those guys...
What are your placements OP?
You'll never know. Third time lucky
I will bear that in mind lol
They are interesting people and I am very attracted but romance with them, for me, leaves me wanting to pull my hair out lol
Are you a psychic? 😛
Not a psychic lol but I remember one of your stories about aqua males.
I meant about the future
🙂
Aqua sun with Leo moon would be perfect for you just saying :-P
I am a full on Scorp....those two signs are squared to me and the two I find the least compatible ...
I'm aware of that. Besides, squares are hot.
You were born under fullmoon not a full scorp. :-)
Thanks but I've done hot, tension etc.......I just look for funny, like minded people these days, those I can flow with not square up to, that is exhausting
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Lol yeah I've been there too
Posted by anotherone
I've dated two aquarius men. One guy was four years ago, he pursued me for a few months and then after we had sex he totally ghosted me. He came back a year later, I refused to be his friend but after a few months forgave him and we now talk every day and I would consider him one of my closest friends.Second guy I felt a lot of connection with, but he tried to sleep with me on the first date and got very annoyed and kept rolling his eyes at me when I didn't go to his house. Then he kept flaking on me and then told me he is not over his ex. We are now friends but I've been keeping my distance because he is quite a bitter and harsh person, even though he is very fun to hang out with and can talk about a lot of things with him.
I was with two also.....lived with one (nightmare)
There was never gonna be a third.....you know? Sormetimes we need to have two goes to make quite sure, but a third time can be suicide. I am so grateful I never got pregnant with any of those guys...
What are your placements OP?
You'll never know. Third time lucky
I will bear that in mind lol
They are interesting people and I am very attracted but romance with them, for me, leaves me wanting to pull my hair out lol
Are you a psychic? 😛
Not a psychic lol but I remember one of your stories about aqua males.
I meant about the future
🙂
Aqua sun with Leo moon would be perfect for you just saying :-P
I am a full on Scorp....those two signs are squared to me and the two I find the least compatible ...
I'm aware of that. Besides, squares are hot.
You were born under fullmoon not a full scorp. :-)
Thanks but I've done hot, tension etc.......I just look for funny, like minded people these days, those I can flow with not square up to, that is exhausting
Lol yeah I've been there too
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Extreme love, like extreme sports....okay in small doses and for short periods of time 🙂
My placements are:
sun taurus, aries moon, venus cancer, mars cancer, 7th house cancer, asc capricorn. They need to stop coming into my life -_- I want a deep relationship with someone who appreciates me
Posted by MyStarsShine
I was talking to a guy this morning who was married and his wife passed over a while back...amazingly intelligent guy, very aloof, very attractive. He was dating a beautiful Swedish lady and treated her badly.....he is still chasing her ... She tells me he seems to like the push and pull ... she ended it with him some time ago....but still he chases. She tells me he is also a compulsive IiarHe is getting married in September. He told me this morning....it's for "companionship" so I replied "how very Aquarian" and he smiled.
Very complex guy.....in his 50s now, but still living a life of divine discontentment
Welcome to the world of the Aqua man
Oh my
Lord..... why oh why did I meet an Aqua man...'I hope mine isn't an compulsive liar..'and how exactly they did get married? I do agree Aqua the push and pull, as much as they love consistency , the inconsistency and the unpredictability seems to get them back on track... somehow it's like that, my Aqua moon operates the same....'I have a problem too then haha
Posted by anotherone
My placements are:sun taurus, aries moon, venus cancer, mars cancer, 7th house cancer, asc capricorn. They need to stop coming into my life -_- I want a deep relationship with someone who appreciates me
I think your Aries moon keep attracting them.... my Aqua moon loves Aqua people ...unfortunately lol
Posted by anotherone
I've dated two aquarius men. One guy was four years ago, he pursued me for a few months and then after we had sex he totally ghosted me. He came back a year later, I refused to be his friend but after a few months forgave him and we now talk every day and I would consider him one of my closest friends.Second guy I felt a lot of connection with, but he tried to sleep with me on the first date and got very annoyed and kept rolling his eyes at me when I didn't go to his house. Then he kept flaking on me and then told me he is not over his ex. We are now friends but I've been keeping my distance because he is quite a bitter and harsh person, even though he is very fun to hang out with and can talk about a lot of things with him.
I was with two also.....lived with one (nightmare)
There was never gonna be a third.....you know? Sormetimes we need to have two goes to make quite sure, but a third time can be suicide. I am so grateful I never got pregnant with any of those guys...
What are your placements OP?
You'll never know. Third time lucky
I will bear that in mind lol
They are interesting people and I am very attracted but romance with them, for me, leaves me wanting to pull my hair out lol
Are you a psychic? 😛
Not a psychic lol but I remember one of your stories about aqua males.
I meant about the future
🙂
Aqua sun with Leo moon would be perfect for you just saying :-P
I am a full on Scorp....those two signs are squared to me and the two I find the least compatible ...
I'm aware of that. Besides, squares are hot.
You were born under fullmoon not a full scorp. :-)
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I was born under a waning gibbous moon
Posted by starwars
key to aquas: live in the moment, go on about your life, let him go about his, quality over quantity, let go of the little annoying things that seriously dont matter.
This is way too true.
Posted by anotherone
My placements are:sun taurus, aries moon, venus cancer, mars cancer, 7th house cancer, asc capricorn. They need to stop coming into my life -_- I want a deep relationship with someone who appreciates me
Your 7th house cancer will need a stable nurturing partner
YES i really crave a stable nurturing partner. There was this really sweet and handsome Leo with venus in Cancer (moon in aquarius and he was also drawn to me), but for some reason he has gone off the radar, he said he needs to focus on himself to get over some issues but wants to see me when he's settled.
Posted by anotherone
My placements are:sun taurus, aries moon, venus cancer, mars cancer, 7th house cancer, asc capricorn. They need to stop coming into my life -_- I want a deep relationship with someone who appreciates me
Your 7th house cancer will need a stable nurturing partner
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So it's the sun placement ? Mine is a Taurus sun 8 th house. ?
Posted by anotherone
YES i really crave a stable nurturing partner. There was this really sweet and handsome Leo with venus in Cancer (moon in aquarius and he was also drawn to me), but for some reason he has gone off the radar, he said he needs to focus on himself to get over some issues but wants to see me when he's settled.
I'm not so sure if moon in Aqua will go ok with ur cancer sun.. I have moon in Aqua and in person I am way too detached as hell lol...😢 it's a blessing n a curse
Posted by anotherone
YES i really crave a stable nurturing partner. There was this really sweet and handsome Leo with venus in Cancer (moon in aquarius and he was also drawn to me), but for some reason he has gone off the radar, he said he needs to focus on himself to get over some issues but wants to see me when he's settled.I'm not so sure if moon in Aqua will go ok with ur cancer sun.. I have moon in Aqua and in person I am way too detached as hell lol...😢 it's a blessing n a curse
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That makes sense. Are you detached because you get scared? Do you prefer to be pursued or do you prefer to pursue?
Posted by anotherone
YES i really crave a stable nurturing partner. There was this really sweet and handsome Leo with venus in Cancer (moon in aquarius and he was also drawn to me), but for some reason he has gone off the radar, he said he needs to focus on himself to get over some issues but wants to see me when he's settled.I'm not so sure if moon in Aqua will go ok with ur cancer sun.. I have moon in Aqua and in person I am way too detached as hell lol...😢 it's a blessing n a curse
That makes sense. Are you detached because you get scared? Do you prefer to be pursued or do you prefer to pursue?
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it all depends... if the person is too much for me emotionally I detach, coz I don't want that kind of relationship when it's just about me and him. I operate very similar to Aqua people. I love my space and the Aqua I'm seeing knows how to keep me and keep himself in the game with me... he keeps me guessing , push n pull is exciting for me(i hate it but love it at the same time)..... I become detach also if I feel I'm feeling too much or I'm scared he's seeing other people or something, there r times when I try to move on and delete and install the chat app like 10 times in one day. It drives me nuts. I'm working on my vulnerability very hard to this very day and the person who help me understand and show me that is ok is this Aqua sun I'm seeing coz he has loads of Pisces in him......😢 ... to him I prob don't give much to the relationship but to me I am giving a lot lol.... so that explains a little right? Also, if I'm trying to move on to someone new or slow down on contacts n not really talking anymore is because I'm trying to hint that it won't work out... basically if u let me be me, and accept me for who I truly im then I'm all in.. ESP my crazy side of me... 😉 I also want that in a partner. Boredom is hell to me lol
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Hello everyone!
I seem to attract aquarius men left and right...
Went on a date on Tuesday with an aquarius guy who is a lawyer and 10 years older than me. I was not expecting much but as soon as we met it was instant connection, we were making each other laugh, talked a ton. Half way through the date he leaned in to kiss me and after that we couldn't get our hands off each other. We walked down the street hugging each other, was sweet. He texted that night saying we should go to the cinema.
Next day I texted him something about what we were talking about, and said I was free Monday and Tuesday for the cinema. I assumed he was not interested and deleted his number as he didn't answer for a few days, but yesterday he added me on facebook and texted me as well. The fact that he added me on fb after only one date I think could be a sign that he is interested. He wrote that the cinema sounds good, so I asked him which day was better, and he has not answered... should I text him again or let him be? And if I should text, what should I say? I've made plans for tomorrow now with my friends so only Tuesday is available to me..
I feel like now maybe he is just seeing what other options he has or something, or maybe he is just very detached like this. On his Facebook wall people write to him and he doesn't ever comment on them, and if he does it is days later... so that is the kind of guy he seems to be.