My Aquarius Guy - A Lesson Learned

Hi All,

I wanted to thank everyone who had supported me through my trials with the Aquarius guy that I've been seeing. Though it may have seemed I wasn't taking your advice at the time - I still had it kept in the back of my mind.

It's been two days since I had walked away from my Aqua guy. I think the hardest part of it all, was this time he didn't fight to keep me. That day that I told him I no longer couldn't continue being with him, he mentioned that he was still in love with his ex and couldn't give up on her. He also stated that he is aware he will probably get hurt in the end - but he wants to try.

You guys were indeed correct on his tact of reducing us to a friendship so the blow wouldn't be as hard when he left me for her.

I had come to the realization that yes, I was the rebound. Though my feelings for him was real, I question the authenticity of his towards me. I feel like everything had been a lie.

He wanted to meet for dinner next week to discuss everything further, but I ended up blocking him. I'm not going to waste my time on his "fantasy" of staying friends.

I think my stubbornness from being a Taurus moon got the best of me and I really should have listened. Also, being an double earth sign (Sun/Moon), trying to make things work and having a hard time letting go also played into this.

Again, thank you all for your support and being patient with me.

-Milani

Good for you Milani

Just try and stick to the path you have chosen to walk. If you have any weak moments, post on here and we will help the best we can.

Good luck

Good to hear, onward and upward.

MrR78 - Thank you - really hope I dont get to a low because I am going to focus these bitter feelings into redefining myself and going to the gym to get 'hot' .... But if I do, I will reach out to you guys!

No problem message me anytime

Posted by MilaniKisses
MrR78 - Thank you - really hope I dont get to a low because I am going to focus these bitter feelings into redefining myself and going to the gym to get 'hot' .... But if I do, I will reach out to you guys!

I'm getting hot at the moment too. It's good

For the soul.

I'm happy for you.

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Posted by MilaniKisses
MrR78 - Thank you - really hope I dont get to a low because I am going to focus these bitter feelings into redefining myself and going to the gym to get 'hot' .... But if I do, I will reach out to you guys!

I'm getting hot at the moment too. It's good

For the soul.

I'm happy for you.

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Yes it is! And thank you!

guys - I don't know what stage I'm at now.... Yesterday it was about anger at him and the situation, today I am missing him.

He has still found ways to talk to me daily since then, but its been brief. Errr, I miss him.

He still brought up the pre-planned day we had for next Tuesday... I assumed he thought it wasn't happening because I left him, but he still sounded like he wanted it to happen.

Crap, not sure what to do about next Tuesday. Its actually really important for him because its a court thing for custody over his first child. I already committed to it last week...

-Milani

Would you be trying to deceive the court into thinking he is in a relationship with you, since you clearly are not together?!

Stop giving yourself excuses to talk and see him. I am literally watching you find ways to stay in communication.

I told you this before and I will say it again, learn to be alone first.

Posted by Undine
Would you be trying to deceive the court into thinking he is in a relationship with you, since you clearly are not together?!

No no, I wouldnt even go into the building as its a mediation thing between him and his baby's mother.

Posted by MilaniKisses

Posted by Undine
Would you be trying to deceive the court into thinking he is in a relationship with you, since you clearly are not together?!

No no, I wouldnt even go into the building as its a mediation thing between him and his baby's mother.

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Where would you be then and why?

Ok Milani

This is from personal experience.

The one thing I can as a Leo I can relate to is the stubbornness and ego both Leos and Taurus share. Now this is going to reak havoc on you, and I can tell you from personal experience its not nice.

I did this very late in my post break up mend, but what may help is for you to write down all the positive and negative things about the Aqua and you will find based on your experience that there will be more negative than positive.

Everytime you feel like you are having a bad day or perhaps your emotions or logic gets the better of you, refer back to this list. Keep telling yourself why you broke it off in the first place and that you made the right decision.

The only difference between our situations is that I was ghosted and you are still being pursued. The bottom line that both can still be seen as mind games and you don't want to get sucked back into that.

Stay strong..... it does get easier.

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Posted by MilaniKisses
Hi All,

I wanted to thank everyone who had supported me through my trials with the Aquarius guy that I've been seeing. Though it may have seemed I wasn't taking your advice at the time - I still had it kept in the back of my mind.

It's been two days since I had walked away from my Aqua guy. I think the hardest part of it all, was this time he didn't fight to keep me. That day that I told him I no longer couldn't continue being with him, he mentioned that he was still in love with his ex and couldn't give up on her. He also stated that he is aware he will probably get hurt in the end - but he wants to try.

You guys were indeed correct on his tact of reducing us to a friendship so the blow wouldn't be as hard when he left me for her.

I had come to the realization that yes, I was the rebound. Though my feelings for him was real, I question the authenticity of his towards me. I feel like everything had been a lie.

He wanted to meet for dinner next week to discuss everything further, but I ended up blocking him. I'm not going to waste my time on his "fantasy" of staying friends.

I think my stubbornness from being a Taurus moon got the best of me and I really should have listened. Also, being an double earth sign (Sun/Moon), trying to make things work and having a hard time letting go also played into this.

Again, thank you all for your support and being patient with me.

-Milani

Find a water guy with many earth?

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Is this water guy with many earths, you?

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Posted by MilaniKisses

Posted by Neno2

Posted by MilaniKisses
Hi All,

I wanted to thank everyone who had supported me through my trials with the Aquarius guy that I've been seeing. Though it may have seemed I wasn't taking your advice at the time - I still had it kept in the back of my mind.

It's been two days since I had walked away from my Aqua guy. I think the hardest part of it all, was this time he didn't fight to keep me. That day that I told him I no longer couldn't continue being with him, he mentioned that he was still in love with his ex and couldn't give up on her. He also stated that he is aware he will probably get hurt in the end - but he wants to try.

You guys were indeed correct on his tact of reducing us to a friendship so the blow wouldn't be as hard when he left me for her.

I had come to the realization that yes, I was the rebound. Though my feelings for him was real, I question the authenticity of his towards me. I feel like everything had been a lie.

He wanted to meet for dinner next week to discuss everything further, but I ended up blocking him. I'm not going to waste my time on his "fantasy" of staying friends.

I think my stubbornness from being a Taurus moon got the best of me and I really should have listened. Also, being an double earth sign (Sun/Moon), trying to make things work and having a hard time letting go also played into this.

Again, thank you all for your support and being patient with me.

-Milani

Find a water guy with many earth?

Is this water guy with many earths, you?

Yes?its not my fault u need someone like me?

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