What does it mean if he takes hours to text back?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by anotherone on Wednesday, April 12, 2017 and has 10 replies.

What does it mean if he takes hours to text back

Taking hours to reply can indicate he is busy or not fully engaged, especially for an Aquarius man who values independence. It does not necessarily mean disinterest but can also reflect his communication style. Pay attention to his overall behavior and consistency to understand his true level of interest.

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@anotherone
9 Years

Hello everyone!

I went on a date yesterday with an Aquarius man. He was really affectionate with me, we laughed a lot, i was quite confident around him and he was interested in me. We tried to go to the cinema after but it was too late. When I got home he texted saying he wants to see me again to go to the cinema.

He is capricorn/aquarius cusp for Mars and Venus, and Virgo Moon.

I am Taurus with venus in cancer, aries moon. I realise we are not very compatible, I seem to attract aquarius men all the time!

How will he show interest? I texted him today at lunch time a photo of something he asked to see so he could help me with it (he is a lawyer and it was something to do with that). He saw the photo and didn't answer, and it is now the next day! Does this mean he is not interested, or is this typical of an Aquarius?

Thanks.

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@anotherone
9 Years

Yes he is a lawyer but finishes normal time, and was on whatsapp quite a bit after that.

Are you aquarius Lunabee? Maybe because I am taurus with venus in cancer, I normally text back as soon as I can unless I don't like the guy, so I take this as a sign of low interest... But I am open to hearing from other people if they don't see it as such

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@anotherone
9 Years

I deleted his number :/ I hope he answers back... but I just don't want to be hurt further down the line. If this is completely normal behaviour for an aquarius man then i absolutely don't mind because I like my space as well. But if this is low interest behaviour and is keeping me as a last option hanging by a thread, I'd rather move on.

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@anotherone
9 Years

Ok this is what i needed to hear, thank you. So basically this is not normal behaviour, and he would have texted back despite being an aloof aquarius?

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@Lunabee
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by anotherone
Yes he is a lawyer but finishes normal time, and was on whatsapp quite a bit after that.

Are you aquarius Lunabee? Maybe because I am taurus with venus in cancer, I normally text back as soon as I can unless I don't like the guy, so I take this as a sign of low interest... But I am open to hearing from other people if they don't see it as such

No I'm a sag. I usually text back too but I've taken weeks to respond because I wanted it to be right. I didn't text either, I called. And I think texting is a weak way to date. Let him show up.

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@sultrykitty
11 Years5,000+ Posts

A few days is totally normal. Heck, a week or 2 is totally normal, especially after a first date. Aqua/ Cappy is gonna be S-L-O-W, no matter how good your connection is.

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@anotherone
9 Years

that is fine then, i want to focus on myself anyway. I really don't mind aloofness or little contact for a few days, as long as the guy likes me (not him specifically but any guy I date).

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@Adreamuponwaking
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by anotherone
Hello everyone!

I went on a date yesterday with an Aquarius man. He was really affectionate with me, we laughed a lot, i was quite confident around him and he was interested in me. We tried to go to the cinema after but it was too late. When I got home he texted saying he wants to see me again to go to the cinema.

He is capricorn/aquarius cusp for Mars and Venus, and Virgo Moon.

I am Taurus with venus in cancer, aries moon. I realise we are not very compatible, I seem to attract aquarius men all the time!

How will he show interest? I texted him today at lunch time a photo of something he asked to see so he could help me with it (he is a lawyer and it was something to do with that). He saw the photo and didn't answer, and it is now the next day! Does this mean he is not interested, or is this typical of an Aquarius?

Thanks.

That he is busy.

Not everyone is attached to their phone.

People have lives to live.