Attracted to women with Libra Venus placement, but...

Quite of a few of the women I've been attracted to in my life have their Venus sign in Libra. The problem is, I have my Saturn in Libra, and from I've gathered over the years, this tends to have a dampening effect on a woman who has Venus in Libra. I've heard it more or less smoothers their ability to feel like a woman, or how they see themselves as a woman. I've heard that it carries a kind karmic connection where you feel deeply connected but learn of a lot of really difficult lessons.

So, I end up feeling uncomfortable even thinking about trying to go on a date with a girl if I astro-stalk her before the date and find out she has Venus in Libra, because I feel like I already know it's not going to feel that great for her, even if she likes me. Still, I keep finding myself far more attracted to women with this placement than any other. What's up with that? Am I wrong about something?

Thanks
- Blarndinned

Yeah, good point.

I agree with Plagued.

And there are so many other aspects when comparing charts that might help to offset any possible negative aspects.

It would be interesting if anyone has noticed a problem with people they've dated who have a Venus that conjuncts their Saturn, in any sign. There will be people who have that within their own chart too (Saturn conjunct their Venus) which supposedly can feel restrictive. Hard to know how it all truly plays out. I have some difficult aspects in my chart with Saturn, for example. My Venus is opposite my Saturn, for one.

I noticed that you and I have the same rising and moon (Taurus and Gemini, respectively). I wonder if our chart layout is similar because of that - it would depend on the degree of your Taurus rising (mine is 20 degrees).