Commonality

Ever meet someone that you had a lot in common with. Weirdly in common? How did you meet, what kind of relationship, and how did it turn out? What did you have in common?

I brought this up again in another thread recently, but my e-stalker and I had a lot in common. We talked for a few weeks before I cut communication and then he became a problem. Every topic I brought up he seemed to agree with - music and view points on various topics. Don't think he disagreed with one thing I said.

Perhaps in a friendship it would be good to have a lot in common, but in a relationship it would likely bore me.

Posted by Scenic
I brought this up again in another thread recently, but my e-stalker and I had a lot in common. We talked for a few weeks before I cut communication and then he became a problem. Every topic I brought up he seemed to agree with - music and view points on various topics. Don't think he disagreed with one thing I said.

Perhaps in a friendship it would be good to have a lot in common, but in a relationship it would likely bore me.

Do you think he legit agreed or just agreed to agree?

I have someone like that. Agreed on alot, but different thought processes to get there. I appreciated the different perspective.

Posted by channingtatumsneck
aww i love e stalkers. mine are venusian so we do have a lot of things to talk about. 😐

Venusian? Enlighten me please...

Posted by busyeyes88
My Pisces bestie had a Bro that I have been friends with for 27 years. He is a taurus and we share the exact birthday except that he was born a year before me. We liked exactly the same things and he wanted more but I was never attracted to him physically... He sister told him it would be a bad match as we were too alike!! "Twiddle dum and Twiddle dee " is how she phrased it!!! Lol

That's crazy!

Posted by christinelovessnickers

Posted by Scenic
I brought this up again in another thread recently, but my e-stalker and I had a lot in common. We talked for a few weeks before I cut communication and then he became a problem. Every topic I brought up he seemed to agree with - music and view points on various topics. Don't think he disagreed with one thing I said.

Perhaps in a friendship it would be good to have a lot in common, but in a relationship it would likely bore me.

Do you think he legit agreed or just agreed to agree?

I have someone like that. Agreed on alot, but different thought processes to get there. I appreciated the different perspective.

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I would guess that he actually agreed. Probably part of why he became so obsessed to begin with, though likely not the main reason.

Posted by Scenic

Posted by christinelovessnickers

Posted by Scenic
I brought this up again in another thread recently, but my e-stalker and I had a lot in common. We talked for a few weeks before I cut communication and then he became a problem. Every topic I brought up he seemed to agree with - music and view points on various topics. Don't think he disagreed with one thing I said.

Perhaps in a friendship it would be good to have a lot in common, but in a relationship it would likely bore me.

Do you think he legit agreed or just agreed to agree?

I have someone like that. Agreed on alot, but different thought processes to get there. I appreciated the different perspective.

I would guess that he actually agreed. Probably part of why he became so obsessed to begin with, though likely not the main reason.

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Hopefully that's situation is taken care of now

Posted by Impulsv
Met someone lots in common not a single spark.
Chemistry is necessary

True. Seems like, at least for me, the ones with chemistry are the ones that we don't see eye to eye. One exception, at least for sure on my end.

Posted by RainDancer

Posted by Impulsv
Met someone lots in common not a single spark.
Chemistry is necessary

I found myself getting annoyed with them.

Like there is only enough room in my life for one of me.

(It's my theory about owning a cat too, I can't be a cat owner sadly... Just will not produce positive results.)

I'll be the only cat in my house.

:l

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LMAO cats are something out...would love to see your claws out in that situation

Posted by 9waterlion9
I have one friend who when I met for the first time I was thinking, "wow, we present ourselves so similar"...even what she was wearing that night was something I would wear, lol...well, she's a Gemini with a Taurus moon, and I'm a Leo sun & rising with a Pisces moon, so I dunno, maybe it the masculine sun feminine moon combo or the fixed/mutable blend. 🙂

That's interesting. Do those placements relate in any other way besides being masculine? It's funny when stuff like that happens. you show up at work or with a friend and a few people have similar things on.

Posted by centipedes
yea. I married him lol

I can relate to most people somehow tho. Even on here there are several ppl who I can relate to in a lotta ways

Did it flow naturally or was it more work than one might think?

Yes my very good friend libra who i met in college and since then we have been together. Theres too much chemistry between us. same interests same goals same view points and the best thing about our friendship is that he doesnt judge me for anything. He makes me laugh till my stomach hurts and being a leo i love to talk and express and i m v sensitive on the inside and he always caters to all these needs of mine. Sadly he dated twice with two different aries and one of them cheated on him with a leo and the other was too materialistic. I wish i could find him his soul mate. If i werent in love i wouldve married him and he often tells me i m bis twin haha. Leo libra are v cute together 🙂