libralotus
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Do you replace your exs with someone similar?
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Posted by BullShit
Do you jump into relationship hunting mode like right away? Btw from what I've learned in life, whatever we scoff or hate or put down ends coming into our lives that much more to the point where we end up accepting it and even at times loving it. So your cancer guy ex better get over the whole makeup hate 98% of women love that joint.
I do go hunting right away but never actually get into a relationship. I always want a relationship but when it presents itself I turn my head :/
Posted by BullShitPosted by libralotusI thought interview mode (equivalent to hunting mode) was only a taurus thing. What makes you turn your head you think? That sounds like a gift and curse.Posted by BullShit
Do you jump into relationship hunting mode like right away? Btw from what I've learned in life, whatever we scoff or hate or put down ends coming into our lives that much more to the point where we end up accepting it and even at times loving it. So your cancer guy ex better get over the whole makeup hate 98% of women love that joint.
I do go hunting right away but never actually get into a relationship. I always want a relationship but when it presents itself I turn my head :/click to expand
I don't know. I feel super vulnerable having feelings for someone. So it's that or the person doesn't meet the criteria :p
Posted by BullShitDawwww you so sweet. What are your signsPosted by libralotusThat's a common thing I've been seeing a lot these days. My ex had the case of those and real bad. I do hope you eventually can conquer that.Posted by BullShitPosted by libralotusI thought interview mode (equivalent to hunting mode) was only a taurus thing. What makes you turn your head you think? That sounds like a gift and curse.Posted by BullShit
Do you jump into relationship hunting mode like right away? Btw from what I've learned in life, whatever we scoff or hate or put down ends coming into our lives that much more to the point where we end up accepting it and even at times loving it. So your cancer guy ex better get over the whole makeup hate 98% of women love that joint.
I do go hunting right away but never actually get into a relationship. I always want a relationship but when it presents itself I turn my head :/
I don't know. I feel super vulnerable having feelings for someone. So it's that or the person doesn't meet the criteria :pclick to expand
Posted by BullShitPosted by libralotusSun TaurusPosted by BullShitDawwww you so sweet. What are your signsPosted by libralotusThat's a common thing I've been seeing a lot these days. My ex had the case of those and real bad. I do hope you eventually can conquer that.Posted by BullShitPosted by libralotusI thought interview mode (equivalent to hunting mode) was only a taurus thing. What makes you turn your head you think? That sounds like a gift and curse.Posted by BullShit
Do you jump into relationship hunting mode like right away? Btw from what I've learned in life, whatever we scoff or hate or put down ends coming into our lives that much more to the point where we end up accepting it and even at times loving it. So your cancer guy ex better get over the whole makeup hate 98% of women love that joint.
I do go hunting right away but never actually get into a relationship. I always want a relationship but when it presents itself I turn my head :/
I don't know. I feel super vulnerable having feelings for someone. So it's that or the person doesn't meet the criteria :p
Moon Scorp
Merc Taurus
Venus Aries
Mars Gem
Gem Rising
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Venus in Aries. Ugh
Posted by BullShitPosted by libralotus¿Por que? 😢Posted by BullShitPosted by libralotusSun TaurusPosted by BullShitDawwww you so sweet. What are your signsPosted by libralotusThat's a common thing I've been seeing a lot these days. My ex had the case of those and real bad. I do hope you eventually can conquer that.Posted by BullShitPosted by libralotusI thought interview mode (equivalent to hunting mode) was only a taurus thing. What makes you turn your head you think? That sounds like a gift and curse.Posted by BullShit
Do you jump into relationship hunting mode like right away? Btw from what I've learned in life, whatever we scoff or hate or put down ends coming into our lives that much more to the point where we end up accepting it and even at times loving it. So your cancer guy ex better get over the whole makeup hate 98% of women love that joint.
I do go hunting right away but never actually get into a relationship. I always want a relationship but when it presents itself I turn my head :/
I don't know. I feel super vulnerable having feelings for someone. So it's that or the person doesn't meet the criteria :p
Moon Scorp
Merc Taurus
Venus Aries
Mars Gem
Gem Rising
😄
Venus in Aries. Ughclick to expand
Lmao nothing. Not as bad as mine :p
All my gfs have been human besides for a potato.
No, every ex is different as night and day.
No complete OPPOSITE for me. 🙂
The complete opposite. Ex and current are nothing alike..
Inadvertently, so I wouldn't call it "replacing" per se.
I think it's fairly normal. We're all attracted to certain characteristics, so it stands to reason that the people we date have a lot of similar aspects. That's likely why we were attracted to them in the first place.
In my case, although those relationships didn't work out, they were all for different reasons. So far, I haven't felt the need to re-evaluate what the "type" I'm most drawn to is.
I think it's fairly normal. We're all attracted to certain characteristics, so it stands to reason that the people we date have a lot of similar aspects. That's likely why we were attracted to them in the first place.
In my case, although those relationships didn't work out, they were all for different reasons. So far, I haven't felt the need to re-evaluate what the "type" I'm most drawn to is.
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