General relationship questions

I try to suppress it as much as possible, but I'm way too preoccupied with relationships. I have a 7th house sun, what else do you expect? I'm not preoccupied with my own relationships but my lack of relationship and those of others'. I need some answers.

1. My aqua stellium needs to be good friends first. But mostly when people become friends before dating, it's just superficial. They don't want to be friends, they want to date. Is this true?

2. How do you even get close enough to someone for them to be attracted to you and want to date you? I'm an extravert, my passion is socializing. But nobody wants to date me or has ever wanted to date me or has found me attractive and told me so or asked me out on a date ever. Maybe I'm too rambunctious.

3. Pluto is in the 7th house for me too. Am I doomed? (Lol)

4. All the shitty people constantly get hit on. Or maybe men have some weird baggage that makes them attracted to exclusively shitty people.

Disclaimer: gemini with aqua stellium & aries moon 😭

NOOO..... 7th house sun is the shittiest placement. I feel sorry for both of us. And it's not like you can just STOP seeking out relationships and beind mad about being alone. I LIVE relationships. That is our ego, purpose, all that.

Fake friends too. Yep. And because I have pluto there too, it's "transformative"... Every so often I find out my friends are actually fucking assholes and I find new friends and become a new person. I feel casted off to the side as well.

Don't you have sun square moon? I have that too.

Hmm, you're right. Thanks. I'll have to keep that in mind.