People fuck themselves up so much ....

... it's horrible.

With every relationship, you've harped on it to every bitter end ... in where your memories of your love life are rotten.

you're fucking suppose to live the experience while it lasts, and then let it WHILE you still cherish it. When it begins to slip ... let it go, stock up on the good memories, and step the fuck away from it, so that you will be left with pleasant memories.

Look at you .... you never seem to stop reveling in the emotional injuries you cause yourself by trying to hold/control your love life.

Counts moments, not time .... the only forever you give yourself is loss.

I thank my lucky stars every fucking day.

This was actually sweet.

Posted by P-Angel
... it's horrible.

With every relationship, you've harped on it to every bitter end ... in where your memories of your love life are rotten.

you're fucking suppose to live the experience while it lasts, and then let it WHILE you still cherish it. When it begins to slip ... let it go, stock up on the good memories, and step the fuck away from it, so that you will be left with pleasant memories.

Look at you .... you never seem to stop reveling in the emotional injuries you cause yourself by trying to hold/control your love life.

Counts moments, not time .... the only forever you give yourself is loss.

I thank my lucky stars every fucking day.

😄

Posted by P-Angel
... it's horrible.

With every relationship, you've harped on it to every bitter end ... in where your memories of your love life are rotten.

you're fucking suppose to live the experience while it lasts, and then let it WHILE you still cherish it. When it begins to slip ... let it go, stock up on the good memories, and step the fuck away from it, so that you will be left with pleasant memories.

Look at you .... you never seem to stop reveling in the emotional injuries you cause yourself by trying to hold/control your love life.

Counts moments, not time .... the only forever you give yourself is loss.

I thank my lucky stars every fucking day.

Thanks for putting in words things I wanted to say to a friend. I'm gonna share the link to this thread so my friend can read it, if you don't mind.

Posted by P-Angel
... it's horrible.

With every relationship, you've harped on it to every bitter end ... in where your memories of your love life are rotten.

you're fucking suppose to live the experience while it lasts, and then let it WHILE you still cherish it. When it begins to slip ... let it go, stock up on the good memories, and step the fuck away from it, so that you will be left with pleasant memories.

Look at you .... you never seem to stop reveling in the emotional injuries you cause yourself by trying to hold/control your love life.

Counts moments, not time .... the only forever you give yourself is loss.

I thank my lucky stars every fucking day.

🙂

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I can't even properly count the many times people refer to their past relationships as 'wasted time'

Seriously?

So, there are all those awesome moments with that person .. and that's a waste?

For some of you, the ones who find yourselves alone again and again ... have nothing but wasted time. And you do that yourself - because you were too focused on owning that person, rather than experiencing that person.

You should check yourself ... if you're in here, or anywhere, bitching and complaining about your love life ... then you're the loser, because you decided for yourself that your experiences were a waste of time.

Posted by P-Angel

I can't even properly count the many times people refer to their past relationships as 'wasted time'

Seriously?

So, there are all those awesome moments with that person .. and that's a waste?

For some of you, the ones who find yourselves alone again and again ... have nothing but wasted time. And you do that yourself - because you were too focused on owning that person, rather than experiencing that person.

You should check yourself ... if you're in here, or anywhere, bitching and complaining about your love life ... then you're the loser, because you decided for yourself that your experiences were a waste of time.

😄 😆 More +110000000

Your experiences, however hard they were, make OR break you.

Posted by P-Angel

I can't even properly count the many times people refer to their past relationships as 'wasted time'

Seriously?

So, there are all those awesome moments with that person .. and that's a waste?

For some of you, the ones who find yourselves alone again and again ... have nothing but wasted time. And you do that yourself - because you were too focused on owning that person, rather than experiencing that person.

You should check yourself ... if you're in here, or anywhere, bitching and complaining about your love life ... then you're the loser, because you decided for yourself that your experiences were a waste of time.

ouch. 😄

nah. i am learning. thank you p-angel these wise words.

Posted by P-Angel

I can't even properly count the many times people refer to their past relationships as 'wasted time'

Seriously?

So, there are all those awesome moments with that person .. and that's a waste?

For some of you, the ones who find yourselves alone again and again ... have nothing but wasted time. And you do that yourself - because you were too focused on owning that person, rather than experiencing that person.

You should check yourself ... if you're in here, or anywhere, bitching and complaining about your love life ... then you're the loser, because you decided for yourself that your experiences were a waste of time.

I agree. One day it hit me. A relationship isn't wasted time if you grew from it or learned a lesson from it. As long as you became a better person out of it, its not wasted time.

Wasted time is what you may say in the heat of the moment when you are still hurting, reality is it all adds to the person you become as you mature. People have to experience things for themselves in order to grow. It's a fact and most only understand this as you age.