hey guys, need some good advice please.

hey everyone.
Now me myself, I believe in horoscopes, I know I fit the descriptions of my sign (pisces) very well. It has its upsides, I have the capability to heal others, to sense what a person is about easily and I'm very socialable..but it also has its downside, as I'm very easily hurt and that is the problem I have now.

I met a man (he's a cancer) when I was outside my friends local, one night, I was steaming and he was trying to get me back to his, but I had a boyriend at the time, so I said no and that was that. A couple of days later, he added me on facebook, I have no idea how he managed to get my second name, but I added him and thought nothing of it. For months he would message me, trying to get me to meet him, but I was still with my bf, so I said no. When I split from my bf, I did go up and see him and it was instant chemisty, I thought "finally, finally a man with soul, who understands my feelings and dreams"
This has to be said though, he is significantly older than I am, he's 31 and I'm 20.
He has the most gorgeous eyes and has the touch, the kiss....everything. Everything I've ever wanted.
But... after we slept together (and I now know cancers do this alot from what I've read here and elsewhere) he was very distant, when I got upset, I confronted him and he clearly knew I was hurt. He told me to calm down and what else did I expect other than sex?
I told him I cant do casual, I get too emotionally attatched easily.
He said okay.
But then messaged me the next day... and I just melted 😢
I wait around patiently for him and he knows I do... on facebook he even mocked me, by posting black keys Lonley boy, and said that it reminded him of someone. (obviously me)
This is the thing, does this guy actually like me? We've been sleeping together since January, thats 10 months now. Whenever one of us calls it off, we always end up texting each other again. When I got another guy, cos I got tired of waiting, he jamp straight in. When he gets a mrs, more his age, he still says he wants to see me. If I like a guys photo or even flirt with a guy a bit on facebook, he'll get nasty. (flirt with other women on facebook cos he knows it will hurt me/say a nasty comment that is directed at me.
I know he protects himself well, by lieing and saying he has a new gf, even when he doesnt, so he doesnt appear alone to me.

he should know, I don't care by now, he should know I like him for him. I'm tired of these mind games. sigh...anyway

Honestly, I think he's just after sex. Please, have more respect for yourself. He's even said he would cheat on his wife with you when he gets one. Dump the loser!!!

I love Cancer men, have a kinship with them, but, they're hard as hell to get rid of. They take everything personally. They will talk in circles.

Sorry. I hope I didn't hurt your feelings. Just seemed like you wanted someone to tell you straight up.

No no thank you. Just love him is all, he knows I do 😢

They talk a good game, but can be dogs and selfish down to the core. He's only in it for himself.

Posted by soulchick

he should know, I don't care by now ...

lol

Am I the only one who wants to stab a bitch when people refer to astrology as "horoscopes?"

Horoscopes are full of shit anyway.

ASTROLOGY, however...


Your situation-

One, he's 31 and you're 20. There's only one reason why he's chasing you. It also begs the question why can't he go after women his age?

Two, he was looking to get laid and his approach made that obvious. The guy couldn't even respect the fact that you had a boyfriend. That's an instant red flag.

Three, of course he got distant after he banged you. See point two.

And mostly WHY DO YOU THINK HE LIKES YOU?? Omg honey, have some self respect. You said you don't do casual, but you fucked the guy without expecting commitment. He even communicated that it was "just sex" and you think he likes you? He's even mocking you.

You are most definitely showing your age and THIS is why guys in their 30s target chicks like you. They know they can get pussy, you're gullible, and you will put up with way more shit than women his age.

He's toying with you and you're allowing him. If you hate the stupid games so much, ditch him. I don't even understand why you think there's anything aside from manipulation and sex here. Stop doing this to yourself.

These young girls need to listen to those of us with life experiences!

I just wish I had somewhere like this to go to for unbiased, objective opinions when I was 18.

Any man that says he wants you for sex and sex only will only do just that.....get/take sex from you. They NEVER go into a commited relationship after it has been established it is/was just sex only. ANY MAN is like this. Not just in astrology or because of a sign.

Posted by NikkiMse1978
Any man that says he wants you for sex and sex only will only do just that.....get/take sex from you. They NEVER go into a commited relationship after it has been established it is/was just sex only. ANY MAN is like this. Not just in astrology or because of a sign.

I blame stupid ass romance movies. ALL of them perpetuate the "IF HE SLEEPS WITH YOU, HE WILL WANT A RELATIONSHIP LATER!!!" mindset, which is utter bs. The media is terrible overall with this mindset.

Real world- that shit ain't true. Happens SOMETIMES, but not often enough to where you need to be giving it up, hoping for a relationship.