How can you stoop that low?

The women dating celebrities tend to be physically drop dead gorgeous! BUT, It's disappointing that these women are OK with the aspect that celebrity/famous men are likely to cheat all b/c it's "something they all do."

I wonder how a woman stoops to that low of a level? What she's thinking when she knows good & damn well that she's human like the rest of us in that cheating ALWAYS hurts, but yet decides to allow her love for his money/fame to substitute/replace her love for herself?! I wonder if these women turn their emotions off while they're dating these types of men?!

I can't imagine being "ok" with accepting that my man will cheat all b/c he has alot of money.

I can't imagine someone saying, "Oh get over it honey, cheating comes with the territory of being with him" & yet me actually shrugging it off & saying "OK!"

Examples: Chris Brown has a gorgeous girlfriend that he takes with him to nightclubs. Well, the last club they went to, he was spotted AND pictured kissing on & grinding on lots of strippers. And his girlfriend was there the whole time. When 2 journalists asked her if she believed in open relationships, she said NO. WTF! If she doesn't believe in open relationships then why is she ok with her man being sexually/physically "open" with other women, and even worse, right in front of her!? Had Chris Brown not been famous & just some ole regular guy, she knows good & damn well that she would've snatched her man up (OR left his ass) the min. he disrespected her like that in public.

Chad Ochocinco sent nude pics of himself to alot of groupies, who later leaked his pics to gossip websites. The confusing part? This guy is engaged! And when his fiance was asked how she felt about the whole situation, she simply shrugged her shoulders & said, "He's a sexy guy. He's got a product to sell (himself) so that's what he does. It's just unfortunate that some fans take it the wrong way & try to expose/ruin him for it." WHAT!!!!!!? Him sending nude pics of his Johnson is NOT a product unless he's a certified porn star! What is WRONG with these women!

Some men will always be cheaters (or atleast willing to) b/c (here's the SAD part) there's ALWAYS A WOMAN WILLING TO STOOP THAT LOW & ENTERTAIN/ALLOW IT.

I totally get that cheating is acceptable in certain life style s & that it comes with the territory in certain professions. That will always be certain; that kind of mindset has been around since the beginning of time.

What I DON'T understand is why women are OK with that.

If I met a man who said, "By the way, since I'm good at dribbling a ball down the court every day & just so happen to make millions b/c of my ability to do that, just know that I'll probably hook up with a few groupies every blue moon & send naked pics of myself to a few strangers (smile)" I can't imagine saying, "Ok, honey bun, that's fine!"

I think this is sometimes why society figures that beauty doesn't equal brains. It's b/c some of the most physically beautiful people MUST have the most lowest self esteem on the planet! Being beautiful doesn't exempt you from being human or from needing to learn the aspect of standards & self love. Being physically gorgeous isn't a "get out of school/jail free" card, that allows you to date w/o boundaries, standards & deal breakers.

I wonder what that's like? For most, cheating is the worst thing they can imagine being done to them. I wonder what it's like shrugging off with ease (cheating) the most thing people would literally cry for, kill another person for or lose themselves for?

But I guess I wonder the same thing about $ $ . I wonder what it's like not having to ever care about the price of something? What it's like not ever having to budget or worry about working ever again? What it's like knowing that the entire world wants you & would literally throw their own standards/dreams away just to be with you, in your mansion, or backstage? And it's crazy that lots of women are willing to sell their souls to the devil all just to feel what THAT'S like

Women who fall for guys that are total scumbags and end up cheating aren't the ones who are the sole responsible parties that have to also be the people that fix the problem. The problem is that in a "man's world" a lot of societal issues go the way of "that's the way it goes". And yes we can all agree that is wrong. That is the big problem we as a nation and women around the world have been working up against for the longest. We live in modern times though. We can't put down the torch of equality and fairness because it a new century or millennium. The powers that be haven't put down their torch, and so it is a constant struggle with many notable progresses along the way.

Women would be a force to reckon with if they all vowed to certain standards in the world of dating/relationships that negated all this. Men and women would have to contend with not starting a family just because they have the sexual equipment for it and decide to do so for the good of the future child as well as the family, women would have to have pre-nuptials for everything to ensure the man understands the stakes involved for all parties, women would have to deny a courtship until she has the career security she seeks, women would unite to provide the community needs of women and children affected by divorce etc. We have a lot of this today but alas the struggle still persists.

Men have money and power, a woman has sex or relationships with men in power, and I think they like being with powerful men, those that do, and it isn't about the money or fame, it is that he somehow fell into money and fame. So they are having sex with a power figure, and later getting screwed over.

Men fall in love with each other over power. It isn't sexual committed relationship they have, but they hang out and seek employment with random men with power and money so they can get it for themselves. They may despise the man, disagree with his motives, dislike the work but in my opinion they seem to be out for the money and power from that guy instead of "doing what is right" for themselves.

Money/power influences much of our lives to a point that the win/lose battle adds grief and sorrow to relationships that we want to be mutually beneficial.

These women or "gold diggers" are women who don't mind playing a role to be with someone with power or money and I think that is the case for so many men as well, if not more. Sex and dating doesn't exactly mean anything, until the heart brea

Maybe these women that we call "gold diggers" are vampires but can't knock them for playing a part in this money/power world. Love might get mixed in there, but these women are human, hated for their position in society but gotta commend them for taking action and securing their meal ticket. Mind you what we don't like about this culture is that it is a bad role-model for aspiring women. Hate the men for treating the world as it's call-girl. If there was only one king who had a mistress, everyone would live in peace regarding this topic, but the culture runs wide and deep and the women rarely are the ones that force the man to be a power-ego that doesn't respect himself, his family or the way the world works.

Because the women aren't in it for the love .. they're in it for the money.


Seriously, it's not that difficult of a concept to get .. are you sure you're an Aqua?

I think alot of them aren't emotional available. Which is why the choose money and fame over substance.

@Heroic: Oh I agree. But my position on things was geared more towards the women being in the wrong. Too often, I see people looking in disgust when they see those rich/powerful men who will treat their own girlfriends any kind of way. And yes, although these men are STILL wrong for taking advantage just b/c there arae women who will let them, I can't help but to point the finger at all the women who purposely seek those kinds of unfulfilling relationships all b/c they're chasing after someone ELSE'S money.

If all these gold diggers would spend their energy making their OWN money & making their OWN dreams/mansions come true, men would stop being players. With willing participants in the game, always comes players. And in this case, I don't hate the player, I hate the game.