How you'll know if he's The one

Profile picture of krysrenee7
krysrenee7
@krysrenee7
17 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
1. There's nothing you'd be willing to do for him that he wouldn't easily do for you + more

2. His/your friends/family approve & said, "He/she's the one" before either of you got the chance to say it

3. You masturbate AND cum to the thought of being sexual with him (vs. thinking of some hot celebrity, an ex or some porn star)

4. You've met the guy he pretended to be, the guy he wants to be AND the guy he actually is & yet you still love the bastard!

5. Well, ya just know =)

6. You can honestly admit deep down that even if someone who appeared to be "better" than him comes along/approaches you, that you wouldn't even think about or entertain the concept that the "Grass MAY be greener on the other side." Nothing or no one can make you cheat on him

7. You can clearly see that he considers your needs to be just as important as his own. Not only that, he makes it his duty (full time job) to make sure that your needs are met just like his own

8. You can honestly admit that if the relationship didn't work out, you'd still remain best friends & maintain a high level of respect & admiration for 1 another.

9. He remembers your birthday, your birthdate, your anniversary, & any other important dates that the average guy innocently/carelessly forgets

10. There's talk about the future, without any pressure, force or insecurity steering the conversation

11. You feel just as beautiful & "wanted" even on your worst days (physically & emotionally)

12. After writing out a "dream man" list, you discover that your man is exactly what you listed AND exceeds all expectations. You actually find yourself adding qualities to your "dream man" list that you'd forgotten all about but remember now since your man showed you some of those qualities

13. You both find it more comforting than scary to be open, vulnerable & 100% honest with eachother
Profile picture of krysrenee7
krysrenee7
@krysrenee7
17 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
14. You can honestly say that if he lost a limb or got horribly sick, you're love/loyalty for him wouldn't change a bit.

15. You're more impressed by what he does than what he says. Most men have a problem making sure their actions & their words match up. And usually their words are the sweetest but yet their actions don't reflect that. If you notice that your man is better at SHOWING his love just like he's good at verbally professing his love, he's a keeper!

16. You notice that this relationship is so much more different than any relationship in the past. And he can say the same too. Even if you've gone to the same places for dates or even if you've used the same tricks/charms with people from the past, this time things are just...different & fulfilling. And even better, you can't even explain it! Ya just know!

17. You both find yourselves unconsciously doing/saying things that will make the other's day go by smoother & much nicer. You both go above & beyond to make eachother happey, even when it's not necessary or even when you've already done enough. But still, you both go that extra mile "just because"

18. You both listen to eachother & can actually repeat (without being a smart ass) what the other just said. Not only do you listen to eachother, but you actually let their words sink in. His thoughts, even if opposite of yours are still taken into consideration & still matter to you

19. 99% of the nice things he does for you are done "just because" & not b/c he feels pressured, obligated or burdened to do so

20. You trust eachother. Even though all the insecurity & scars from past lovers who've hurt you both. You both find it more refreshing & easier to trust eachother than not

21. He's the SAME person both in front of AND behind your back. No one can come to you on the low & claim that you don't know your man well. You know him well & he takes great pride in knowing that you know him as much as possible
Profile picture of krysrenee7
krysrenee7
@krysrenee7
17 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
22. You can honestly admit deep down that you'd want him to be happy EVEN IF that means him not being happy with you. When 2 people truly love eachother, the other's happiness comes 1st. And sometimes 1 person being truly happy means them not being with you.

23. You both enrich each other's lives. You both do 10xs more work for eachother than others in your lives would be willing to do.

24. You stand by eachother even when both of your families/friends are advising against it. You both know what you've got (eachother) & neither of you are willing to throw that away or jeopardize it for anyone!

25. When you see guys who are much more attractive/have more than your man, around you notice yourself comparing & when you're done comparing, your man always comes out the winner! I.E...those other guys don't have nothing on your man! Even if they are 10xs cuter, smarter, richer, etc.

26. He's more excited & supportive about your happiness, your success & your goals/dreams than you are! And vice versa!

27. You still get butterflies & still feel like you're in the "honeymoon" stages months/years later when otherwise that would've normally worn off

28. You both can sit around all day, in complete silence, do nothing & yet still feel like you're having fun. Words, romantic & adventureous activities don't make your relationship what it is. Simply being in his presence is fulfilling enough.

29. He seems to notice the small things...the little things about you that no one else (not even your parents or best friends) notices. Example: He notices that every Thursday you wear pink & brown toe nail polish OR he knows that you actually wear a size 8 1'2 in shoes, 9 in pants & a 38C (bra)

30. A man is always going to be honest & frank with his boys behind closed doors & when you're not around. If he easily says "yes" when asked if you're the 1 for him, yep not only does your man believe it but so will the people closest to him. The same rings true for a woman when she's in the privacy of her own diary or around her friends when asked that question.
Profile picture of krysrenee7
krysrenee7
@krysrenee7
17 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
31. There is nothing major either of you want to change about eachother. Aside from a few flaws here & there, you're both perfectly happy with who you've got. Even if you had a magic wand & the power to change him, you wouldn't.

32. You DON'T have to "teach" him to love, respect & cherish you. Of course he's probably young & is still learning, but for the most part he's being the best man he can be for you (AND himself) b/c he wants to & not technically b/c he has to.

33. You can honestly see yourselves with eachother 25 years from now. Most people force themselves to see their mate as someone to be with in the long haul b/c no one likes admitting that it's pointless to be with someone now if they can't even see a good outcome years down the road. If neither of you hesitate when asked if you can see things working out in the long run, yep you're both keepers!

34. You can honestly admit that you like/want eachother for all the RIGHT reasons.

35. You can honestly admit that you'd still want him even IF you weren't insecure or in the circumstances that you're in. And vice versa. (For example: When you've got low self esteem, anybody may look good. But if you take that very same woman when she's got high self-esteem, chances are she'd have a completely different/new list of friends & what she even considers "attractive")