Do good guys like bad girls?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by krysrenee7 on Monday, July 4, 2011 and has 46 replies.

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

So we know that good girls like bad guys

They like the hard-core masculinity...the muscles...the tattoos...the "rebel" attitude...the motorcycles...the "player" life style ...the macho mentality...the "bad boy"

But 1 thing I find to be interesting is that it doesn't really seem like it's the other way around

Ya know, the women with the tattoos...with the same motorcycle helmet on...with the "on to the next one" mentality when it comes to men...with the party-girl life style & mentality...the non-virgin...the short & spiked hair...the girl who'd prefer sweatpants vs. short skirts/bikinis......the girl who is anything but the "suzie homemaker"...the "bad girl"

Maybe it's a masculinity vs. feminity thing

If not that, maybe it's the aspect of being drawn towards someone who has traits & qualities that you wish you had...almost like you're allowing someone else to live through you...

I've always wondered what draws good guys to bad girls?

((Of course this topic doesn't apply to the good guys who dislike bad girls))

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@UrsaMediocre
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Just because I'm tatted up, have multiple piercings, don't have a conventional appearance, smoke & drink a lot, & not dress conservatively doesn't mean I'm bad. I always say I'm genuinely a good person who happens to associate w/ people who aren't exactly upstanding citizens; I'm like Stormer from The Misfits in Jem. I guess that's the Libra in me: bad people would consider me too good & good people might consider me bad. That being said, I am attracted to so-called "bad girls" but not necessarily bad in term of evil & have no regard for other people. I don't mind being the Andy Garcia to your Meg Ryan. I guess I don't really like goodie-goodies 'cuz most likely they'll have a problem w/ my habits, be too embarrassed to be seen in public w/ me, & try to change me & mold me into someone I don't want to be + they "dead fish" in bed. I do have a weird affinity for thug ass cholas though but all my gfs have been good girls who used to be bad.

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Oh for goodness sakes, even half of the women who are bad girls don't even consider themselves to be "bad girls."

Everybody's definition of a "bad girl" is different. I just gave you mine.

Regardless of what your definition (which may be different than others') is of a "bad girl" I'm still curious to know whether or not men like bad girls with the same intensity & irony that good girls like bad guys

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@mikeT
15 YearsCancer

What I want in a woman is protection. Loyalty. Companionship. Loyalty, friendship, companionship, ferociousness. I want her to protect me, and have my back to the bitter end. If I have a fight, I want her to jump in. Even if I'm winning; even if she's ninety pounds. I like strong women—not necessarily a masculine woman—but I like strong women. I like strong, say a woman who runs a C.E.O. corporation. I like a strong woman with confidence—massive confidence—and then I want to dominate her sexually

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@CancerGemini
16 Years

"Bad girls" really is such a broad definition...

Opposites may attract for balance, but everyone likes a freak in the bed. How they are desired in public and daylight really is dependant on the individual. I think anyone with a strong sense of who they are is attractive initially to many because it takes a certain amount of moxy that most desire to find in themselves.

I played in metal bands for a while and I will say that the bad girls I met there where f'ing nuts everytime. A lady on the street but a freak in the bed...mmm mmm good.

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@westside
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

i like girls that are SMART about being rebellious, like go against the grain, but not just doing it just to do it nawmean..tattoos and facial peircings does not mean you are a bad girl lmao, matter fact if you're a 'good girl' and you pull off facial peircings that makes you 20x more attractive no lie. its fine for a chick to have some muscles but if they're bigger than mine...then heeeell nawww.

i consider bad girls to be like just always rebellious against all rules,always wants to fuck(not love),and always partying (the whole pills/alchohal/weed) and in general just lacks respect for people, so with that being said

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17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

I like the intellectual librarian types. HOWEVER, I have this bad tendency to create total bitches. So all of my ex's are now some bad ass bitches. God help the guys that came after me; they had better sleep with one eye open. 😄

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17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by oldskoolflavor

Posted by GeminiMind
I like the intellectual librarian types. HOWEVER, I have this bad tendency to create total bitches. So all of my ex's are now some bad ass bitches. God help the guys that came after me; they had better sleep with one eye open. 😄

definitely says a lot about your character ..
dumb motherfucker

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You have an avatar of a — and you call me a dumb motherfucker, Oldskoolflavor? HaHa! What does that even mean? skool is spelled s.c.h.o.o.l. You dumb and stupid punk motherfucker. Watch your mouth bitch, I'll eat you boy. 🙂 But, yes, it does say a lot about my character, because I create bangin, bad ass bitches, who would eat you up and spit your light in the ass, wanna be ass out, trick. Now you know a little bit more about my character. And stop trying so hard to be hard, you're as soft as room temperature butter, and it's obvious. Again, watch your mouth, respect will be paid.

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@AA
15 Years5,000+ Posts

no guy will really admit this beacause who wants to be a "good guy".
And especially after how you decribed the typical "bad guy", getting the girls, the muscles, tats and everything.
I happen to like bad chicks. Does that make me a pasty fag?

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@ninjamu
17 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Yeah. I know more nice guys being attracted to straight up bitches. I know a couple like that now. He adores her and she treats him like shit.

I love me some genuinely nice men but, the "nice guy" I mentioned above, is actually a doormat. There's a difference and I don't want any part of the latter type. Bitches can have them!

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15 YearsLibra

Posted by TyDyed

Do good guys like bad girls?

Yes... for a quick fuck. No strings. No complications.

For an LTR? Hell no! Not gonna make premium payments on a high-mileage ride...

If I were a woman (or Prince Pisces) I'd kiss ya. That's a great quote.

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Posted by krysrenee7
So we know that good girls like bad guys

Ya know, the women with the tattoos...with the same motorcycle helmet on...with the "on to the next one" mentality when it comes to men...with the party-girl life style & mentality...the non-virgin...the short & spiked hair...the girl who'd prefer sweatpants vs. short skirts/bikinis......the girl who is anything but the "suzie homemaker"...the "bad girl"

Maybe it's a masculinity vs. feminity thing

If not that, maybe it's the aspect of being drawn towards someone who has traits & qualities that you wish you had...almost like you're allowing someone else to live through you...

I've always wondered what draws good guys to bad girls?

((Of course this topic doesn't apply to the good guys who dislike bad girls))

That sounds more like a dike to me, a masculine woman is not a turn on to me at least. Now a woman that's a challenge I like that. And that doesn't sound like the bad girl type to me, I don't even think bad girl is the term.

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

Hahahhaa I have ink, my hair is dead short and I adore motorcycles. I am indeed Suzie Q. Homemaker, do not dig wild partying life style nor do I have the morals of an alley cat. Bad girl? Can be in the right setting. Good girl with an edge.

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

LOL Actually I'm using it for flavoring. The twits at "Chez Petrol" didn't notice it was only feeding syrup for it, not combined with water when I was getting some last night. Nor did I. That first sip was an eye opener.
Your morning fare is eerily similar to mine sir. I do not break my fast until later. 🙂

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

Ha! I can't be arsed in the morning. I stumble off to the w/c, stumble to the coffee maker and that's me done in for a time. I need time to wake up, or I'm owly. Someone right in my face when I first rise is a mistake. 😛

LOL "Breakfast II", I like that.

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

I couldn't agree more. 🙂 Fluttering, flapping, deep conversation..solving the rubicon of dinner..it can wait. My time to slowly come alive. I find being rocket launched into my day is an irritant the entire time, it's off kilter.

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

Certainly not dew off of a mountain. I don't drink it, usually it's the "couple sips than a pass to my son". Even 8 oz. would make me want to sick up my guts. But when I do crave, it's Coca-Cola. 🙂