I've been dating a Virgo boy for almost a year now. He's younger than me and says he loves that I'm older but he's acting like he's not ready to be committed. He's been the most honest, genuine, and caring man I've ever been with. I love his family like my own. We were supposed to be vacationing together next month and he said we should take some space before we travel together. I didn't do a very good job giving it...sometimes I would holler at him, and other times we would just run into each other b/c its a small town and we have alot of the same friends. There was one night were he went home early bc he got drunker than the crowd and I stayed at a party nd there was a guy who had a crush on me there. I flirted a little, let him walk me halfway home and then broke off from him so he wouldnt know where I lived. I admit I wouldn't like it if he did that to me but I still stand by the fact that I was loyal and honest that I had a b/f and wasnt interested. Then the next morning my guy asked me who i hung out with and i said "just some people" and was very vague. This bothered him, but ididnt realize how much. I think he's very intuitive, we both are with each other. He kept making these backwards comments about how all the boys in town were gunna be so excited we broke up, and how hard it was gunna be for me to live in this house without thinking of him. But he did it in a joking fashion, as we were cuddling....and I thought he was just messing with me and I laughed it off. The next thing I know he stone cold breaks up with me. He said "we both saw this coming". He says he wants to be fucking friends with me. I wrote him a letter explaining what happened that night . He read it and came to my house to collect his things that day....He said he did think us breaking up was right. That there was nothing wrong with me, or us. He just didnt feel like himself and hes finally starting to feel good again. He said didnt know how to get space back. That he didnt want to make it EMOTIONAL. I told him theres no way we can feel how we feel about each other without it being emotional. and then he used the term shit or get off the pot. He came in to get his stuff and i saw a few tears,he hugged me and told me he didnt want to do this, he feels like an asshole for this, but he didnt know what else to do. He said "ive loved you for a long time, and i still do..i guess we'll just go from here". Now he sees me he either flirts or acts like we're buds. Whats a libra to do?
