So me and my cancer man have been together for 5 years . we are both 23 years old with a child together . really rocky relationship with the trust issues and the immaturity . he reaaally doesnt trust me . im always nagging about finances and hes always finding ways to put a bill off until another time . — Im a libra we cant handle NOT being financially stable . it stresses me out & he knows it . so he hit me with an idea saying hes leaving us for basic training and then coming to get us to live on base . & get married. a red flag sign because what if his immaturity , lying , disregard for anything i say becomes worse ? I have a plan b . .. Just let him leave & take care of myself & my children , become so financially stable i wont need him ... Should i ? Or should i let him attempt to " fix things " so that we can for once become a stress free family . ? Please someone help me decide . i would rather have my family but believe i deserve better when it comes to how he treats me . ive talked to psychics and everything. No luck on getting a straight answer . is anyone here a military wife ? Or have been through what im going through?
