@Stensco21
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My cancer bf always stares at me when I'm sleeping.
Why Your Cancer Boyfriend Stares at You While You Sleep
Cancer men often show affection through gentle attention and protectiveness. Staring at you while you sleep may be a sign of deep love, admiration, and a desire to keep you safe. It reflects their emotional nature and attachment. Understanding his behavior can help strengthen your connection and reassure you of his feelings.
Maybe he's planning your murder...haha. I kid. I find that cute too.
Maybe coz he finds you cute sleeping.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhill
That's the vibe I'm getting lol
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
He sounds like he'll kill you if you leave him.
Why do you think that?
😆 you crack me up 😆..im glad it's going good for you.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhill
Are Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
He sounds like he'll kill you if you leave him.Why do you think that?
He's a cancer.
They don't exactly have the best track record when it comes to crimes of passion.
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I sense that a little bit too
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhillAre Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.
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He's hot but he doesn't know it
Posted by Cancan26
😆 you crack me up 😆..im glad it's going good for you.
Thanks can can lol
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
I stare at the guy I am with when he sleeps, they just look so relax & comfy in bed.
Why though lol
He's not watching, he's watching your tummy. Wondering when that child he impregnated you with is gonna start kicking.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhillAre Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.
He's hot but he doesn't know it
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You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
I stare at the guy I am with when he sleeps, they just look so relax & comfy in bed.Why though lol
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It's the nurturing aspect of this sign. They love to nurture people like a mom. You know how a mom watches her kid sleep? It's like that.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhillAre Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.
He's hot but he doesn't know it
You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.
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Lol, I'll clarify what i meant. He is extremely cute and charismatic and I think he knows it but he's also never been w a girl ( in his words) as pretty as me. So it could be something dif for him. Hell say cocky things here and there but w me he gets a little insecure.
Posted by Andalusia
He's not watching, he's watching your tummy. Wondering when that child he impregnated you with is gonna start kicking.
Lol he prb is no doubt
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhillAre Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.
He's hot but he doesn't know it
You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.
Lol, I'll clarify what i meant. He is extremely cute and charismatic and I think he knows it but he's also never been w a girl ( in his words) as pretty as me. So it could be something dif for him. Hell say cocky things here and there but w me he gets a little insecure.
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Okay, it could be that you're better looking than him. I've known some Cancer men to strategically date women avg. to below avg., no matter how good looking they are (especially when they even know it). Their worst fear is to be rejected or abandoned by their partner, so you can see why they would date the avg. looker. A cancer male with a very attractive woman is a disgusting sight. Oh, the insecurities come to the surface and rear their ugly head.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhillAre Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.
He's hot but he doesn't know it
You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.
Lol, I'll clarify what i meant. He is extremely cute and charismatic and I think he knows it but he's also never been w a girl ( in his words) as pretty as me. So it could be something dif for him. Hell say cocky things here and there but w me he gets a little insecure.
Okay, it could be that you're better looking than him. I've known some Cancer men to strategically date women avg. to below avg., no matter how good looking they are (especially when they even know it). Their worst fear is to be rejected or abandoned by their partner, so you can see why they would date the avg. looker. A cancer male with a very attractive woman is a disgusting sight. Oh, the insecurities come to the surface and rear their ugly head.
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This makes a lot of sense. His last gf was ugly. Didn't mAke sense to me. How do they act out when the girl is attractive?
Posted by Infinite8
What do his eyes look like, when he does it?My husband does it as well and whe he does it, he is always smiling and his eyes sparkle. So, I translate it to love.
Like searching my face, sparkling eyes intense
Posted by Infinite8
What do his eyes look like, when he does it?My husband does it as well and whe he does it, he is always smiling and his eyes sparkle. So, I translate it to love.
Like searching my face, sparkling eyes intense
Sounds like he believes it's too good to be true.
Intense feelings and memorizing your face...
Sparkle to me = love
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I could see that
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhillAre Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.
He's hot but he doesn't know it
You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.
Lol, I'll clarify what i meant. He is extremely cute and charismatic and I think he knows it but he's also never been w a girl ( in his words) as pretty as me. So it could be something dif for him. Hell say cocky things here and there but w me he gets a little insecure.
Okay, it could be that you're better looking than him. I've known some Cancer men to strategically date women avg. to below avg., no matter how good looking they are (especially when they even know it). Their worst fear is to be rejected or abandoned by their partner, so you can see why they would date the avg. looker. A cancer male with a very attractive woman is a disgusting sight. Oh, the insecurities come to the surface and rear their ugly head.
This makes a lot of sense. His last gf was ugly. Didn't mAke sense to me. How do they act out when the girl is attractive?
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My aunt, who is a very attractive Sag, was married off to a below avg. Cancer male. She's exotic and just the epitome of beauty. He was nothing in terms of looks standing next to her. At their wedding, he heard comments like the following from his friends and co-workers:
"Wow! Your wife is gorgeous!" "How'd you get her?" "It had to have been arranged. How come we didn't come across her?" "Does she have sisters?" Basically, really rude and condescending comments. The moment they were alone, my uncle says to her "Everyone kept saying you're beautiful, but I don't see it. You're nothing special." This was the prelude to what would later become a very volatile and emotionally abusive relationship. Their entire marriage he destroyed her self-esteem to the point my aunt doesn't believe she's beautiful when someone tells her. Also, my uncle worked for Lever-Brothers. At his work party, his boss asked him if his wife would be willing to be the cover girl of one of the new products they were launching. He declined the offer for her.
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
I stare at the guy I am with when he sleeps, they just look so relax & comfy in bed.
And then he wakes up and frantically asking 'was I snoring'? —
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhillAre Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.
He's hot but he doesn't know it
You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.
Lol, I'll clarify what i meant. He is extremely cute and charismatic and I think he knows it but he's also never been w a girl ( in his words) as pretty as me. So it could be something dif for him. Hell say cocky things here and there but w me he gets a little insecure.
Okay, it could be that you're better looking than him. I've known some Cancer men to strategically date women avg. to below avg., no matter how good looking they are (especially when they even know it). Their worst fear is to be rejected or abandoned by their partner, so you can see why they would date the avg. looker. A cancer male with a very attractive woman is a disgusting sight. Oh, the insecurities come to the surface and rear their ugly head.
This makes a lot of sense. His last gf was ugly. Didn't mAke sense to me. How do they act out when the girl is attractive?
My aunt, who is a very attractive Sag, was married off to a below avg. Cancer male. She's exotic and just the epitome of beauty. He was nothing in terms of looks standing next to her. At their wedding, he heard comments like the following from his friends and co-workers:
"Wow! Your wife is gorgeous!" "How'd you get her?" "It had to have been arranged. How come we didn't come across her?" "Does she have sisters?" Basically, really rude and condescending comments. The moment they were alone, my uncle says to her "Everyone kept saying you're beautiful, but I don't see it. You're nothing special." This was the prelude to what would later become a very volatile and emotionally abusive relationship. Their entire marriage he destroyed her self-esteem to the point my aunt doesn't believe she's beautiful when someone tells her. Also, my uncle worked for Lever-Brothers. At his work party, his boss asked him if his wife would be willing to be the cover girl of one of the new products they were launching. He declined the offer for her.
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My ex Aries sun cancer moon did the same thing. He had ppl saying how did he get me? You must be loaded all the time. He started putting me down and competing with me like a woman. It was so strange!
Cancer men and pretty girls is not a pretty sight. I've had two Cancer males admit this to me when they were telling me about their past and how they didn't entertain the advances of a beautiful woman because they felt unworthy.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhillAre Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.
He's hot but he doesn't know it
You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.
Lol, I'll clarify what i meant. He is extremely cute and charismatic and I think he knows it but he's also never been w a girl ( in his words) as pretty as me. So it could be something dif for him. Hell say cocky things here and there but w me he gets a little insecure.
Okay, it could be that you're better looking than him. I've known some Cancer men to strategically date women avg. to below avg., no matter how good looking they are (especially when they even know it). Their worst fear is to be rejected or abandoned by their partner, so you can see why they would date the avg. looker. A cancer male with a very attractive woman is a disgusting sight. Oh, the insecurities come to the surface and rear their ugly head.
This makes a lot of sense. His last gf was ugly. Didn't mAke sense to me. How do they act out when the girl is attractive?
My aunt, who is a very attractive Sag, was married off to a below avg. Cancer male. She's exotic and just the epitome of beauty. He was nothing in terms of looks standing next to her. At their wedding, he heard comments like the following from his friends and co-workers:
"Wow! Your wife is gorgeous!" "How'd you get her?" "It had to have been arranged. How come we didn't come across her?" "Does she have sisters?" Basically, really rude and condescending comments. The moment they were alone, my uncle says to her "Everyone kept saying you're beautiful, but I don't see it. You're nothing special." This was the prelude to what would later become a very volatile and emotionally abusive relationship. Their entire marriage he destroyed her self-esteem to the point my aunt doesn't believe she's beautiful when someone tells her. Also, my uncle worked for Lever-Brothers. At his work party, his boss asked him if his wife would be willing to be the cover girl of one of the new products they were launching. He declined the offer for her.
My ex Aries sun cancer moon did the same thing. He had ppl saying how did he get me? You must be loaded all the time. He started putting me down and competing with me like a woman. It was so strange!
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That's what an insecure man does. They don't have the courage to shut down the people making vile comments. Instead, they come and release their frustration on their women by putting them down or rather punishing them for the pain they felt by those comments.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhillAre Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.
He's hot but he doesn't know it
You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.
Lol, I'll clarify what i meant. He is extremely cute and charismatic and I think he knows it but he's also never been w a girl ( in his words) as pretty as me. So it could be something dif for him. Hell say cocky things here and there but w me he gets a little insecure.
Okay, it could be that you're better looking than him. I've known some Cancer men to strategically date women avg. to below avg., no matter how good looking they are (especially when they even know it). Their worst fear is to be rejected or abandoned by their partner, so you can see why they would date the avg. looker. A cancer male with a very attractive woman is a disgusting sight. Oh, the insecurities come to the surface and rear their ugly head.
This makes a lot of sense. His last gf was ugly. Didn't mAke sense to me. How do they act out when the girl is attractive?
My aunt, who is a very attractive Sag, was married off to a below avg. Cancer male. She's exotic and just the epitome of beauty. He was nothing in terms of looks standing next to her. At their wedding, he heard comments like the following from his friends and co-workers:
"Wow! Your wife is gorgeous!" "How'd you get her?" "It had to have been arranged. How come we didn't come across her?" "Does she have sisters?" Basically, really rude and condescending comments. The moment they were alone, my uncle says to her "Everyone kept saying you're beautiful, but I don't see it. You're nothing special." This was the prelude to what would later become a very volatile and emotionally abusive relationship. Their entire marriage he destroyed her self-esteem to the point my aunt doesn't believe she's beautiful when someone tells her. Also, my uncle worked for Lever-Brothers. At his work party, his boss asked him if his wife would be willing to be the cover girl of one of the new products they were launching. He declined the offer for her.
My ex Aries sun cancer moon did the same thing. He had ppl saying how did he get me? You must be loaded all the time. He started putting me down and competing with me like a woman. It was so strange!
That's what an insecure man does. They don't have the courage to shut down the people making vile comments. Instead, they come and release their frustration on their women by putting them down or rather punishing them for the pain they felt by those comments.
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It's also rude for ppl to say that to men. It always pissed me off when ppl would say things like that. And it creates tension with the man.
Posted by Stensco21
When I wake up I've caught him staring at me three or four times. I think it's super cute but why does he do this?
Not sure why, my taurus gal used to do this, she'd quickly close her eyes and pretend she wasn't. I'd just put my arm around her and give her a peck then fall back asleep. Try doing that, maybe the "why" will come to you eventually.
Posted by Stensco21
When I wake up I've caught him staring at me three or four times. I think it's super cute but why does he do this?Not sure why, my taurus gal used to do this, she'd quickly close her eyes and pretend she wasn't. I'd just put my arm around her and give her a peck then fall back asleep. Try doing that, maybe the "why" will come to you eventually.
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Okay I'll try it 🙂
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
I stare at the guy I am with when he sleeps, they just look so relax & comfy in bed.And then he wakes up and frantically asking 'was I snoring'? —
Yesssss, you hit the jackpot lmfao
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Yes I did.
Is your ass off yet? —
Posted by Orchidee
Cancer men and pretty girls is not a pretty sight. I've had two Cancer males admit this to me when they were telling me about their past and how they didn't entertain the advances of a beautiful woman because they felt unworthy.not unworthy im sure they dont' want the competition or jealousy or possessiveness that comes with all of that
we prefer money over BYTCHES ...anybody taking us out of our game and can, cause we LOVE HARD is a person that will get in the way of our achievements...
we don't like being RULED BY our HEARTS. It causes us immense STRESS
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Very true. Non-confident men, in general, don't like dating women that cause them jealousy, insecurity. Basically they want to date a woman who doesn't rouse their insecurities. #easylife
Posted by Orchidee
Cancer men and pretty girls is not a pretty sight. I've had two Cancer males admit this to me when they were telling me about their past and how they didn't entertain the advances of a beautiful woman because they felt unworthy.not unworthy im sure they dont' want the competition or jealousy or possessiveness that comes with all of that
we prefer money over BYTCHES ...anybody taking us out of our game and can, cause we LOVE HARD is a person that will get in the way of our achievements...
we don't like being RULED BY our HEARTS. It causes us immense STRESS
Very true. Non-confident men, in general, don't like dating women that cause them jealousy, insecurity. Basically they want to date a woman who doesn't rouse their insecurities. #easylife
you're a very negative entity
why are you on the CANCER BOARD?
im trying to explain to you about Cancers..and all you keep bringing up is Insecurities
like why don't you go fuk yourself with a metal Pole and FUK OFF our BOARD
you're belittling, im trying to make you understand where cancers come from.
you don't want to learn, just to mock, so go somewhere else where you're needed, cause bytch your negativity is not needed in this SPACE
BYE
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Obviously I hit a nerve. Why are you adamant on denying that all of this (jealousy, fear of loss, possessiveness, competitiveness) stems from insecurities. I guess you don't like acknowledging the truth.
Posted by Orchidee
Cancer men and pretty girls is not a pretty sight. I've had two Cancer males admit this to me when they were telling me about their past and how they didn't entertain the advances of a beautiful woman because they felt unworthy.not unworthy im sure they dont' want the competition or jealousy or possessiveness that comes with all of that
we prefer money over BYTCHES ...anybody taking us out of our game and can, cause we LOVE HARD is a person that will get in the way of our achievements...
we don't like being RULED BY our HEARTS. It causes us immense STRESS
Very true. Non-confident men, in general, don't like dating women that cause them jealousy, insecurity. Basically they want to date a woman who doesn't rouse their insecurities. #easylife
you're a very negative entity
why are you on the CANCER BOARD?
im trying to explain to you about Cancers..and all you keep bringing up is Insecurities
like why don't you go fuk yourself with a metal Pole and FUK OFF our BOARD
you're belittling, im trying to make you understand where cancers come from.
you don't want to learn, just to mock, so go somewhere else where you're needed, cause bytch your negativity is not needed in this SPACE
BYE
Obviously I hit a nerve. Why are you adamant on denying that all of this (jealousy, fear of loss, possessiveness, competitiveness) stems from insecurities. I guess you don't like acknowledging the truth.
why don't you admit your a cunt and a hater? than i can admit to insecurities.
first you tho
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You are actually a case in point in just how lame this sign can get when it's bad. There's some good examples on here too.
Posted by Orchidee
Cancer men and pretty girls is not a pretty sight. I've had two Cancer males admit this to me when they were telling me about their past and how they didn't entertain the advances of a beautiful woman because they felt unworthy.not unworthy im sure they dont' want the competition or jealousy or possessiveness that comes with all of that
we prefer money over BYTCHES ...anybody taking us out of our game and can, cause we LOVE HARD is a person that will get in the way of our achievements...
we don't like being RULED BY our HEARTS. It causes us immense STRESS
Very true. Non-confident men, in general, don't like dating women that cause them jealousy, insecurity. Basically they want to date a woman who doesn't rouse their insecurities. #easylife
you're a very negative entity
why are you on the CANCER BOARD?
im trying to explain to you about Cancers..and all you keep bringing up is Insecurities
like why don't you go fuk yourself with a metal Pole and FUK OFF our BOARD
you're belittling, im trying to make you understand where cancers come from.
you don't want to learn, just to mock, so go somewhere else where you're needed, cause bytch your negativity is not needed in this SPACE
BYE
Obviously I hit a nerve. Why are you adamant on denying that all of this (jealousy, fear of loss, possessiveness, competitiveness) stems from insecurities. I guess you don't like acknowledging the truth.
why don't you admit your a cunt and a hater? than i can admit to insecurities.
first you tho
You are actually a case in point in just how lame this sign can get when it's bad. There's some good examples on here too.
You're a prime example of a bytch who can't get a crab to love her so comes in our thread to sheet on us
you actually remind me of an Aqua cunt who used to the same thing all the time, just live on our boards to subtly hate on crab men...but act like she was our friend.
i bet you're her, but Aquas have this drive to punish Crabs, for us not wanting your LOVE
it's okay DUDE
move on
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Ha! Don't flatter yourself. I'm indifferent to this whole thing until you exploded.
Caramelized Coffee does not speak for all Cancers--just herself.
The reason I would watch a Scorpio sleep is so I can see what they look like without their mask.
That's pretty creeped out .. then again, I've woken up to the same thing before -staring while I'm sleeping .. at first I was very annoyed cuz every so often I drool a little when I sleep .. then when I thought about it later I thought it was endearing in an admiring type of way lol
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When I wake up I've caught him staring at me three or four times. I think it's super cute but why does he do this?