Naked pics sent while dating/talking?

So I've got a little thing going with a guy I met online. Its been off and on for about 3 months but we haven't met in person yet. Today while texting back and forth, our chat got a little "hot" and then Bam! The "dic pic" lol. Now, yes he has a really nice body, and is quite endowed lol but I have mixed feelings about guys just sending me a picture of their junk out of nowhere. I'd rather wait, and see it in person if we get to that point...

My question, do you feel like its tacky to send naked pics to someone you're dating and haven't even slept with/met yet? Or is not a big deal?

OMG!!! Eye roll! (at him, not you)

Yes, it's tacky!!!!!! All he's doing is showing you he's ONLY interested in sex.

Like he thinks if he shows you his dick, you'll drop everything and come jump on top it.
He must be proud of it.

Posted by truecap
Like he thinks if he shows you his dick, you'll drop everything and come jump on top it.
He must be proud of it.

LOL Exactly! I never know what to say when I get a pic like that. There's always this pause like they want me to go ape shit over how big it is or something...but I really like this guy so I'm trying not to let it rub me the wrong way 😢

Why haven't you guys met up in person yet? That would've rubbed me the wrong way completely. But I also wouldn't take someone seriously who can't take the time to meet up with me in person during the 3 months we've been talking *shrugs*

Posted by thisismylife2015
Why haven't you guys met up in person yet? That would've rubbed me the wrong way completely. But I also wouldn't take someone seriously who can't take the time to meet up with me in person during the 3 months we've been talking *shrugs*

He lives in another state...its only about a 2hr drive but his job is more demanding than mine so I suspect that's at least part of the reason. If he lived closer I think we would've met sooner.

Posted by Koniucha
Or even better, say, OMG, something is attacking you!!

LMAO!!!!

Posted by Thecolorpink

My question, do you feel like its tacky to send naked pics to someone you're dating and haven't even slept with/met yet? Or is not a big deal?

I'd pass. Pony pics aren't necessary at this stage of the game. I've experienced worse though. Second date, at his house just finished dinner and we're about to settle on the couch to watch a movie and dude excused himself--- I'm thinking to go to the washroom or something. I'm stuffings my face with popcorn and almost choked. He comes out naked, uncircumcised to boot, just swinging. What the many f*cks? I stood up, grabbed my bag and left without a word.

Posted by Koniucha
I'm just curious, what are his placements?

The guy I am talking to is also two hours away from me.

Taurus Sun, Aries Moon, Venus Gem, Mars in Aqua. I've complained about him on the Taurus board lol.

If he wants a tit pic, send him this:

Yes the Tauruses/Scorps love to show off their goods....horny bastards..

*sidenote, still got some dick pics in my phone*

I look at them every now and then.

Posted by truecap
If he wants a tit pic, send him this:

Lol I'm glad he hasn't asked for any pics back...something like this is exactly what I would send!

Posted by LillyBlossom

Posted by clooneyyears
i send whatever i feel like. my dinner, my penis, pics of my dog in the park.

it's both tacky and not a big deal.

Actually, it's the photographical equivalent to flashing someone.

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Yeah, when you put it that way I see what you mean.

Posted by Koniucha
Yes, I was talking to a Taurus also I met online that sent me a dick pic too. LOL

I always thought that Taurus' were a little more "reserved" but I think its the Aries moon that makes him a kind of "impulsive" lol

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Posted by Thecolorpink
So I've got a little thing going with a guy I met online. Its been off and on for about 3 months but we haven't met in person yet. Today while texting back and forth, our chat got a little "hot" and then Bam! The "dic pic" lol. Now, yes he has a really nice body, and is quite endowed lol but I have mixed feelings about guys just sending me a picture of their junk out of nowhere. I'd rather wait, and see it in person if we get to that point...

My question, do you feel like its tacky to send naked pics to someone you're dating and haven't even slept with/met yet? Or is not a big deal?

I don't necessarily think It's "tacky" or trashy, etc. like you said the conversation was getting heated right?? So you can't really blame him for his natural instincts to come to play. Now if he were to have sent you a nude out of completely no where or while you were having a serious conversation, then I'd agree. But I mean you guys were having a heated conversation, and he obviously trusted you enough to even send you a nude. Plus it's been 3 months. And I'm assuming by the way you are talking this is the first time he's done this. Thats pretty good...most guys send dick pics the first second you give them your number.

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Valid points. No he's never done anything like that before. He just didn't seem like the type to do that. I do give him credit. He didn't ask for any of me which most guys I've encountered tend to do. It was just awkward.

Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. Is this the taurus VIG guy?

Yep it's him

I hesitate to ask...but does the fact that he didn't ask for one back make it any better?

Posted by Thecolorpink
I hesitate to ask...but does the fact that he didn't ask for one back make it any better?

Lol. None of it sounds good from an outsiders point of view, but let me not be quick to judge.

Since I haven't read your other threads and you say his job is demanding....does he not get days off? Does he work 24hrs? Is constantly on call? Does he not have a car? Do you not have a car? Can the two of you not drive somewhere in the middle to meet for dinner for an hour or two? Have you ever offered to just drive to meet him since he's so busy?

I get there is distance, but 2hrs is not that big of a distance. As a stranger reading this, I would think he was not really interested in really getting to know you for anything more than sex. But I don't know the whole story or interact with him. If one of your friends was telling you this exact same story, what would you tell them?

Posted by Thecolorpink
I hesitate to ask...but does the fact that he didn't ask for one back make it any better?

Lol. None of it sounds good from an outsiders point of view, but let me not be quick to judge.

Since I haven't read your other threads and you say his job is demanding....does he not get days off? Does he work 24hrs? Is constantly on call? Does he not have a car? Do you not have a car? Can the two of you not drive somewhere in the middle to meet for dinner for an hour or two? Have you ever offered to just drive to meet him since he's so busy?

I get there is distance, but 2hrs is not that big of a distance. As a stranger reading this, I would think he was not really interested in really getting to know you for anything more than sex. But I don't know the whole story or interact with him. If one of your friends was telling you this exact same story, what would you tell them?

Here's another take on the dick pic.....it might be better to get a heads up of what his dick looks like before you see it in person. What if he has a really weird looking dick? Imagine the embarrassment of trying to be polite, but not wanting to go near it? lol

Chris Browns dick tho

Posted by beautifuldiaster

What did you say after he sent it?

That's not the definitive question.

Posted by Thecolorpink

I never know what to say when I get a pic like that.

There's always this pause like they want me to go ape shit over how big it is or something...

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The general population in dxp has never confirmed (to my knowledge) that men randomly send these pics to females. This lady has it done so regularly that she never knows what to say, and it always give her a pause.

The definitive question is: What did you say to him before he sent this pic?


To me, OP, you sound like a dick tease. You talk nasty to him to get him aroused and then you go crying wolf.


Women like you get raped.

Posted by Ssupes
Your also not looking at the fact that this sometimes works! Women do send nudes.

Maybe he wants to see yours and make sure it's something he wants to dive into before the trip to see you?

Food for thought

That just sounds really shallow.

Posted by LillyBlossom
Will it help you feel better about him?

Oddly enough, it will. That sounds shitty but I just never got the vibe that all he wanted was sex so I'm trying to rationalize it lol.

Posted by beautifuldiaster
What did you say after he sent it? lol

So, I didn't send any pics back. I played it off and simply said "wow you're being bad today lol" to which he responded with an "lol" and we continued or convo. We talked on the phone later that night and it was never brought up...which makes me breathe a sigh of relief lol.

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Posted by LillyBlossom
Will it help you feel better about him?

Oddly enough, it will. That sounds shitty but I just never got the vibe that all he wanted was sex so I'm trying to rationalize it lol.

Now, your saying it will help but trying to rationalize it? Confused.

Did it bother you that he did it?
Did it change anything?
Will you not see him now?

Don't rule out that he's prob wanting you to accept it and say come.

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Basically, I get turned off when a guy just sends a dick pic that I didn't ask for. So, I was trying to rationalize him sending me one and not asking for one back because I like him, and I don't get the vibe that its just about sex with him.

Yes it bothered me that he did it, but I overlooked it because of the type of person he comes off as to me.

It made things awkward for me at first, didn't seem to bother him.

I'll probably still see him if plans ever come to fruition. If not, that sucks but oh well.

Posted by thisismylife2015

Posted by Thecolorpink
I hesitate to ask...but does the fact that he didn't ask for one back make it any better?

Lol. None of it sounds good from an outsiders point of view, but let me not be quick to judge.

Since I haven't read your other threads and you say his job is demanding....does he not get days off? Does he work 24hrs? Is constantly on call? Does he not have a car? Do you not have a car? Can the two of you not drive somewhere in the middle to meet for dinner for an hour or two? Have you ever offered to just drive to meet him since he's so busy?

I get there is distance, but 2hrs is not that big of a distance. As a stranger reading this, I would think he was not really interested in really getting to know you for anything more than sex. But I don't know the whole story or interact with him. If one of your friends was telling you this exact same story, what would you tell them?

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His job has odd hours. He basically works every single day for one month, gets one month off. When we met back in Feb he was just going back for his "month" and he accepted overtime so he also worked March and April. May is the first month he's had off since I've known him. Part of the reason we haven't met is because we haven't been in constant contact. I've just started back talking to him after 3 weeks of silence.

We both have kids and agreed that at least for our initial meeting he would come to my area first.

The reason why I feel like its not just about sex is because of the distance. He's in another state, and we met online so I'm sure he could get sex much closer to home if that's all he wanted. With my experience in the past, guys who only wanted sex were much more anxious to meet right away.

If my friend had told me this whole story I probably would caution her to be careful and see how the first meeting goes. That's what I plan to do. We'll be meeting in public so sex isn't an option right now.

Posted by truecap

Posted by Ssupes
Your also not looking at the fact that this sometimes works! Women do send nudes.

Maybe he wants to see yours and make sure it's something he wants to dive into before the trip to see you?

Food for thought

That just sounds really shallow.

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He IS really shallow. 😛

I've only sent one dic pic my whole life. The weird part is she sent me nudes first, and also let me view her private FB section. She wasn't the first female to send me nudes, but she begged for the D so I figured it was fair. Of course the picture was perfect, and even after sex she fully believed my D was bigger then her toys. I don't see how, but I guess I can't see it from her angle.

Posted by Thecolorpink
So I've got a little thing going with a guy I met online. Its been off and on for about 3 months but we haven't met in person yet. Today while texting back and forth, our chat got a little "hot" and then Bam! The "dic pic" lol. Now, yes he has a really nice body, and is quite endowed lol but I have mixed feelings about guys just sending me a picture of their junk out of nowhere. I'd rather wait, and see it in person if we get to that point...

My question, do you feel like its tacky to send naked pics to someone you're dating and haven't even slept with/met yet? Or is not a big deal?

Is he a leo? LOL

Posted by tiziani
Just text him back:


https://cantheyseemydick.com/

😆

*mystic dick*

Posted by Caia
Is he a leo? LOL

I immediately thought Virgo.


I think he's a Taurus, though, with

Virgo tendencies.