LillyPetal
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Quirks Your Love Understands
Posted by LillyPetalAwww That's really sooooo sweet and romantic
My BF ended up coming by my house and handing something to my brother to give to me: A dark chocolate bar with crystallized ginger and a poem on the inside of the wrapper, a chocolate-brownie-fudge cupcake, a cup of hot chocolate with what tasted like Aztec spices, and a postcard with one of his drawings and a note.
As far as Quirks are concerned I don't know whether this is called quirk or not but one thing that my boyfriend is very patient about is my fighting and criticizing habit (both with my boyfriend only) lol I hate myself for that but it has been 4 years we are together and he is still tolerating all that butter. I am a big critic when it comes to my boyfriend I pic fights with him if he doesn't text me because he is busy or he doesn't give me time etc but he tolerates all that I know it all doesn't sounds good but I can't control these tantrums my Aries sun and mercury sucks.
Relationship becoming weaker would not be the right sentence to say because we still love each other and are hopeful for our future together but yes these daily fights are adversely effecting our relationship 😢
Posted by anna1Thank you for sharing. ❤Posted by LillyPetalAwww That's really sooooo sweet and romantic
My BF ended up coming by my house and handing something to my brother to give to me: A dark chocolate bar with crystallized ginger and a poem on the inside of the wrapper, a chocolate-brownie-fudge cupcake, a cup of hot chocolate with what tasted like Aztec spices, and a postcard with one of his drawings and a note.
As far as Quirks are concerned I don't know whether this is called quirk or not but one thing that my boyfriend is very patient about is my fighting and criticizing habit (both with my boyfriend only) lol I hate myself for that but it has been 4 years we are together and he is still tolerating all that butter. I am a big critic when it comes to my boyfriend I pic fights with him if he doesn't text me because he is busy or he doesn't give me time etc but he tolerates all that I know it all doesn't sounds good but I can't control these tantrums my Aries sun and mercury sucks.
Relationship becoming weaker would not be the right sentence to say because we still love each other and are hopeful for our future together but yes these daily fights are adversely effecting our relationship 😢click to expand
Communication is helping me because I don't want to harbor emotions when it comes to him, and the only way for me to understand and be understood is to communicate and articulate particular things.
Posted by LillyPetalYeah and I have to learn the opposite of that. I have to learn to shut my mouth when something is bothering mePosted by anna1Thank you for sharing. ❤Posted by LillyPetalAwww That's really sooooo sweet and romantic
My BF ended up coming by my house and handing something to my brother to give to me: A dark chocolate bar with crystallized ginger and a poem on the inside of the wrapper, a chocolate-brownie-fudge cupcake, a cup of hot chocolate with what tasted like Aztec spices, and a postcard with one of his drawings and a note.
As far as Quirks are concerned I don't know whether this is called quirk or not but one thing that my boyfriend is very patient about is my fighting and criticizing habit (both with my boyfriend only) lol I hate myself for that but it has been 4 years we are together and he is still tolerating all that butter. I am a big critic when it comes to my boyfriend I pic fights with him if he doesn't text me because he is busy or he doesn't give me time etc but he tolerates all that I know it all doesn't sounds good but I can't control these tantrums my Aries sun and mercury sucks.
Relationship becoming weaker would not be the right sentence to say because we still love each other and are hopeful for our future together but yes these daily fights are adversely effecting our relationship 😢
Communication is helping me because I don't want to harbor emotions when it comes to him, and the only way for me to understand and be understood is to communicate and articulate particular things.click to expand
Posted by anna1*hugs* Thankful for the patience and understanding of our men. 😄 #ButPuttingInTheEffortPosted by LillyPetalYeah and I have to learn the opposite of that. I have to learn to shut my mouth when something is bothering mePosted by anna1Thank you for sharing. ❤Posted by LillyPetalAwww That's really sooooo sweet and romantic
My BF ended up coming by my house and handing something to my brother to give to me: A dark chocolate bar with crystallized ginger and a poem on the inside of the wrapper, a chocolate-brownie-fudge cupcake, a cup of hot chocolate with what tasted like Aztec spices, and a postcard with one of his drawings and a note.
As far as Quirks are concerned I don't know whether this is called quirk or not but one thing that my boyfriend is very patient about is my fighting and criticizing habit (both with my boyfriend only) lol I hate myself for that but it has been 4 years we are together and he is still tolerating all that butter. I am a big critic when it comes to my boyfriend I pic fights with him if he doesn't text me because he is busy or he doesn't give me time etc but he tolerates all that I know it all doesn't sounds good but I can't control these tantrums my Aries sun and mercury sucks.
Relationship becoming weaker would not be the right sentence to say because we still love each other and are hopeful for our future together but yes these daily fights are adversely effecting our relationship 😢
Communication is helping me because I don't want to harbor emotions when it comes to him, and the only way for me to understand and be understood is to communicate and articulate particular things.click to expand
Yeah we are lucky to have such men in our life. Grateful to God for that 🙂
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My BF ended up coming by my house and handing something to my brother to give to me: A dark chocolate bar with crystallized ginger and a poem on the inside of the wrapper, a chocolate-brownie-fudge cupcake, a cup of hot chocolate with what tasted like Aztec spices, and a postcard with one of his drawings and a note.
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