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How many drinks did she have over the course of the night?
Posted by Sssupes
This Cap has been amazing, until last night.We went on a double date with my oldest and dearest friend and her husband last night (both amazing people). Everything started off just fine until we got to the nice and upscale bar. Our waitress was very pretty and then the Caps insecurities started to show. Absolutely nothing happened that would be considered flirting. After she brought us our drinks the Cap requested a different server/waitress. I was beyond floored.
On the way home she was even saying my friend was flirty/too chatty with me! I've known my friend for 30+ years. Plus, her husband Was there and we get along great and talked most of the night.
Such a disappointment. Don't think I can handle the jealousy. Hopefully she can fix this
Oh wow...even requested a different server or waitress. That's too much.
Asking for a different waitress??how embarrassing and unexpected for a Capricorn.
Whatever you do, you should talk to her about her behavior and put your foot down if you want to continue.
Posted by LadyNeptune
How many drinks did she have over the course of the night?
Only 3
Posted by CocoKat
Asking for a different waitress??how embarrassing and unexpected for a Capricorn.Whatever you do, you should talk to her about her behavior and put your foot down if you want to continue.
Nah, I'm not gonna talk to her about it. In my experience, this is her own battle to fight and bringing it up only makes things worse
Posted by SuperMercurial
Stop trying to change someone whose only fault is that they desire too hardWhere in what I said indicated I wanted to change her?
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by CocoKat
Asking for a different waitress??how embarrassing and unexpected for a Capricorn.Whatever you do, you should talk to her about her behavior and put your foot down if you want to continue.
Nah, I'm not gonna talk to her about it. In my experience, this is her own battle to fight and bringing it up only makes things worse
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you must not like her all that much if its easier to break it off then it is to bring it up and try and have her work on it.
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by LadyNeptune
How many drinks did she have over the course of the night?
Only 3
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Are we talking 3 beers or 3 cocktails? Also is she really petite
Posted by SuperMercurial
So I'm talking to a fkn retard. Just give me her moon sign so I can leave. Is she a virgo moon? Do caps with virgo moons exist?
Why don't you suck my fucking cock with your insulting ass. GTFOH
LOL @ Stupes
I suppose your version of a "nice and upscale bar" would be the local Hooters.
Your story smells like bullshit.
Posted by CocoKat
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by CocoKat
Asking for a different waitress??how embarrassing and unexpected for a Capricorn.Whatever you do, you should talk to her about her behavior and put your foot down if you want to continue.
Nah, I'm not gonna talk to her about it. In my experience, this is her own battle to fight and bringing it up only makes things worse
you must not like her all that much if its easier to break it off then it is to bring it up and try and have her work on it.
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I'm not breaking anything off as of yet.
Posted by Wynter
LOL @ StupesI suppose your version of a "nice and upscale bar" would be the local Hooters.
Your story smells like bullshit.
Haha!
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by LadyNeptune
How many drinks did she have over the course of the night?
Only 3
Are we talking 3 beers or 3 cocktails? Also is she really petite
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Cocktails. Martinis. She wasn't drunk. She's not petite
Posted by Sssupes
This Cap has been amazing, I'm lucky to know her.We went on a double date with my twinkie-eating beer-guzzling bar buddies. Everything started off just fine until we got to Hooters. Our waitress was very pretty and I began flirting outrageously until the Cap became fed up with my boorish behavior. Absolutely nothing happened that would be considered flirting, besides my slapping the Hooters chicks ass and grabbing at her titties.
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Posted by Wynter
Posted by Sssupes
This Cap has been amazing, I'm lucky to know her.We went on a double date with my twinkie-eating beer-guzzling bar buddies. Everything started off just fine until we got to Hooters. Our waitress was very pretty and I began flirting outrageously until the Cap became fed up with my boorish behavior. Absolutely nothing happened that would be considered flirting, besides my slapping the Hooters chicks ass and grabbing at her titties.
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I gotta say that I love your sense of humor. Pretty funny
Posted by Foreverloveme
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Aries Moon
Venus in Aqua
Posted by CTFU
Posted by CTFU@Sssupes, did you ask your date why she requested a different waitress,
or are you making assumptions?
why you no answer lol
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No, I didn't ask. That would start drama and ruin date night
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Foreverloveme
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Aries Moon
Venus in Aquaclick to expand
well her aries moon trine your ascedent, moon & sun and her venus opposite your sun. If you can make it work sounds like a good match. Caps are one of the few signs that go together well with leo outside the fire or air element.
some nice sextiles there too.
Posted by CocoKat
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Foreverloveme
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Aries Moon
Venus in Aqua
well her aries moon trine your ascedent, moon & sun and her venus opposite your sun. If you can make it work sounds like a good match. Caps are one of the few signs that go together well with leo outside the fire or air element.
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She's been pretty cool. No real complaints so far other than this. •
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by CocoKat
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Foreverloveme
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Aries Moon
Venus in Aqua
well her aries moon trine your ascedent, moon & sun and her venus opposite your sun. If you can make it work sounds like a good match. Caps are one of the few signs that go together well with leo outside the fire or air element.
She's been pretty cool. No real complaints so far other than this. •
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it may have been awful & embarrassing, but at least you know she cares. Tbh the aries moons I know are pretty blatent like this. If you don't put your foot down, things will get even more fiery the next time she that jealousy comes up. Just don't play with it! haha
Posted by Foreverloveme
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Foreverloveme
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Aries Moon
Venus in Aqua
Oh I meant with my friend for her and I to be so different, but thanks for clarifying. That behavior can get draining
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We have a Capricorn friend in our group of friends and the guys get really excited when he comes back into town but in about a week all the guys are ready for him to go back lol. He is such a sweet guy but the guys describe his as draining and overly sensitive. I suppose caps are pretty draining as ive heard from a few people
You are dating a Cap? Are you the one that was married to a Cap before? I could be wrong.
Posted by Vixen2
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by LadyNeptune
How many drinks did she have over the course of the night?
Only 3
Are we talking 3 beers or 3 cocktails? Also is she really petite
Cocktails. Martinis. She wasn't drunk. She's not petite
Wow!! only 3 drinks....requesting a different waitress...and a Venus Aqua....how frigging bizarre
That is waaaaay overboard of you ask me...
So unwarranted from your side of the story!
How unfortunate...
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This is my concern and will be a deal breaker for me. I'm waiting to see if this is an isolated incident or will be a repeated thing.
Posted by lnana04
You are dating a Cap? Are you the one that was married to a Cap before? I could be wrong.
Yes I was. Everyone is different!
Posted by CocoKat
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by CocoKat
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Foreverloveme
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Aries Moon
Venus in Aqua
well her aries moon trine your ascedent, moon & sun and her venus opposite your sun. If you can make it work sounds like a good match. Caps are one of the few signs that go together well with leo outside the fire or air element.
She's been pretty cool. No real complaints so far other than this. •
it may have been awful & embarrassing, but at least you know she cares. Tbh the aries moons I know are pretty blatent like this. If you don't put your foot down, things will get even more fiery the next time she that jealousy comes up. Just don't play with it! haha
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I don't put my foot down like that. She's not a kid, she's a grown ass woman. She is who she is and I am who I am.
Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by Foreverloveme
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Foreverloveme
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Aries Moon
Venus in Aqua
Oh I meant with my friend for her and I to be so different, but thanks for clarifying. That behavior can get draining
We have a Capricorn friend in our group of friends and the guys get really excited when he comes back into town but in about a week all the guys are ready for him to go back lol. He is such a sweet guy but the guys describe his as draining and overly sensitive. I suppose caps are pretty draining as ive heard from a few people
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I'm a Cap, and I talked to my Cap friend yesterday. Hadn't talked to her in a long while. She irritated me to no end...just all kind of wrong and offensive comments about my family, as I hers is perfect. We are going to clash big time if it happens again. She's reached her limit that quick with me.
When she came down the last time we were all happy to see her, but that was over in about two hours....no lie.
I don't know how people deal with some Caps to be 100% honest.
Posted by Sssupes
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Posted by CocoKat
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Foreverloveme
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Aries Moon
Venus in Aqua
well her aries moon trine your ascedent, moon & sun and her venus opposite your sun. If you can make it work sounds like a good match. Caps are one of the few signs that go together well with leo outside the fire or air element.
She's been pretty cool. No real complaints so far other than this. •
it may have been awful & embarrassing, but at least you know she cares. Tbh the aries moons I know are pretty blatent like this. If you don't put your foot down, things will get even more fiery the next time she that jealousy comes up. Just don't play with it! haha
I don't put my foot down like that. She's not a kid, she's a grown ass woman. She is who she is and I am who I am.
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I'm not agreeing with her behavior but she may not be aware of how it affects you. If you don't put up a boundary she will keep doing it cause she thinks it works. If you let her know how she is coming across you help her and you help the relationship and you give her room to improve.
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by lnana04
You are dating a Cap? Are you the one that was married to a Cap before? I could be wrong.
Yes I was. Everyone is different!
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Of course. It just seems your experience was one that would make you write off the sign.
Her issues could be more with how you interact with women and she's not confronting it. Idk.
Posted by Vixen2
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...
Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
Posted by Vixen2
@Inana04 I was reading some of your posts from 4 years ago lastnight. Just go ogling shit and dxp came up....you have great insight on Caps 😉
Aww, thanks
Posted by cheekyfaerie
As a former server, I've encountered women like that. It's not a pretty picture.I'd say something tho. As politely as possible. Ask her what's up. Otherwise, you're gonna get your ass chewed out when you break up with her and she thought everything was fine. It's not trying to change her, it's giving her a fighting chance instead of allowing her to feel snowed.
I might but very doubtful
Did she know the server?
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by cheekyfaerie
As a former server, I've encountered women like that. It's not a pretty picture.I'd say something tho. As politely as possible. Ask her what's up. Otherwise, you're gonna get your ass chewed out when you break up with her and she thought everything was fine. It's not trying to change her, it's giving her a fighting chance instead of allowing her to feel snowed.
I might but very doubtful
Alright, but you know as well as I do how much Caps like to be made to feel stupid.
Don't envy you a bit tho. It's a hard thing to bring up without making her feel defensive. You're kinda screwed either way. Just know I'd value you trying to discuss an issue with me. Even if the convo didn't start out so great, there's something to be said for talking through it. Of course, I'm not the kinda woman who gets shitty with waitresses. •
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I'm sure the confused look on my face and my friends faces spoke volumes. However, we just ignored it and carried on with laughing
Posted by lnana04
Posted by Vixen2
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...
Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
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And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.
Anyways, bcuz caps are freaking awesome, I'm gonna blame it on her aries moon! Thanks! 🙂
Posted by Vixen2
@Inana04 I was reading some of your posts from 4 years ago lastnight. Just go ogling shit and dxp came up....you have great insight on Caps 😉
Were you next to ssupes at Hooters? 😛
Posted by Greentea
Posted by lnana04
Posted by Vixen2
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...
Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.
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That's why I'm waiting to see if it happens again. I'm giving it a fair chance. She's a good person and I can't punt her over 1 thing in 3 months
Posted by Greentea
Posted by lnana04
Posted by Vixen2
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...
Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.
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I don't drink at all...scared, but seeing people say only three drinks? I would think that's a whole lot, but again, idk since I don't drink.
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Greentea
Posted by lnana04
Posted by Vixen2
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...
Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.
That's why I'm waiting to see if it happens again. I'm giving it a fair chance. She's a good person and I can't punt her over 1 thing in 3 months
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Also, leos are usually nice people, and can be flirtatious...and maybe you were being toooooo nice to this girl, and it rubbed her the wrong way.
Posted by lnana04
Posted by Greentea
Posted by lnana04
Posted by Vixen2
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...
Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.
I don't drink at all...scared, but seeing people say only three drinks? I would think that's a whole lot, but again, idk since I don't drink.
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I don't drink much either, only when I go out and I usually only have a glass but there are a few occasions where I went all out and it wasn't good. 😢
I went crazy cap, did some stupid sh!t. Oh well, that was in college.
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Posted by Vixen2
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...
Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.
That's why I'm waiting to see if it happens again. I'm giving it a fair chance. She's a good person and I can't punt her over 1 thing in 3 months
Also, leos are usually nice people, and can be flirtatious...and maybe you were being toooooo nice to this girl, and it rubbed her the wrong way.
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All I did was order drinks.
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Greentea
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Posted by lnana04
Posted by Vixen2
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...
Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.
That's why I'm waiting to see if it happens again. I'm giving it a fair chance. She's a good person and I can't punt her over 1 thing in 3 months
Also, leos are usually nice people, and can be flirtatious...and maybe you were being toooooo nice to this girl, and it rubbed her the wrong way.
All I did was order drinks.
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Y'all very flirty though, and good looking. Its enough to drive even the softest of moons to jealousy. I stand by my statement of her aries moon bringing her to her boiling point tho. Just be fair with your lady, if she has her head screwed on right, she will value your honesty. Leo confidence is huge, especially for an earth sun.
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Posted by Vixen2
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...
Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.
That's why I'm waiting to see if it happens again. I'm giving it a fair chance. She's a good person and I can't punt her over 1 thing in 3 months
Also, leos are usually nice people, and can be flirtatious...and maybe you were being toooooo nice to this girl, and it rubbed her the wrong way.
All I did was order drinks.
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With a thousand watt smile...
🙂
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Posted by Vixen2
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...
Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.
That's why I'm waiting to see if it happens again. I'm giving it a fair chance. She's a good person and I can't punt her over 1 thing in 3 months
Also, leos are usually nice people, and can be flirtatious...and maybe you were being toooooo nice to this girl, and it rubbed her the wrong way.
All I did was order drinks.
With a thousand watt smile...
🙂
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😄 you know he did lol leos smile at everyone, it sucks when our partner thinks we are being flirty, we are just being a friendly leo...
Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Montgomery
Posted by SssupesAll I did was order drinks.
With a thousand watt smile...
🙂
😄 you know he did lol leos smile at everyone, it sucks when our partner thinks we are being flirty, we are just being a friendly leo...
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I'm guilty, of course.
If I'm really happy about who I'm with... it's worse-- it gets everywhere.
LEO Moons might understand, but apparently, it isn't our most appealing
character trait.
Posted by lnana04
Posted by Vixen2
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...
Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
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that's so true lol
i don't get drunk i get bossy when i drink a bit too much lol not sure what her inner issue is lol
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Posted by lnana04
Posted by Vixen2
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...
Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.
That's why I'm waiting to see if it happens again. I'm giving it a fair chance. She's a good person and I can't punt her over 1 thing in 3 months
Also, leos are usually nice people, and can be flirtatious...and maybe you were being toooooo nice to this girl, and it rubbed her the wrong way.
All I did was order drinks.
With a thousand watt smile...
🙂
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Nah, I purposefully look away if she's hot like that. That smile comes naturally and ALWAYS causes issues. ž
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This Cap has been amazing, until last night.
We went on a double date with my oldest and dearest friend and her husband last night (both amazing people). Everything started off just fine until we got to the nice and upscale bar. Our waitress was very pretty and then the Caps insecurities started to show. Absolutely nothing happened that would be considered flirting. After she brought us our drinks the Cap requested a different server/waitress. I was beyond floored.
On the way home she was even saying my friend was flirty/too chatty with me! I've known my friend for 30+ years. Plus, her husband Was there and we get along great and talked most of the night.
Such a disappointment. Don't think I can handle the jealousy. Hopefully she can fix this