Relationship advice?

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riseafterall
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So I'm in a relationship with one of those girls half the city is after, no idea how it got so far.

Problem is that she's my first girlfriend, and I'm extremely inexperienced with girls overall.

It gets a little more boring each time we're together because of this. First I wanted to just tell her that I don't feel it and just break up, but that will leave the same problems for next time, so I want to do something about it and fix this.

I'm indecisive, not assertive, shy, not much to say or ask. Not really attractive.
And it feels to me like we know all that there's to know about each other. I'm so confused as she's a 'perfect 10' and I don't know what I feel for her.

What do I do? How do I make her feel good and give her a fun time while I'm so indecisive and inexperienced?

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riseafterall
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Thanks so much people. All on point. Much love!!

For those who wanted to know, she's a Scorpio and I'm a fish. Both 1st decan.

Yesterday we hung out for 9 hours (time goes fast) and it was amazing. Such an undescribable deep connection. She cried while she was with me (about something between her parents). I heard that's very rare for a Scorp 🙂

She says she doesn't know what to do without me so it's all good. But I STILL have that inferior feeling.

Don, I didn't hit it yet (lol). She did do things with some assholes (really the player types). I just don't get how they do it, how they got her so far - while she values me, the soft shy dude. I seriously don't understand how they do it, and how it seems like they don't give a single fuck.

Confidence is so important indeed. I need to learn to experiment. And accept that things don't go automatically when you're not experienced.