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ok I just met this dude and in person and he is asking me for pics..I told him I dont send pics to strangers....and that was the end of our convo. I personally feel that if a dude just meets you and is asking for pics he is already putting a sexual connotation on things....what if I just wanted a friend? now if its my man than ill send away because I will trust him...but some random character? I can never feel comfy with that.
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naked/naughty or normal... if i dont know a person, lol, im not sure why i'm texting them.

a friend i had yeeeeaaars ago that liked me (perhaps still has a thing for me?) just dug my number up a couple days ago and said hi. i sent a hi back and he blew my phone up that night asking if i was single and where i was living, send pics. lol whatever guy. it didnt work for you back when... it's still not gonna work.

so even if it's someone i know and am not interested in, or even mildly interested in, the whole sending pics thing i think is stupid and sends me a message i dont like... something like you are really bored with your life or you are boring and are trying to find cheap excitement in me. no thanks. get lost.

it is actually kind of a turn off. you want a pic? seduce me successfully and take one yourself.
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Posted by sweethearts
I imagine these days that guys have got stacks of pics of their conquests...bet they even show them off to their mates!

Why would you trust a total stranger? Why would you even be that desperate? Those questions aren't directed at you...just the way I think..



thats how I think! its just weird to me....and where i live thses girls are desperate...they dont even need to send pics because they expose themselves so much on instagram.
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Posted by feby16aqua
Hi Bella. I wouldn't send them to someone you don't know that well / have slight reason, even a small one, to mistrust.




seems like the general consensus here is no pics to strangers....but people do it so casually where im from even my girfriends....I remember years ago I ws with my gf and I was being asked to send a pic and I asked her the same question im asking you guys and she told me i was being uptight.
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Posted by CreepyPants
naked/naughty or normal... if i dont know a person, lol, im not sure why i'm texting them.

a friend i had yeeeeaaars ago that liked me (perhaps still has a thing for me?) just dug my number up a couple days ago and said hi. i sent a hi back and he blew my phone up that night asking if i was single and where i was living, send pics. lol whatever guy. it didnt work for you back when... it's still not gonna work.

so even if it's someone i know and am not interested in, or even mildly interested in, the whole sending pics thing i think is stupid and sends me a message i dont like... something like you are really bored with your life or you are boring and are trying to find cheap excitement in me. no thanks. get lost.

it is actually kind of a turn off. you want a pic? seduce me successfully and take one yourself.



exactly!!! makes me feel objectified.
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Posted by Ligeia
Posted by bkbella86
Whats your stance on it? DO you mind sending pics to people you dont know or just met? Whats the point of it if you have already have seen the person? I have always felt a bit weird about it.



lol answer seems simple to me. Dude wants to beat

his meat to your image. If you're not readily around

or dating a pic will do. Was he asking for unclothed

pics? If I was him I wouldn't ask for a pic I would

just tell you to bring that gorgeous ass around my

way lol 😛 Can't blame the guy though you're a pretty

chica.


I have sent pics in the past. But I was very selective

of who I sent pics to and they would have to give up

the goods first.
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lmfao...with all this porn on the internet dudes are beating their meat to facepics?



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Posted by Ligeia
Posted by bkbella86
Whats your stance on it? DO you mind sending pics to people you dont know or just met? Whats the point of it if you have already have seen the person? I have always felt a bit weird about it.



lol answer seems simple to me. Dude wants to beat

his meat to your image. If you're not readily around

or dating a pic will do. Was he asking for unclothed

pics? If I was him I wouldn't ask for a pic I would

just tell you to bring that gorgeous ass around my

way lol 😛 Can't blame the guy though you're a pretty

chica.


I have sent pics in the past. But I was very selective

of who I sent pics to and they would have to give up

the goods first.
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thanx chica 🙂

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Posted by Stinger Baby
^ dont they? and it makes no sense. i see where the world's priorities are heading. and they wonder why we're taking over. cos we can at least focus on other things than what's in our pants...



Seriously but I don't blame them too much either because there is a gang of thirsty attention whoring females on the loose, as well. Hope they all find each other.