angry love

the deeper you feel for someone and know that there cannot be a future, the more angry/distant you act with them. there is deep love in your anger. remember all the M&B novels, where there is burning passion behind that cold distance. maybe that's why they say love hurts. guess in such relations

i hate you = i love you

love and it's different forms hmmmm.. has anyone had a happy ending to their cruel love?

I don't want a happy ending with a cruel love...
I have enough self-respect to just simply walk away...

You have to walk away. U cant make someone want u...
what is hard is when u don't know why. Everything happens for a reason. Doesn't stop the hurt
But is so true. Seems u always want something u cant have

Wow, grniaqua! Are you 56? You look fantastic, what's your secret?

I think why fight it? If someone leaves and doesn't want a future with you there is no use trying to save it if there is only one in the relationship...so yes distance yourself NC and go through the motions to recover yourself. It's sad but true, you can't make someone love you...

no the situation i am talking about is where both sides have intense feelings but they know they cannot act on them. the situation, anything, they are with someone, they are single but there are cultural/social/personal/whatever differences that you know will never let you two to come together. yet, you have insanely strong feelings for them, and then you are angry for having those feelings and try to act cold towards them and they towards you. your head hurts kind of feelings. like, say you get so jealous when someone you are fighting your feelings for talks of someone else, you just start getting a headache and excuse yourself and go away from them.

and it's strange but i think when you openly show your love for someone, they (men) run away, they don't care. but when you react to your feelings by inching away, they get this sixth sense and put two and two together and figure what you are feeling and try to check in on your feelings hahaha

try to remember, have you ever been acting (unintentinally) aloof/distant/busy and have someone vying for your attention? and then when you gave them attention, they have disappeared... so what gives? staying aloof/distant/busy?

If both sides have intense feelings but cannot act on them then forget it. It's a coward love. If its true then it gives the persn the courage to face it. If its really that intense then there's no way stopping it, but since they cannot do anything to it then it's futile. Forget it, why lay your cards if you know you'll never be receprocated.
True love makes the person strong enough to pursue everything.
Just a penny for my thought...

Oh, the ole forbidden love scenario... that's just wanting what you can't have and then glorifying it!