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Hello All!

I am in a relationship with a scorpio...I am an aquarius btw🙂 Everything is going great. We have been together for 7 months.

A while back he said to me he likes a woman who can make his mind tick...what does that mean?

On the days we don't see each other we usually text one another...I want to keep things fun and not routine..how can I make his 'mind tick' over text messaging? What are some things I can say/do?

Thanks for reading

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Thanks guys.

I know over text there's not much of a connection and it'snot very personal so I like to think out of the box - just things that can make him smile and not say the usual hi babe, how are you, wuu2 lol. He usually messages me first. It can get boring and I don't want it to be boring. I want to make his mind think.

I like to call him and I look forward to phoning him but sometimes my mind just goes blank. I have no idea why lol. That probably sounds silly and then I feel like I have nothing to say when in reality I'm a talker.
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Posted by mk89
Hello All!

I am in a relationship with a scorpio...I am an aquarius btw🙂 Everything is going great. We have been together for 7 months.

A while back he said to me he likes a woman who can make his mind tick...what does that mean?

On the days we don't see each other we usually text one another...I want to keep things fun and not routine..how can I make his 'mind tick' over text messaging? What are some things I can say/do?

Thanks for reading
Double innuendos, then play innocent when he takes the bait. 😉
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Whatever weird qualities you have, show them.

Aquarius is a sign that would prefer you be quirky, spunky, a bit eccentric and spontaneous. If you've got a deep mind, speak your thoughts.

Ever have those moments when you think of something goofy or insanely deep but don't say it b/c you don't want the other person to think you're a quack? lol Yeah Aquas love people who speak up =) It's actually a comforting relief for Aquas when they're close with a partner they can be weird, deep, analytical, & quirky with. It's so easy to be comfortable with people whose minds are just as complex as ours (Aqua). If your thoughts are always outside of the box and unorthodox, he'll like that, so don't hold back & show that side of you!

To be fair though, it's somewhat difficult to be extremely stimulating over text message, compared to other more personal forms of contact like being in person or actually talking over the phone.

Catch him off guard & tell him that you're having dirty thoughts about him....or ask him to tell you something interesting (make him work to initiate stimulation 1st & from there, match his efforts in return)....or ask him what he thinks about a current big news story that's sweeping social media....there's nothing more stimulating than someone asking me (aqua) for my opinion on a complex topic, & seeing them willing to intelligent spar back & forth with me! Mini debates are the best b/c it leaves room for your partner to notice just how intelligent you are, & to a real man, a woman who's not afraid to go toe to toe with a man in a discussion, is sexy!.....or if you haven't been overly emotional with him in awhile, bust out the good ole emotions, by way of complimenting him & naming out the rare things about him that you know most people either don't see, haven't seen or probably overlook.

Don't make the messages too long, but don't be too short either. There's nothing more boring than a "Hey, what's up?" text. Make it fun!!!

Sometimes though text messaging convos will get dry & that's ok. Just make sure that your actual convos in person or over the phone over-compensate for the dryness in the texts. The best way to make him tick is to be different. You can't use what you don't have...so just use what you do have, especially once you figure out the precise reasons he fell in love with you =) Find out what his ex's didn't give him, and if you've got it in you to give, give it 10-fold!

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Posted by truecap
The play on words.

Read what he says and see how you can find a literal meaning and make a joke on it.

Like "I worked my ass off today"
Then "omg!! how are you going to be able to sit down?"

He'll be like waaaa?? Oh, I get it. lol!
lol that's so corny but cute. 😛

for me and my hubs we don't text, we just use the Phone when he's out on a business trip. Never text.

but we have done the texting a couple times while we were in the same room next to eachother for fun!!

he got texting for me, just in case my battery dies down when i'm out. So it's for emergency reasons and i can Always find Wi-Fi at supermarkets and even at McDonalds or any popular establishment.