To get over someone...

All you have to do is break the soul ties (and mean it)—

Apparently, soul ties are formed through-

Sexual relationships (ex- Flings, etc.)
Close relationships (ex- Boyfriend/Girlfriend, Friendship, etc.)
Commitments (Marriage, etc.)

Man, if this is true, then people have many, many soul ties that have never been broken if they don't believe they are there. Scary.

What are your thoughts on soul ties...

"There is a traumatic effect when an intimate relationship is broken. It is one of the most painful experiences one may endure. That intimate —connecting?? goes to the very depths of one's heart and soul. When there is a —tearing??, it can greatly disrupt the entire life of a person."



That ^^^^^^^ is a description used to clarify how the breaking of a soul tie feels.



I'm pretty certain that souls don't exist.

"if karma has not been corrected"



Eden, Karma cannot be corrected ... it's a perpetual loop of energy that continually creates debt to pay ... beit, good or bad, it's still a debt that is carried forward to be experienced.

"I'm pretty certain that souls don't exist"

^^^^^ I guess u r just dead weight
If u feel u have a soul. Explain ur logic?

I actually agree with Eden on this...Although i would have explained it a little differently about the karma correction, i don't so much think it's correction but rather, learning the lessons associated with the karma & the experiences that we have in life, so that we do not have to repeat them (continual growth). Learning and feeling as efficiently as possible, and being the best person that you can be through it all. That way, the karma is kind of...fulfilled? And you will continue to move on with new karma & experiences...I don't think i've done a very good job of explaining that lol. I know what I mean in my head, but trying to get it out is another thing!!

LR, if only it were that easy...I'm quite certain that i've had a soul mate encounter, and there have been times when the only way I can describe the way that I feel (when things haven't been fine & dandy) is that of being 'pulled apart at the seams'. It was truly awful, and like nothing I have ever experienced before...And the more you try to push that someone out of your mind and out of your heart, when you do have a soul connection - it's like the more they are thrown in your face (signs) and the more intensely you feel...It's crazy...Just when you think you are making ground, you get hit with this wave of intensity and emotion that moves you like nothing else...It's not easy to deal with.

PAngel - question: Do you think that souls are / may be essentially another form of energy, and form part of this energy cycle? It's just that, I believe in energy but I also believe in souls....Just curious. No disrespect at all intended here 🙂

Posted by oddball73
I actually agree with Eden on this...Although i would have explained it a little differently about the karma correction, i don't so much think it's correction but rather, learning the lessons associated with the karma & the experiences that we have in life, so that we do not have to repeat them (continual growth). Learning and feeling as efficiently as possible, and being the best person that you can be through it all. That way, the karma is kind of...fulfilled? And you will continue to move on with new karma & experiences...I don't think i've done a very good job of explaining that lol. I know what I mean in my head, but trying to get it out is another thing!!

LR, if only it were that easy...I'm quite certain that i've had a soul mate encounter, and there have been times when the only way I can describe the way that I feel (when things haven't been fine & dandy) is that of being 'pulled apart at the seams'. It was truly awful, and like nothing I have ever experienced before...And the more you try to push that someone out of your mind and out of your heart, when you do have a soul connection - it's like the more they are thrown in your face (signs) and the more intensely you feel...It's crazy...Just when you think you are making ground, you get hit with this wave of intensity and emotion that moves you like nothing else...It's not easy to deal with.

PAngel - question: Do you think that souls are / may be essentially another form of energy, and form part of this energy cycle? It's just that, I believe in energy but I also believe in souls....Just curious. No disrespect at all intended here 🙂

No, Oddball, it isn't easy to deal with. That's why I said that in order to successfully break the soul tie, you have to really want to and mean it.

Learning about soul ties makes me reflect more and more seriously about my decision to get rid of more items from my ex (referencing another thread I created) because I no longer am with him and have no desire to be.

When I think about past relationships and the pain I experienced when they ended...today I don't want any ties with my exes. In fact, I can look at them now and I wonder what in the hell I was so bent out of shape about! I also know, in hindsight, that I chose them at a time in my life when I was unavailable emotionally and so were they. So why would I still want connections now when I am growi

The Jury is still out on it, Oddball .... I am currently searching the Energy Grid, as well as myself (soul search, lol), to see if I believe that souls don't exist. For me, it is something I have to find a truth for .... I can't just take a position on something simply because the idea of it sounds nice.

It appears to me that the idea of having a soul exists ... but, if you look at the actuality of it, where is the evidence?


If a person does a soul search ..... are they actually fixed? Or will they walk through the same puddle the next time they are presented with an area in their life that fails them. It appears to me that we make the same mistakes over and over and over ... so, wouldn't it be logical to think that if a person actually had a soul in which they could search, that they COULD fix their life?

A person loves the idea of a soulmate ... however, I've never felt a magnet pulling me, compelling me and another person to glue ourselves to each other for eternity .... nor, do I know anybody who has found thier soulmate. Wouldn't it seem logical that if two people were born to be together, then they would be together? Nothing, nobody would be able to stop these two from becoming one. So, then why do we all spend our whole lives ........ looking? Why should we even HAVE to ........ search? Shouldn't this person just be?

And the whole God thing really boggles my mind when it comes to the idea of the existence of a soul. I mean, according to the Book of Lambs, your number has been designated already, no free will, no choice. The Book is already written, supposedly. So, that would mean that if a soul is in existence, then it has already been determined whether it's evil or good. It has begun it's life, the first breath it took ... this mission of good or bad was already in place. Then what's the point of redemption? In this theory, a person cannot have their soul saved. So, if God is true, then the soul isn't .. because the two are in contridiction with each other.

Think about that ^^^ and tie that to karma. The Book of Lambs was written before any of us were even born ... so, it would be literally impossible to fix your karma for soul salvation ....... if you're fucked, then you were before time began.


To name a few .... there are hundreds of things running through my mind to convince me that we don't own individual souls. I'm leaning more towards One Ultimate/Collective Consciousness and we are extensions.

Think of like a giant tapestry with all four edges freyed, and threads hanging ...... in us, these strings dangle, tell us things, protect us, guide us .. but, still very much apart of this big woven design that is One Soul, One Consciousness ....... we are attached, we aren't individually enlightened beings trying to embark on uniting ...... we are already united, The One, and just living through this thread, and merely "think" we are alone in search of ourselves.


We have no individual souls to search for, we have no exclusive soulmate who was designated just for us ..... what we do have is string that keeps pulling on the back of our minds and hearts, telling us, we are all the same, we are equal, we are One.

I too have been contemplating the concept of oneness this year. I don't fully understand it, but a part of me has grasped enough of it that I get the basic idea and it's like I am just at that first step where it is beginning to make sense to me. Still have a long way to go though!

I'm always searching for my own truths...And like you, something has to make sense for me in order for me to believe it - I can't believe in just anything for the sake of it!!

Hmm, I think that when people keep 'walking through the same puddle' as you put it, they are not learning the lesson that has been presented to them and / or are letting fear holding them back. They don't REALLY want to get past it, which is why they don't (get past it). They'll only get past it when they are truly ready.

And I think that alot of people spend their whole lives searching for 'The One', because they don't want to be responsible for completing themselves - they just want someone to walk into their lives and make them feel complete (passing the responsibility on to someone else)... I do however believe that soul groups & soul mates exist, but I don't believe in only one as such - I have read up about different kinds of soul mates, and I am inclined (at this point in my life) to agree with that. In saying that though, I certainly don't think that everyone is meant to, or even ready to, meet a soul mate in this life.

I personally don't believe that my fate is fully sealed and pre-determined, I think that a person's destiny changes depending on what choices they make in this life...I do believe that we come here to accomplish certain things with regard to our own development, but I do not think that we have no control over where we are going...

It has been a pleasure exchanging opinions with you 🙂

how about... we're all right and we're all wrong simultaneously. i don't understand why we think there's only one truth.

It comes with maturity and not totally hating yourself like most libra's do and have such a hard time with this.

"Oh come on its so simple.You just stop talking to them and ignore them and thats it.No need for philosophy here.Its over,and done.This person doesnt exist anymore.Its so simple.Always works for me.Very comfy." I agree 100%