what are men really up to?

I met this man some two years ago and we both fell inlove and decided to live together. we have a beautiful daughter and I am still pregnant for our second child. we've been having our differences through out this period we have been living together.this constant fight pushed me to find someone online with whom I could talk to but later fell inlove because he was always there to console me when ever I was lonely. but I never let this feelings to control my home.so lately, we had a fight and he asked me to abort an almost due pregnancy. that he was going to take our daughter so that I could move on with my life because he has a woman in his life already. days later, when I was sleeping, he sneak into my phone and found a message I posted on here some time ago about a man I met and fell inlove with and he started pulling away from our relationship. now, he's acting so jealously. he wants me to go and same time asking me if my love for him has just finished like that? what is he really up? but deep in me, I want to go not because I don't want him anymore but because I can't give him what he wants.what he is looking for is an irab woman who always bow to her husband's feet whenever he is talking. what can I do Now? Sos!!!!!!!

What do you do? You leave.

You're both cheating already. If he was an asshole you should have left a long time ago instead of seeking out another man online. Of course he pulled away after he found out you were cheating, duh! He's also saying he has another woman now. What do you mean, "what's he up to?", you found another man, he found another woman. Stop acting like children and worry about the ones you made. Get away from him, get your shit together, and take care of your babies.

Oh, his behavior is an ego thing. The jealousy and asking how your love could vanish. You found another dude while you were living with him and having his kids. That's fucked up. That's why he's all over the place. He went through your phone (right or wrong) because he was suspicious of you. Turns out he had reason to be suspicious too.

Now of course, he ain't no better. He's got another woman. If he's really just looking for a servant anyway, what do you want to fix it for?

SMH

That is all.

Having kids without commitment. *smh*

Poor babies.

Posted by Ngie
I met this man some two years ago and we both fell inlove and decided to live together. we have a beautiful daughter and I am still pregnant for our second child. we've been having our differences through out this period we have been living together.this constant fight pushed me to find someone online with whom I could talk to but later fell inlove because he was always there to console me when ever I was lonely. but I never let this feelings to control my home.so lately, we had a fight and he asked me to abort an almost due pregnancy. that he was going to take our daughter so that I could move on with my life because he has a woman in his life already. days later, when I was sleeping, he sneak into my phone and found a message I posted on here some time ago about a man I met and fell inlove with and he started pulling away from our relationship. now, he's acting so jealously. he wants me to go and same time asking me if my love for him has just finished like that? what is he really up? but deep in me, I want to go not because I don't want him anymore but because I can't give him what he wants.what he is looking for is an irab woman who always bow to her husband's feet whenever he is talking. what can I do Now? Sos!!!!!!!

How about first things first?...BIRTH CONTROL. Then you need to grow up and become responsible enough to take care of the two children you chose to have. They are now your #1 priority..not random men.

Posted by truecap
Having kids without commitment. *smh*

Poor babies.

Yea..no kidding.