My ex is a scorpio and we were together for 8 years.. We had so many communication issues and he seemed to be quite distant and emotionally unavailable in the last year. We weren't having sex neither 😢... I knew we had money issues as I was making way more than him and I knew this bothered him as he wanted to be head of household and help out more. What ended our relationship was I found out he was communicating with other females outside our relationship and it killed me. It basically confirmed part of why he wasn't existent in the relationship so i had enough of the stress and feeling lonely and without my partner. It literally felt like i was a roomie and he could careless about my feelings.
Fast forward a month later i reached out to express my pain and how much things affected me. He was pretty short and got off the phone with little to say accept that this all was a lot and confusing and he needed to clear his mind and he would return the call but never did.
Now fast forward 3 months later he reaches out to express his feelings towards me and how much he cares and love me and he should've been by my side and he communicates this in two conversations he initiated even asking about my sex life which i trufully tell him i haven't gotten with anyone since we broke up but.... as soon as I initiate the third call after not hearing from him in 3 days he isn't as open and its as if he did a 180 and he's going with the flow of life and yatty yatty yatta! What is he doing? Is he playing games with me? He knows i still care and love him as I've expressed. I even asked why he asked about my sex life to see if he would express wanting me back but he didn't. he was pretty non chalant. In a way downplaying my reasons for leaving—!!
I was so lonely and alone near the end and i just wanted him to commit and reassure me that we were okay because his actions didn't help and at this point as I'm 29 we shouldn't be going through this. He claims he saw forever with me and i broke his heart but he didn't even acknowledge how broken i was. I didn't know myself anymore and i kept looking to him and i didn't feel like a individual anymore. He had so much control over me and i had to break free to get my control back.
I believe we could work but there must be needed changes on both sides! i demand that at this point! but i don't know what he wants from me. Can someone help me understand please?
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Fast forward a month later i reached out to express my pain and how much things affected me. He was pretty short and got off the phone with little to say accept that this all was a lot and confusing and he needed to clear his mind and he would return the call but never did.
Now fast forward 3 months later he reaches out to express his feelings towards me and how much he cares and love me and he should've been by my side and he communicates this in two conversations he initiated even asking about my sex life which i trufully tell him i haven't gotten with anyone since we broke up but.... as soon as I initiate the third call after not hearing from him in 3 days he isn't as open and its as if he did a 180 and he's going with the flow of life and yatty yatty yatta! What is he doing? Is he playing games with me? He knows i still care and love him as I've expressed. I even asked why he asked about my sex life to see if he would express wanting me back but he didn't. he was pretty non chalant. In a way downplaying my reasons for leaving—!!
I was so lonely and alone near the end and i just wanted him to commit and reassure me that we were okay because his actions didn't help and at this point as I'm 29 we shouldn't be going through this. He claims he saw forever with me and i broke his heart but he didn't even acknowledge how broken i was. I didn't know myself anymore and i kept looking to him and i didn't feel like a individual anymore. He had so much control over me and i had to break free to get my control back.
I believe we could work but there must be needed changes on both sides! i demand that at this point! but i don't know what he wants from me. Can someone help me understand please?