Do scorpios become weak when you are in love?

I feel like I have become so squashy and fluffy like a marshmallow. I am so powerless and I cant be dominant like what I normally do in my work life at all and it makes me feel so weak. Do other scorpios face the same problem as well?

Ps. I'm venus and mars in sagittarius

Posted by Vora
I feel like I have become so squashy and fluffy like a marshmallow. I am so powerless and I cant be dominant like what I normally do in my work life at all and it makes me feel so weak. Do other scorpios face the same problem as well?

Ps. I'm venus and mars in sagittarius

I'm not sure how to answer this. "Weak" in what regard? I'm just asking based on what you wrote in response to your question.

I guess I view it more as letting go.

Posted by Scorpio84
Weak as hell and i always hated that weakness called love, why did i let myself fall into the trap...

Pluto it's your fault cause you wanted me to fall into the deep darkness maybe so i could resurrect into someone better... -_-

Regarding your triple water in your chart, I understand your "resurrect" pretty well xD

Posted by Ellygant
I do and I love it.

Why else have a (long term intimate) relationship but to have someone you can be your most vulnerable with safely? If you're wanting to be in love, then it's a good thing to feel. It's only a problem if you're investing love in someone who doesn't love you back or you have difficulty accepting your emotions.

Besides, feeling weak occasionally is a good reminder to keep you grateful. If fixed signs get too caught up in feeling strong and dominant we tend to get pretty egotistical and annoying.

Everything you said is so true and that one problem has always been my problem #sigh I have always investing in wrong person and I have always getting hurt by them.

Love can get you killed.

Very cool question!

Except if you show the weakness or hide it so no one suspect?

Posted by thisisaquestionnaire
Life would be pretty empty without this. 🙂 But personally I don't show it at work or to most people.

Me too, only my close friends know how weak and sensitive I have become xD

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by Vora
I feel like I have become so squashy and fluffy like a marshmallow. I am so powerless and I cant be dominant like what I normally do in my work life at all and it makes me feel so weak. Do other scorpios face the same problem as well?

Ps. I'm venus and mars in sagittarius

I'm not sure how to answer this. "Weak" in what regard? I'm just asking based on what you wrote in response to your question.

I guess I view it more as letting go.

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I meant like I have become completely blind I'd say. It's like if I have my another self standing there and observe me, she would have told me "idiot, why would you let him treat you like that" and I know that it's bad for me but I'd still let it happen (just because it makes him feels good and it's not healthy in a relationship at all)

Posted by Gemitati
Very cool question!

Except if you show the weakness or hide it so no one suspect?

I can't hide it to my love one, that's the thing hahahaha xD and when he starts to get advantage of me because of "that love" I have for him. I would still... won't be able to see it hahah (but I'd scold at my friend if she lets a guy treat her like that)

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Love can get you killed.

yepp, brutally alive

i wouldn't call it weak. it's beautiful and it makes me become a protector of his heart

Def weak in the knees like SWV .. LOL!

Something no one can help though..

I am usually VERY dominant.. A tough cookie and I don't let ppl in too easily when it comes to the heart.. Once I find "him" I get all vulnerable and "weak.." I hate this feeling because your guards are let down and in that instance anything goes.. You either have a faithful lover, you can trust and count on to do right by you OR you end up with a douche..

Reasons why I take my time to fully open up to someone.. No matter HOW much I like them

yes