Mebs
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I believe the endorphins released into your body when you're in love or when you're hating is exactly the same.
You have some highs and lows not much for inbetween but if you're cool with that go for it don't justify why you're with him because ulitmately its because you believe you're in love
You have some highs and lows not much for inbetween but if you're cool with that go for it don't justify why you're with him because ulitmately its because you believe you're in love
he asks if I was showing my ass flirting while I was away, and did I let anyone touch HIS kitty.
Well he called me a little cookiemonster, told me a had a nasty mouth and grabbed me by my hair telling me to say it was his..
He has a earth/water(feminine) moon ?
Well he called me a little cookiemonster, told me a had a nasty mouth and grabbed me by my hair telling me to say it was his..
He has a earth/water(feminine) moon ?
@Piro he has a Gem moon
@Bling I hear what you're saying, but I feel that if I disrespect someone, I deserve it in return. I try to be very aware of how I treat people so they don't NEED to come at me like that to get the respect they deserve. Did I get your meaning?
@Pikachu No! Please don't say that. I don't want to be in love. I've made it 36 years without falling. I hope I wouldn't do it for someone that can irritate me like this. It tookme 36 years to get dumb.
@Bling I hear what you're saying, but I feel that if I disrespect someone, I deserve it in return. I try to be very aware of how I treat people so they don't NEED to come at me like that to get the respect they deserve. Did I get your meaning?
@Pikachu No! Please don't say that. I don't want to be in love. I've made it 36 years without falling. I hope I wouldn't do it for someone that can irritate me like this. It tookme 36 years to get dumb.
Bling it was sort of kind of joking but not really. He does that to me in bed and I kind of think he was just acting out a little fantasy.
@Exo I didn't mind at all lol. I was just mad in general.
Scorps are just assholes in and out of relationships.
Even if you were with him he'd probably still be an ass like that. They are just such fucking babies.
So annoying
Even if you were with him he'd probably still be an ass like that. They are just such fucking babies.
So annoying
Posted by Sagittarius89
Scorps are just assholes in and out of relationships.
Even if you were with him he'd probably still be an ass like that. They are just such fucking babies.
So annoying
Lol. I had a Scorp with whom I was strictly platonic. We were tight, did everything together. Out of the blue he stops answering my calls and won't call me back. He was taking a job in MD and was getting ready to leave. I drove to his house like "Whassup? You were actually gonna leave and not say goodbye or anything! What did I do?". He answered, "We were getting too close and I didnt want to get hurt.". I was like, " So you fricking hurt me first? Are you kidding me?". Asshole.
Posted by Mebs
I want to throw a major all out bitch fit. This Scorp stays doing crap that gets right under my skin. This motherfucker says he doesn't want a relationship. Fine. Im not used to that crap, but I'll try. Then I go on vacation, he plays phone games not calling me. Then when he decides to call, he asks if I was showing my ass flirting while I was away, and did I let anyone touch HIS pussy. He knows I was with my daughter. But I was pissed about him not calling, so I replied, "None if your business. You said you don't want a relationship. And it's not your pussy it's mine.". Well he called me a little bitch, told me a had a nasty mouth and grabbed me by my hair telling me to say it was his, which I refused. We tussled a little bit and ended up kissing, but that was it.
Anyway, we calmed down and made plans to meet up. I had car trouble and he came to help me out. He was very sweet and helpful, but so much time passed and I had to pick up my daughter so we couldn't hang. Made plans for the next day, but he called me 90 minutes later than he was supposed to, so I'd started doing other things, and told him I couldn't see him. I called Monday and we agreed to go out wednsday or Thursday. He was supposed to call me Tuesday but hasn't and I haven't heard from him since. I want to go in on his butt. Am I wrong? Is this how it is not having a relationship?I really enjoy his company, and like his character a lot, but his games are wearing on my patience. It's been a year, and he's gotten much better with treating me how I like to be treated, but he still pulls stupid crap and I end up checking him. And I don't even know why I haven't just left his butt. I never let a man get to me, but he's different. Damn. I really don't like getting angry. I know if I confront him now it'll be ugly. I don't mind as long as I'm in the right, but I'm not sure if I'm overreacting and playing into his nonsense. What do you guys think? I'm a little bitch right? Lol... No 😢
Every time you post something it feels like Deja vu, only thing is you sound like me and the sagg sounds like your scorp oh well good luck with that....... Remember patience is the key.
Posted by exoskeleton
^it seems like most of you sags have a hard time with us, lol.
That's not funny Exo :-p Y'all are a doggone handful. Smh.
Posted by MebsPosted by exoskeleton
^it seems like most of you sags have a hard time with us, lol.
That's not funny Exo :-p Y'all are a doggone handful. Smh.click to expand
You know I'm joking. But seriously though :-)
Posted by exoskeleton
^it seems like most of you sags have a hard time with us, lol.
Just the men. I really don't know any woman ones.
Sorry for the bitter remark. I had a bad night with my ex one last night.
Grrrs!
Posted by MebsPosted by Sagittarius89
Scorps are just assholes in and out of relationships.
Even if you were with him he'd probably still be an ass like that. They are just such fucking babies.
So annoying
Lol. I had a Scorp with whom I was strictly platonic. We were tight, did everything together. Out of the blue he stops answering my calls and won't call me back. He was taking a job in MD and was getting ready to leave. I drove to his house like "Whassup? You were actually gonna leave and not say goodbye or anything! What did I do?". He answered, "We were getting too close and I didnt want to get hurt.". I was like, " So you fricking hurt me first? Are you kidding me?". Asshole.click to expand
They are just so like that
Posted by scorpdivaPosted by Mebs
I want to throw a major all out bitch fit. This Scorp stays doing crap that gets right under my skin. This motherfucker says he doesn't want a relationship. Fine. Im not used to that crap, but I'll try. Then I go on vacation, he plays phone games not calling me. Then when he decides to call, he asks if I was showing my ass flirting while I was away, and did I let anyone touch HIS pussy. He knows I was with my daughter. But I was pissed about him not calling, so I replied, "None if your business. You said you don't want a relationship. And it's not your pussy it's mine.". Well he called me a little bitch, told me a had a nasty mouth and grabbed me by my hair telling me to say it was his, which I refused. We tussled a little bit and ended up kissing, but that was it.
Anyway, we calmed down and made plans to meet up. I had car trouble and he came to help me out. He was very sweet and helpful, but so much time passed and I had to pick up my daughter so we couldn't hang. Made plans for the next day, but he called me 90 minutes later than he was supposed to, so I'd started doing other things, and told him I couldn't see him. I called Monday and we agreed to go out wednsday or Thursday. He was supposed to call me Tuesday but hasn't and I haven't heard from him since. I want to go in on his butt. Am I wrong? Is this how it is not having a relationship?I really enjoy his company, and like his character a lot, but his games are wearing on my patience. It's been a year, and he's gotten much better with treating me how I like to be treated, but he still pulls stupid crap and I end up checking him. And I don't even know why I haven't just left his butt. I never let a man get to me, but he's different. Damn. I really don't like getting angry. I know if I confront him now it'll be ugly. I don't mind as long as I'm in the right, but I'm not sure if I'm overreacting and playing into his nonsense. What do you guys think? I'm a little bitch right? Lol... No 😢
Every time you post something it feels like Deja vu, only thing is you sound like me and the sagg sounds like your scorp oh well good luck with that....... Remember patience is the key.click to expand
Omg girl. I have a short fuse and it's getting shorter by the minute. I just don't want to waste my time. I hope I'm not st
Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by exoskeleton
^it seems like most of you sags have a hard time with us, lol.
Just the men. I really don't know any woman ones.
Sorry for the bitter remark. I had a bad night with my ex one last night.
Grrrs!click to expand
My best girlfriend is a Scorp. I love her to death, but she too will pull disappearing acts. But she's not as complicated as the men were.
Posted by exoskeleton
i apologize on behalf of all scorps!
but really, men will be assholes regardless of sign anyway. 😄
Haha! *Chris Tucker voice* and you know this...MAN!! Lol but no. Scorps are really a special breed. The men are unlike any other. In good ways and not so good ways.
Posted by exoskeleton
did you really mind the hair pulling/pussy claiming aggressiveness? 😛 my scorp has done all that and i fucking loved it.
anyway, he told you that he doesn't want a relationship. and it sounds like he just want sex. so really, if you want more from him and not the games and bullshit, drop his ass completely.
I really try to lighten up since the sex is awesome. But it's just not in my nature. He denies it, but I'm pretty sure he sees other girls. I figured with my tantrums he'd just ax me if it was just a sex thing. But he does adjust if I complain about something I don't like, as long as I leave it alone and dont nag him about it. Or maybe I'm just being naive. Smh. I shouldve just stayed my behind to my damn self. I had a gut feeling he was trouble when he first started staring at me.
Posted by MebsPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by exoskeleton
^it seems like most of you sags have a hard time with us, lol.
Just the men. I really don't know any woman ones.
Sorry for the bitter remark. I had a bad night with my ex one last night.
Grrrs!
My best girlfriend is a Scorp. I love her to death, but she too will pull disappearing acts. But she's not as complicated as the men were.click to expand
My best girlfriend and god mother to my kids is a sagg,
Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by exoskeleton
^it seems like most of you sags have a hard time with us, lol.
Just the men. I really don't know any woman ones.
Sorry for the bitter remark. I had a bad night with my ex one last night.
Grrrs!click to expand
What happened?
Posted by MebsPosted by scorpdivaPosted by Mebs
I want to throw a major all out bitch fit. This Scorp stays doing crap that gets right under my skin. This motherfucker says he doesn't want a relationship. Fine. Im not used to that crap, but I'll try. Then I go on vacation, he plays phone games not calling me. Then when he decides to call, he asks if I was showing my ass flirting while I was away, and did I let anyone touch HIS pussy. He knows I was with my daughter. But I was pissed about him not calling, so I replied, "None if your business. You said you don't want a relationship. And it's not your pussy it's mine.". Well he called me a little bitch, told me a had a nasty mouth and grabbed me by my hair telling me to say it was his, which I refused. We tussled a little bit and ended up kissing, but that was it.
Anyway, we calmed down and made plans to meet up. I had car trouble and he came to help me out. He was very sweet and helpful, but so much time passed and I had to pick up my daughter so we couldn't hang. Made plans for the next day, but he called me 90 minutes later than he was supposed to, so I'd started doing other things, and told him I couldn't see him. I called Monday and we agreed to go out wednsday or Thursday. He was supposed to call me Tuesday but hasn't and I haven't heard from him since. I want to go in on his butt. Am I wrong? Is this how it is not having a relationship?I really enjoy his company, and like his character a lot, but his games are wearing on my patience. It's been a year, and he's gotten much better with treating me how I like to be treated, but he still pulls stupid crap and I end up checking him. And I don't even know why I haven't just left his butt. I never let a man get to me, but he's different. Damn. I really don't like getting angry. I know if I confront him now it'll be ugly. I don't mind as long as I'm in the right, but I'm not sure if I'm overreacting and playing into his nonsense. What do you guys think? I'm a little bitch right? Lol... No 😢
Every time you post something it feels like Deja vu, only thing is you sound like me and the sagg sounds like your scorp oh well good luck with that....... Remember patience is the key.click to expand
Omg girl. I have a short fuse and it's
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I siad me and you both Let's pray for each other.............
I siad me and you both Let's pray for each other.............
Posted by exoskeleton
i apologize on behalf of all scorps!
but really, men will be assholes regardless of sign anyway. 😄
True that! Men suck lol
Posted by MebsPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by exoskeleton
^it seems like most of you sags have a hard time with us, lol.
Just the men. I really don't know any woman ones.
Sorry for the bitter remark. I had a bad night with my ex one last night.
Grrrs!
What happened?click to expand
I walked past him without giving him a hug and didn't sit down in the same chair as him.
Therefor I was "mad" at him. And he just completely flew off the handle.
Too much triggering. This is exactly why we aren't together anymore.
Posted by scorpdiva
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I siad me and you both Let's pray for each other.............
I will 3 in and pray for you guys as well lol
Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by scorpdiva
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I siad me and you both Let's pray for each other.............
I will 3 in and pray for you guys as well lolclick to expand
Thanks Sagg89 every bit helps 🙂
Posted by MebsPosted by exoskeleton
did you really mind the hair pulling/pussy claiming aggressiveness? 😛 my scorp has done all that and i fucking loved it.
anyway, he told you that he doesn't want a relationship. and it sounds like he just want sex. so really, if you want more from him and not the games and bullshit, drop his ass completely.
I really try to lighten up since the sex is awesome. But it's just not in my nature. He denies it, but I'm pretty sure he sees other girls. I figured with my tantrums he'd just ax me if it was just a sex thing. But he does adjust if I complain about something I don't like, as long as I leave it alone and dont nag him about it. Or maybe I'm just being naive. Smh. I shouldve just stayed my behind to my damn self. I had a gut feeling he was trouble when he first started staring at me.click to expand
+ "Made plans for the next day, but he called me 90 minutes later than he was supposed to, so I'd started doing other things, and told him I couldn't see him. I called Monday and we agreed to go out wednsday or Thursday. He was supposed to call me Tuesday but hasn't and I haven't heard from him since"
I think he mostly likely is seeing other people and hoping to keep you faithful on your side of the equation.
Posted by scorpdiva
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I siad me and you both Let's pray for each other.............
Oh ok girl. Will do.
Posted by MiaSangria
+ "Made plans for the next day, but he called me 90 minutes later than he was supposed to, so I'd started doing other things, and told him I couldn't see him. I called Monday and we agreed to go out wednsday or Thursday. He was supposed to call me Tuesday but hasn't and I haven't heard from him since"
I think he mostly likely is seeing other people and hoping to keep you faithful on your side of the equation.
Right. A have his cake and eat it to type of thing. But I'm the one allowing it so that's my fault. But honestly I don't really care about that as long as he treats me right. I don't try to lock a man down like that. Now marriage is different. Bring out the handcuffs lol!
Posted by scorpdivaPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by scorpdiva
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I siad me and you both Let's pray for each other.............
I will 3 in and pray for you guys as well lol
Thanks Sagg89 every bit helps 🙂
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Yes lady. Thank you 😄
Am a gem moon too.But i donno many gem moons ,so this is my perspective only
So here's how i see this.I tend to say the exact opposite when i desire some.thing/one very much.
Blame it on the bi polar nature of my emotion.It doesnt necessarly mean he likes to play those games.Its kinda hard to explain..he's actually evaluating you at the same time giving you a preview into his inner recess.One side is very good(charming),while the other side is just "unknown"(kinda black hole and its scary!).He's trying to expose the other twin's emotion through those games and gauging your reactions.But remember gemini is a masculine sign yet a young kid in terms of spiritual evolution.Either assure him through actions that it doesnt bother you or tell how uncomfy it feels
"None if your business. You said you don't want a relationship...."
Rebuttals like this emboldens him further to show his immature side every now and then.The trick is to act with a "whatever dude" smug attitude in such scenario.He's sees your emotions on display and its natural for him to play with it.
"I called Monday and we agreed to go out wednsday or Thursday. ... "
I am a lazy ass,no doubt about it .That lazy ass was probably chilling someplace.
My hunch is that since you played along so far he has developed a notion , whatever he says or does all's well that ends well.
"I know if I confront him now it'll be ugly. I don't mind as long as ..."
I don't mind confrontation as long its worth improving myself.I'll rather see it as how you want me to act and care for you ie if am interested in you.(your case still not ina relationship so cant say for sure).
Abase yourself and tell him whats on your mind instead.Dont display emotions .Though deeply am very emotional,i'd rather feel emotions through your 'intentional actions' than displaying it(not comfy) and mind you am are very good at reading you.Your actions(or lack of it) will hurt me more than your words!.
Appliy reverse psycology in situations when you find him playing games, is my advice.Always maintain an element of uncertainity within that application which should deter him from thise games .
"This mothertreetrunker says he doesn't want a relationship"
Lol lair lair.Confront him..Think of some innovative idea to set a deadline.Confront and tell him ..dont let his lazy ass have his way.If you really in his heart he'll accept! 🙂
So here's how i see this.I tend to say the exact opposite when i desire some.thing/one very much.
Blame it on the bi polar nature of my emotion.It doesnt necessarly mean he likes to play those games.Its kinda hard to explain..he's actually evaluating you at the same time giving you a preview into his inner recess.One side is very good(charming),while the other side is just "unknown"(kinda black hole and its scary!).He's trying to expose the other twin's emotion through those games and gauging your reactions.But remember gemini is a masculine sign yet a young kid in terms of spiritual evolution.Either assure him through actions that it doesnt bother you or tell how uncomfy it feels
"None if your business. You said you don't want a relationship...."
Rebuttals like this emboldens him further to show his immature side every now and then.The trick is to act with a "whatever dude" smug attitude in such scenario.He's sees your emotions on display and its natural for him to play with it.
"I called Monday and we agreed to go out wednsday or Thursday. ... "
I am a lazy ass,no doubt about it .That lazy ass was probably chilling someplace.
My hunch is that since you played along so far he has developed a notion , whatever he says or does all's well that ends well.
"I know if I confront him now it'll be ugly. I don't mind as long as ..."
I don't mind confrontation as long its worth improving myself.I'll rather see it as how you want me to act and care for you ie if am interested in you.(your case still not ina relationship so cant say for sure).
Abase yourself and tell him whats on your mind instead.Dont display emotions .Though deeply am very emotional,i'd rather feel emotions through your 'intentional actions' than displaying it(not comfy) and mind you am are very good at reading you.Your actions(or lack of it) will hurt me more than your words!.
Appliy reverse psycology in situations when you find him playing games, is my advice.Always maintain an element of uncertainity within that application which should deter him from thise games .
"This mothertreetrunker says he doesn't want a relationship"
Lol lair lair.Confront him..Think of some innovative idea to set a deadline.Confront and tell him ..dont let his lazy ass have his way.If you really in his heart he'll accept! 🙂
@piroglesic thanks so much for your input. It's funny I didnt put it in my op cuz I didn't want it too long, but yesterday I saw him driving with his young son in his car. In my head I was like you bastard you're not doing anything you couldve picked up the phone and called me lol. I also know that he owns an apt bldg and takes care of most of the maintenance issues himself. He always talks of that taking up his time, but like you said, he's just being lazy about things and I'm allowing it.
So bottom line is I've spoiled him by letting do things and barking but not biting? And he placated me by doing just enough so I stay, but he still gets to be lazy? I guess I've been a little too understanding of his issues with his son's mom and his landlord obligations. I guess I hare to really push cuz I'm afraid to see someone really doesn't care for me that much. 😢 but I guess it is what it is, and dragging it out what change the truth of the matter.
Thanks so much for shedding light on this. I guess my fiery Sag emotions have me jump right into battle, then my easy going nature takes over and I cool down. He sees it as a weakness.
So bottom line is I've spoiled him by letting do things and barking but not biting? And he placated me by doing just enough so I stay, but he still gets to be lazy? I guess I've been a little too understanding of his issues with his son's mom and his landlord obligations. I guess I hare to really push cuz I'm afraid to see someone really doesn't care for me that much. 😢 but I guess it is what it is, and dragging it out what change the truth of the matter.
Thanks so much for shedding light on this. I guess my fiery Sag emotions have me jump right into battle, then my easy going nature takes over and I cool down. He sees it as a weakness.
whats his venus sign?
with air moon signs, if you love me, talk to me.
with fire, if you love me, play with me
with water, if you love me, cry with me
with earth, if you love me, feed me
remember my scorp is a gemini moon also. if im pissed off. i do not talk to him. i give him the sag smug. it will drive him batty and he will be clawing at me. so in summary, dont talk! the silence will be deafening.
the larger issue is, why u going through all this with a guy who doesnt want a relationship? dont settle mutable sign. you will end up resenting him. sounds like you have a lil bit.
with fire, if you love me, play with me
with water, if you love me, cry with me
with earth, if you love me, feed me
remember my scorp is a gemini moon also. if im pissed off. i do not talk to him. i give him the sag smug. it will drive him batty and he will be clawing at me. so in summary, dont talk! the silence will be deafening.
the larger issue is, why u going through all this with a guy who doesnt want a relationship? dont settle mutable sign. you will end up resenting him. sounds like you have a lil bit.
nice a venus in earth sign. hes practical in love. what do virgos like in love? companionship!! they want to feel appreciated and needed. but venus in virgo is also discriminating and hella picky. i bet he has a secret "list" of what he wants out of a mate. is his mars in an earth sign 2?
to answer your question,
sag women can be straight up bitches. from one bitch to another. trust me, he loves it. it keeps things interesting. if u werent as slutty and as bitchy hed get bored with you very quickly. bitchiness = tension.
to answer your question,
sag women can be straight up bitches. from one bitch to another. trust me, he loves it. it keeps things interesting. if u werent as slutty and as bitchy hed get bored with you very quickly. bitchiness = tension.
Posted by DMV
with air moon signs, if you love me, talk to me.
with fire, if you love me, play with me
with water, if you love me, cry with me
with earth, if you love me, feed me
remember my scorp is a gemini moon also. if im pissed off. i do not talk to him. i give him the sag smug. it will drive him batty and he will be clawing at me. so in summary, dont talk! the silence will be deafening.
the larger issue is, why u going through all this with a guy who doesnt want a relationship? dont settle mutable sign. you will end up resenting him. sounds like you have a lil bit.
DMV you're absolutely right. What I call "not" in a relationship most people would still call serious I guess. I'm a terrible dater as I've always gotten into serious relationships. So knowing that, I try to be a little more flexible in my dealings with this guy. You know, I told him the whole "no" relationship thing wasn't working for me. He said it wouldn't be fair to himself or anyone to get deep into something with his issues right now, but he didn't want to lose me and would try to make me happy. After that we went from seeing each other every other week to him taking me out once a week and us hanging for a few during the week. I have my daughter during the week, and I don't let anyone I'm dating around her so my time is limited. Anyway, it seemed like him giving me more just made me want more. He would share more with me and i guess i got more attached. Which is another reason I feel a little like a bitch lol. And him and his mind games don't help matters. I get very feisty instead of just playing them back.
Posted by DMV
nice a venus in earth sign. hes practical in love. what do virgos like in love? companionship!! they want to feel appreciated and needed. but venus in virgo is also discriminating and hella picky. i bet he has a secret "list" of what he wants out of a mate. is his mars in an earth sign 2?
to answer your question,
sag women can be straight up bitches. from one bitch to another. trust me, he loves it. it keeps things interesting. if u werent as slutty and as bitchy hed get bored with you very quickly. bitchiness = tension.
His mars is in Libra.
Posted by DMV
nice a venus in earth sign. hes practical in love. what do virgos like in love? companionship!! they want to feel appreciated and needed. but venus in virgo is also discriminating and hella picky. i bet he has a secret "list" of what he wants out of a mate. is his mars in an earth sign 2?
to answer your question,
sag women can be straight up bitches. from one bitch to another. trust me, he loves it. it keeps things interesting. if u werent as slutty and as bitchy hed get bored with you very quickly. bitchiness = tension.
Lol @from one bitch to another. But you are so on point. He talks about women at work like oh yeah she was cute, but she had 2 kids from 2 different men. And oh yeah she was hot, but she's an airhead. Yeah she's sexy but she screwed done dude her first week here. I'm like dang you're vicious!
id sit him down and tell him what your feeling. dont put it in a letter or note, he needs to see your face and you need to see his. his scorp sun wants to get deep, especially with his ego. his emotions or gemini moon is reluctant to get that deep. joke your way into a serious conversation with him. joke a lil bit in between. remember, if you love me, talk to me.
rest assured, he really likes you. but life is getting in the way.
his mind games are designed to get a reaction, a reaction that he needs to feel secure. sometimes, honestly, he just cant fucking help himself.
he is not a walk in the park.
rest assured, he really likes you. but life is getting in the way.
his mind games are designed to get a reaction, a reaction that he needs to feel secure. sometimes, honestly, he just cant fucking help himself.
he is not a walk in the park.
Posted by MebsPosted by DMV
nice a venus in earth sign. hes practical in love. what do virgos like in love? companionship!! they want to feel appreciated and needed. but venus in virgo is also discriminating and hella picky. i bet he has a secret "list" of what he wants out of a mate. is his mars in an earth sign 2?
to answer your question,
sag women can be straight up bitches. from one bitch to another. trust me, he loves it. it keeps things interesting. if u werent as slutty and as bitchy hed get bored with you very quickly. bitchiness = tension.
Lol @from one bitch to another. But you are so on point. He talks about women at work like oh yeah she was cute, but she had 2 kids from 2 different men. And oh yeah she was hot, but she's an airhead. Yeah she's sexy but she screwed done dude her first week here. I'm like dang you're vicious!click to expand
un huh, thats that venus in virgo. the fact that youve gotten this far is good, but your not where you want to be. dont settle, cause he wont.
i want to say something because it popped in my head, venus in earth signs know what they want. theyre practical people. specifically the venus in virgo, i wouldnt be surprised if any one was good enough for him. i hate writing that.
not really "life" is getting in the way cause those are all excuses. he is in his own way.
Posted by DMV
id sit him down and tell him what your feeling. dont put it in a letter or note, he needs to see your face and you need to see his. his scorp sun wants to get deep, especially with his ego. his emotions or gemini moon is reluctant to get that deep. joke your way into a serious conversation with him. joke a lil bit in between. remember, if you love me, talk to me.
rest assured, he really likes you. but life is getting in the way.
his mind games are designed to get a reaction, a reaction that he needs to feel secure. sometimes, honestly, he just cant fucking help himself.
he is not a walk in the park.
Thanks for the insight from a fellow Saggi-Scorp rollercoaster rider lol. So should I sit him down after I ignore his ass for a week or two lol. He should come sniffing around by next week trying to gauge his power.
No problemo cut the formalities please 🙂.Yeah you summed it up qyite well.Some new info popping up here.Have you tried befriending his son?That should break some mental barriers if hes havin any.Since you mentioned about his sons mom also,he might be having a few regarding his relation with his son.As a scorp he would like to come off as a ideal no nonsense disciplinarian in his sons eyes.So there may be something thats 'looping' him over here
But yeah stand up and tell him your needs.Ask him in clear cut terms,where do you stand and tell him to draw a road map.Do insist on defining a role for you(But let him feel in charge) .Since your not ina relationship other options i can suggest might jeopardize the whole arrangement your having with him at this moment.Damn gemini moon!
As inscrutable as he might appear to be,hes actually too lazy to do something concrete and you have let him give off that vibe.We are good in words,but when it comes to work we are pretty lazy.I have sun square mars hard aspect yet i feel the lazyness dwelling inside and cave in at times.
Make it a priority to find out where you stand.Be tactfull nonetheless , i know its not one of your strongest virtue being a firesign lol..
Remember your weakness is his strength and he be happy to exploit your weakness as long it serves him.When your right, stick to your guns.
I'll chip in some extras later,gotta leave now 🙂
But yeah stand up and tell him your needs.Ask him in clear cut terms,where do you stand and tell him to draw a road map.Do insist on defining a role for you(But let him feel in charge) .Since your not ina relationship other options i can suggest might jeopardize the whole arrangement your having with him at this moment.Damn gemini moon!
As inscrutable as he might appear to be,hes actually too lazy to do something concrete and you have let him give off that vibe.We are good in words,but when it comes to work we are pretty lazy.I have sun square mars hard aspect yet i feel the lazyness dwelling inside and cave in at times.
Make it a priority to find out where you stand.Be tactfull nonetheless , i know its not one of your strongest virtue being a firesign lol..
Remember your weakness is his strength and he be happy to exploit your weakness as long it serves him.When your right, stick to your guns.
I'll chip in some extras later,gotta leave now 🙂
this is really an intervention for YOU!
Sit down whenever your ready to state your terms AND stick with them. remember scorps are black and white, no half steppin. you have to mean what you say and say what you mean.
Sit down whenever your ready to state your terms AND stick with them. remember scorps are black and white, no half steppin. you have to mean what you say and say what you mean.
i agree with pirlogesic,
make him feel like this is his decision. state your terms and then let him decide. that way he has no one to blame but himself and on the flip side, he can give himself a pat on the back when he makes the right decision. remember his ego is fragile.
make him feel like this is his decision. state your terms and then let him decide. that way he has no one to blame but himself and on the flip side, he can give himself a pat on the back when he makes the right decision. remember his ego is fragile.
Posted by DMVPosted by MebsPosted by DMV
nice a venus in earth sign. hes practical in love. what do virgos like in love? companionship!! they want to feel appreciated and needed. but venus in virgo is also discriminating and hella picky. i bet he has a secret "list" of what he wants out of a mate. is his mars in an earth sign 2?
to answer your question,
sag women can be straight up bitches. from one bitch to another. trust me, he loves it. it keeps things interesting. if u werent as slutty and as bitchy hed get bored with you very quickly. bitchiness = tension.
un huh, thats that venus in virgo. the fact that youve gotten this far is good, but your not where you want to be. dont settle, cause he wont.
i want to say something because it popped in my head, venus in earth signs know what they want. theyre practical people. specifically the venus in virgo, i wouldnt be surprised if any one was good enough for him. i hate writing that.click to expand
I think you're right. Sometimes I look at him like I hope you don't think you're shit don't stink, cuz he nitpicks everything. And he is far from perfect, but you'll never hear about that...
"Thanks for the insight from a fellow Saggi-Scorp rollercoaster rider lol. So should I sit him down after I ignore his ass for a week or two lol. He should come sniffing around by next week trying to gauge his power."
Dont play such mind games..In the long run its a foolish method for you to become his "ex" as dmv .Unnecessary power struggles.Be direct yet tactful.
Dont play such mind games..In the long run its a foolish method for you to become his "ex" as dmv .Unnecessary power struggles.Be direct yet tactful.
mebs,
do u mind if i see your chart and his?
do u mind if i see your chart and his?
Posted by piroglesic
"Thanks for the insight from a fellow Saggi-Scorp rollercoaster rider lol. So should I sit him down after I ignore his ass for a week or two lol. He should come sniffing around by next week trying to gauge his power."
Dont play such mind games..In the long run its a foolish method for you to become his "ex" as dmv .Unnecessary power struggles.Be direct yet tactful.
Ok. Got it.
Sorry girlie. I was leaving work.
Mine:
Sun Sagittarius 25??41'48 in house 5
Moon Aquarius 14??19'16 in house 7
Mercury Sagittarius 24??40'48 in house 5
Venus Capricorn 5??49'54 in house 6
Mars Sagittarius 5??00'22 in house 5
Jupiter Pisces 11??10'59 in house 8
Saturn Cancer 16??58'25 in house 12
Uranus Scorpio 1??21'00 in house 4
Neptune Sagittarius 9??56'22 in house 5
Pluto Libra 9??04'41 in house 3
True Node Sagittarius 10??10'22 in house 5
Ascendant Leo 4??52'18
Sun Scorpio 2??22'45 in house 9
Moon Gemini 16??46'49 in house 5
Mercury Scorpio 23??29'02 in house 10
Venus Virgo 23??47'22 in house 8
Mars Libra 16??03'09 in house 9
Jupiter Capricorn 3??53'49 in house 12
Saturn Gemini 20??06'58 in house 5
Uranus Libra 19??34'04 in house 9
Neptune Sagittarius 3??48'36 in house 10
Pluto Libra 3??02'08 in house 8
True Node Capricorn 20??06'44 in house 12
Ascendant Capricorn 29??19'56
Mine:
Sun Sagittarius 25??41'48 in house 5
Moon Aquarius 14??19'16 in house 7
Mercury Sagittarius 24??40'48 in house 5
Venus Capricorn 5??49'54 in house 6
Mars Sagittarius 5??00'22 in house 5
Jupiter Pisces 11??10'59 in house 8
Saturn Cancer 16??58'25 in house 12
Uranus Scorpio 1??21'00 in house 4
Neptune Sagittarius 9??56'22 in house 5
Pluto Libra 9??04'41 in house 3
True Node Sagittarius 10??10'22 in house 5
Ascendant Leo 4??52'18
Sun Scorpio 2??22'45 in house 9
Moon Gemini 16??46'49 in house 5
Mercury Scorpio 23??29'02 in house 10
Venus Virgo 23??47'22 in house 8
Mars Libra 16??03'09 in house 9
Jupiter Capricorn 3??53'49 in house 12
Saturn Gemini 20??06'58 in house 5
Uranus Libra 19??34'04 in house 9
Neptune Sagittarius 3??48'36 in house 10
Pluto Libra 3??02'08 in house 8
True Node Capricorn 20??06'44 in house 12
Ascendant Capricorn 29??19'56
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