What would scorpio do?

Firs some info. I have been friends with this libra with a lot of capricorn in her chart girl, four a year and I know here my whole life, but a really close friendship for a bout 11 months, some day ago she did something that in my book is a betrayal in a way, she left my all by myself in a situation in which I would never leave her. So my question is would you totally stop all communication with here and put a stop to a friendship or would you be more like:" Ok no I know that I cant count on you in that situation but we will still have a drink and hang out without a problem".

*first*
*for a year*

To cut a long story short: We went to a huge social gathering 40,000 people, finally found a spot, she left to pick up another friend and didn't came back under excuse that she could get through a crowd and it took me 3 minutes literally to get through people on my way out, we where standing close to exit. I think she just didn't wanted to even try to get to a place where we where and just decided to stay at that another part without telling me. To top it of we agreed that we are getting home together since it was 4 a.m, only to have her tell me that she is staying. We are both really careful not to hurt each others feelings cos we care about this type of things that I describe even though it may sound stupid to someone. So my first reaction is; I would never do that to you so goodby, and at the same time there is no perfect relationship with anyone, so I don't know how to destroy the feeling of being screwed over and move on?

Thank you so much starlover

Posted by oldskoolflavor

but if that lesson is to start being superficial in human relationship it's not happening

I feel that.
this is how I became a loner

got tired of people 'acting aquarius' on me

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'acting aquarius' that is perfect term. oddly a lot of people that I know have venus in gemini, and sometimes I think she is worse than aquarius.

capricorn in the chart speaks of someone who looks out for their own best interest. it's sad but true.

venus in gemini is unfortunate. implies unfaithfulness.

i think us scorpios have high standards for people b/c we hold ourselves to those standards too and when someone disappoints us it's enough to make us seek drastic measures such as giving up right away and cutting them out of our lives. i have learned over time to give people more chances and to be less rigid and more forgiving; however, certain things you can overlook and learn to deal with, other things hint at incompatibilities of a greater nature such as the fact that perhaps you are two very different people who value different things and conduct yourselves in different manners and expect different behaviors from your partners- this will cause you to always be disappointed. it depends on what you're willing to put up with and what standards you're willing to compromise. some standards are more important than others and shouldn't be compromised, esp when there are people out there who think the same way you do and would treat you the way you feel you deserve to be treated. you should trust yourself.

I totally agree with everything you wrote IsabelScorpia. This whole situation ended up being one huge misunderstanding, I have talked to here yesterday about it. So it all worked out, but something you wrote this part :'' it depends on what you're willing to put up with and what standards you're willing to compromise.''-for me this is the trickiest lesson to learn, cos I think nobody is perfect and everyone makes mistakes but where do you set the line and say, that's it I am done with you. I tend to be abnormally forgiving to friends or to stop contact very fast, I have no middle ground or grey area.

When i'm unsure whether to burn the person or keep the person i usually feed them with a long handed spoon until the clear image is shown.

Posted by farOUT
When i'm unsure whether to burn the person or keep the person i usually feed them with a long handed spoon until the clear image is shown.

Good one 🙂. I was thinking after almost a year that the clear image has been shown. But go figure 🙂

then that saying goes when people show you they are believe them. 😢