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Posted by scorpdivaPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by scorpdiva
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I siad me and you both Let's pray for each other.............
I will 3 in and pray for you guys as well lol
Thanks Sagg89 every bit helps 🙂
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Course!
*shakes head*
Posted by DMV
this is really an intervention for YOU!
Sit down whenever your ready to state your terms AND stick with them. remember scorps are black and white, no half steppin. you have to mean what you say and say what you mean.
Lmao! You're right. This is for my peace of mind. Ok.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
That's not a scorp thing, it's a common sense thing.
I thought real women like direct/zero bullshit uunnllessssss it's them dealing it out ?
Oohh wait a sec.... 😛😛😛
What you talkin' about Willis? I want to understand so I get the full effect of your jab :-P
Oh i get it now.I say dont loose hope,1 year with the cookiemonster should have been eventful .As a gemini moon am commitment phobic,if he hasnt evaded any question which pertain to rships,instead flat out replied he doesnt want to be in a relationship.period. means he is interested.
imo gemini is the one most flexible sign after pisces .As i said tel him whats on your mind,be innovative in your outlook while dealing with those games.Frankly put,i dont realise am playing games unlles made aware of that.For me its plain childish and fun to get on others nerve and push their buttons sometimes.I cant live a mundane life feels as if am choking myself,for entertainment purpose i act snooty and start those games.Dont really mean any harm.Make him aware of that by telling him such things dont go down well with you .
My ex sag sun taurus moon had our fair share of power struggle.At first it was comforting to see each others vulnerabilty the need to be wanted exclusively,but the more i played along it made me compromise lotta issues and promises i coudnt keep up which ultimately was a preset for our waterloo so to speak .After an extended period of time it tends to get boring annoying finally infuriating and ends up in a blow out on my part 😢 .Dont give each other space for the silent treatment,barring those 'moody' days am always willing to talk any issue under the sun.I find it surprising while other scorps here mention having to go through those 'silent' periods from time to time,its rare as a black moon(?) to me!In this context i love my gemini moon.
He probably has chalked a larger role for you else he wouldnt have carried on so far,so the prospects seem bright.Trust me if you wannna get some dirty work done call a gemini moon,behaving as a certified asshole do come naturally to us,if he really not into you he'd be a prick 24/7.
So calm down,intake deep breaths regularly and ask him on your next date where you stand,what are the long term prospects if you carry on in this path.Make it clear about phone call issues.He has taken you for granted!Dont come off nagging nor with a casual demeanor.Tell him to define your role,try to be a smooth operator when asking those questions .He would have already thought about these issues being a scorp!Push your luck mebs.🙂
imo gemini is the one most flexible sign after pisces .As i said tel him whats on your mind,be innovative in your outlook while dealing with those games.Frankly put,i dont realise am playing games unlles made aware of that.For me its plain childish and fun to get on others nerve and push their buttons sometimes.I cant live a mundane life feels as if am choking myself,for entertainment purpose i act snooty and start those games.Dont really mean any harm.Make him aware of that by telling him such things dont go down well with you .
My ex sag sun taurus moon had our fair share of power struggle.At first it was comforting to see each others vulnerabilty the need to be wanted exclusively,but the more i played along it made me compromise lotta issues and promises i coudnt keep up which ultimately was a preset for our waterloo so to speak .After an extended period of time it tends to get boring annoying finally infuriating and ends up in a blow out on my part 😢 .Dont give each other space for the silent treatment,barring those 'moody' days am always willing to talk any issue under the sun.I find it surprising while other scorps here mention having to go through those 'silent' periods from time to time,its rare as a black moon(?) to me!In this context i love my gemini moon.
He probably has chalked a larger role for you else he wouldnt have carried on so far,so the prospects seem bright.Trust me if you wannna get some dirty work done call a gemini moon,behaving as a certified asshole do come naturally to us,if he really not into you he'd be a prick 24/7.
So calm down,intake deep breaths regularly and ask him on your next date where you stand,what are the long term prospects if you carry on in this path.Make it clear about phone call issues.He has taken you for granted!Dont come off nagging nor with a casual demeanor.Tell him to define your role,try to be a smooth operator when asking those questions .He would have already thought about these issues being a scorp!Push your luck mebs.🙂
Posted by everevolvingepithet
That's not a scorp thing, it's a common sense thing.
I thought real women like direct/zero bullshit uunnllessssss it's them dealing it out ?
Oohh wait a sec.... 😛😛😛
Whats facilitator doin these days besides revolving nice epithets? 🙂
Having said that,assert your rights mebs.When he's on a wrong footnote dont give him an inch.Reject his overtures and hold on to your views as and when you feel your right which will cultivate in him some healthy 'leanings'(priority) towards you.If he's not asking your opinions on matters that concern both of you the underlying root cause might be this.Assert your rights(be diplomatic),he'll love it btw though he might say otherwise and act nuts.Yeah he's a trip.Only one thing is certain being close tp a gemini moon, that everything seems uncertain.🙂
@Piroglesic ok. I was thinking last night, maybe 2 weeks ago, he brought up how sexy and passionate I was after an argument we'd had. He said I'm usually so controlled, but that night I just let go and didn't care. He also chuckled and said, "Maybe I should upset you more often.". So I think this guy might be intentionally trying to get a rise out of me. Also, last week I'd asked him for something I KNOW he doesn't like to do. I guess I was already itching about my status with him. He told me he couldn't. I replied he meant "wouldn't" not "couldn't". He said no that's not true, blah blah. I was very quiet after that and didn't call the next day as I told myself if he isn't willing to bend a little to make me happy just because it's something he doesn't like doing, then obviously I'm just a sex thing for him. The next day I missed his calls not having my phone with me, but when he called again he said he'd do what I asked. He did it. Now the silent treatment. I wonder if he feels himself moving in a direction in which he never wanted to go, so he's backing off. And in the meantime, after he's established some distance, he can get angry sex out of me lol.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by MebsPosted by everevolvingepithet
That's not a scorp thing, it's a common sense thing.
I thought real women like direct/zero bullshit uunnllessssss it's them dealing it out ?
Oohh wait a sec.... 😛😛😛
What you talkin' about Willis? I want to understand so I get the full effect of your jab :-P
It's not a jab lol
You claim to like directness and playful games yet only if your the one doing it.
Piroglesic has good advice though 🙂click to expand
Womp womp. Thats's not what I said. You cuspers don't listen lol. I love directness, and as a Sag, I'm the queen of directness. Only dealing with this mindf@ckery has had me say wait a minute. My dive in direct go all out methods aren't working very well for me right now. Maybe I should try another door. So 😛 to you. 🙂
And yes Piroglesic has excellent advice.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Oh get tha hell outta here Piro.
You ain't saying be honest, open and direct as well as give and take ?
You crazy?
🙂
Great isn't it? He reminds me of a Sag talking like that. *pew pew*
"Now the silent treatment. I wonder if he feels himself moving in a direction in which he never wanted to go, so he's backing off. And in the meantime, after he's established some distance, he can get angry sex out of me lol."
Yep,thing is never let him figure out you did that on purpose to get your way.Never give off that vibe!Instead i'd like to think of it as-you genuinely feel the desire to be with me and hence acted in that way.If he gets the smell of premeditated 'maneuvers' he'll see it as a 'controlling' tactic and the highly unpredictable gemini moon(masculine) will charge right into action.The moment i get the wind of a "scam" i change and it can go spiraling downwards.
All scorps have that push-pull then silent treatment.It just that we are pondering our future course of action and plotting how not to concede more ground.lol.
Its like ..more than what you said,whats "happening" concerns me a lot.Even my ex sagys smoking hot when she's angry..i guess most woman look good when they are mad.And whats better than angry sex?lol.The manly feel it generates within..these are just games through which his emotional need is being fulfilled.Oddly tho my observation with my ex sag was after a stormy fight we ended up having sizzling hottttt sex and it drove us closer to each other than before.Play by the rules and you'll be just fine.Sex will be good,but appeal to his intellect more.Assert yourself when your right as i said earlier.Don't come off as too easy going nor as a lady hitler in the process tho 🙂
Yep,thing is never let him figure out you did that on purpose to get your way.Never give off that vibe!Instead i'd like to think of it as-you genuinely feel the desire to be with me and hence acted in that way.If he gets the smell of premeditated 'maneuvers' he'll see it as a 'controlling' tactic and the highly unpredictable gemini moon(masculine) will charge right into action.The moment i get the wind of a "scam" i change and it can go spiraling downwards.
All scorps have that push-pull then silent treatment.It just that we are pondering our future course of action and plotting how not to concede more ground.lol.
Its like ..more than what you said,whats "happening" concerns me a lot.Even my ex sagys smoking hot when she's angry..i guess most woman look good when they are mad.And whats better than angry sex?lol.The manly feel it generates within..these are just games through which his emotional need is being fulfilled.Oddly tho my observation with my ex sag was after a stormy fight we ended up having sizzling hottttt sex and it drove us closer to each other than before.Play by the rules and you'll be just fine.Sex will be good,but appeal to his intellect more.Assert yourself when your right as i said earlier.Don't come off as too easy going nor as a lady hitler in the process tho 🙂
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Oh get tha hell outta here Piro.
You ain't saying be honest, open and direct as well as give and take ?
You crazy?
🙂
Im pretty bad when it comes to meeting the expectations of my peers.🙂 But yeah i'll raise the bar next time 🙂
Posted by MebsPosted by everevolvingepithet
Oh get tha hell outta here Piro.
You ain't saying be honest, open and direct as well as give and take ?
You crazy?
🙂
Great isn't it? He reminds me of a Sag talking like that. *pew pew*click to expand
I have a virgo ascendant 😄
Just had to add this funny story of how sagg men can be assholes well last night the sagg calls me and I was trying to be quiet but I was riding with my friend and we were going out So the sagg heard her voice and said where are you I couldn't lie so I just said going to a co-worker birthday party. He got mad and hung up so I call him back and left a voicemail cause of course he didn't answer and I said "Dont be childish I will talk to you later" so then five min later he txt me "Well you know I'am an evil ass hole. U was better of lying, but it's cool Have fun 🙂 " So I know it seems all good but I am suppose to see him this weekend and I know he is going to bring it up or do something shitty to make an point about me going out that night.
So basically I think his motto is I don't care if you go just don't tell me so that's my new strategy I am trying to keep the peace and get along like I told him last night on the phone.
Something told me to drive myself and just stay on the phone with him for like 20mins then act like I was sleepy which is what I usually do when I wanna go out.
Something told me to drive myself and just stay on the phone with him for like 20mins then act like I was sleepy which is what I usually do when I wanna go out.
@Piroglesic you shed so much light on this situation! Thanks. You know I didn't even do that on purpose. Honestly, I didn't think he'd do it because he's stubborn as a mule. My feelings were hurt as I felt he didnt care when he burst out with a big fat "NO" lol. I'd decided to start distancing myself because I felt like it was a total waste of time. I called him and he didn't answer nor return my call from a few hours ago. I guess when he gets his strategy together he'll reach out. It's been quite some time since he's gone so long not calling, so it must be something.
Dang! Did I sound formal again? How about "Good looking out bro?". Lol. That doesnt even sound right coming out of my mouth...or keyboard 🙂
Dang! Did I sound formal again? How about "Good looking out bro?". Lol. That doesnt even sound right coming out of my mouth...or keyboard 🙂
Posted by scorpdiva
So basically I think his motto is I don't care if you go just don't tell me so that's my new strategy I am trying to keep the peace and get along like I told him last night on the phone.
Something told me to drive myself and just stay on the phone with him for like 20mins then act like I was sleepy which is what I usually do when I wanna go out.
Dang. He really has a lot of Scorp in him lol. I say he has to learn to deal with you for who you are and learn to trust you. All that's gonna happen is you're gonna say you're sleepy, go out, and run into him or one of his friends. Then he'll have you on a real violation...LYING. Which for me is so hard to come back from. Then he'll really have crap to throw in your race forever, and try to lock you down
Posted by MebsPosted by scorpdiva
So basically I think his motto is I don't care if you go just don't tell me so that's my new strategy I am trying to keep the peace and get along like I told him last night on the phone.
Something told me to drive myself and just stay on the phone with him for like 20mins then act like I was sleepy which is what I usually do when I wanna go out.
Dang. He really has a lot of Scorp in him lol. I say he has to learn to deal with you for who you are and learn to trust you. All that's gonna happen is you're gonna say you're sleepy, go out, and run into him or one of his friends. Then he'll have you on a real violation...LYING. Which for me is so hard to come back from. Then he'll really have crap to throw in your race forever, and try to lock you downclick to expand
Very true, that why I always try to be truthful with him
He has a lot of water in his chart mostly scorp and pisces...
^^^^ ugh *face
@Piro. You're a Scorp with a Gem moon and Virgo rising?
Posted by Mebs
@Piroglesic you shed so much light on this situation! Thanks. You know I didn't even do that on purpose. Honestly, I didn't think he'd do it because he's stubborn as a mule. My feelings were hurt as I felt he didnt care when he burst out with a big fat "NO" lol. I'd decided to start distancing myself because I felt like it was a total waste of time. I called him and he didn't answer nor return my call from a few hours ago. I guess when he gets his strategy together he'll reach out. It's been quite some time since he's gone so long not calling, so it must be something.
Dang! Did I sound formal again? How about "Good looking out bro?". Lol. That doesnt even sound right coming out of my mouth...or keyboard 🙂
Lol no problem your call nothing serious though haha 🙂 .
Yes i know not on purpose..
Well he'll contact you sooner or later so dont fret ,indulge in other activities, bet he'll come sniffing .Do maintain that independent streak.Talk to him in person and express all your reservations ,when you guys do meet about next time.Exploit his mars in libra placeent!(needs to come off fair in his actions).Dont give him any extra leverage when dealing with your emotions but be subtle as a precautionary measure(not in a rship).Be direct yet tactful 🙂
yeah me the odd combo of Scorp with a Gem moon and Virgo rising.3 most complex sign in the zodiac 😛
Posted by scorpdiva
Just had to add this funny story of how sagg men can be assholes well last night the sagg calls me and I was trying to be quiet but I was riding with my friend and we were going out So the sagg heard her voice and said where are you I couldn't lie so I just said going to a co-worker birthday party. He got mad and hung up so I call him back and left a voicemail cause of course he didn't answer and I said "Dont be childish I will talk to you later" so then five min later he txt me "Well you know I'am an evil ass hole. U was better of lying, but it's cool Have fun 🙂 " So I know it seems all good but I am suppose to see him this weekend and I know he is going to bring it up or do something shitty to make an point about me going out that night.
hes so in love, he doesnt know what to do with himself.
Posted by DMVPosted by scorpdiva
Just had to add this funny story of how sagg men can be assholes well last night the sagg calls me and I was trying to be quiet but I was riding with my friend and we were going out So the sagg heard her voice and said where are you I couldn't lie so I just said going to a co-worker birthday party. He got mad and hung up so I call him back and left a voicemail cause of course he didn't answer and I said "Dont be childish I will talk to you later" so then five min later he txt me "Well you know I'am an evil ass hole. U was better of lying, but it's cool Have fun 🙂 " So I know it seems all good but I am suppose to see him this weekend and I know he is going to bring it up or do something shitty to make an point about me going out that night.
hes so in love, he doesnt know what to do with himself.click to expand
^^^^ Awwww...
saggis are mutable, whereas leos are fixed. i think sag women secretly resent being with any fixed sign who doesnt have some a mutable moon. we make compromise after compromise, we adapt to their needs. in the end, were left holding the bill out in the rain with no shoes on.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ DMV you said this on another thread. I was reading it and it punched me right in the face. POW! True true.
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