Are scorpios fast to fall in love??

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by virgo824 on Friday, August 19, 2011 and has 9 replies.

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@virgo824
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Also, do scorpios move on easily??

I have been dating this Scorpio now for 4 months and we are crazy about each other. We spend almost everyday together and everything is good...except for the fact that I get extremely insecure and jealous when his ex-gf comes up. Whether it's a picture of them together or its some video he posted of her, I just hate seeing stuff like that because I feel like he is too easy to be crazy/in love with someone.
From what I can tell, he broke up with her late last year and he started talking to me in March. As a virgo, I am cautious of who I let in my life and especially picky when it comes to who I date. I guess thats where my confusion and insecurity comes in because I could not treat just anyone like I do my scorpio. Don't get me wrong, I don't think he would ever cheat on me, but I can't seem to get over how crazy he seemed about her...and shortly after, me.

Is this something I should worry about? Or am I missing something?

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@MadameAthena
15 Years

Posted by virgo824
Also, do scorpios move on easily??

I have been dating this Scorpio now for 4 months and we are crazy about each other. We spend almost everyday together and everything is good...except for the fact that I get extremely insecure and jealous when his ex-gf comes up. Whether it's a picture of them together or its some video he posted of her, I just hate seeing stuff like that because I feel like he is too easy to be crazy/in love with someone.
From what I can tell, he broke up with her late last year and he started talking to me in March. As a virgo, I am cautious of who I let in my life and especially picky when it comes to who I date. I guess thats where my confusion and insecurity comes in because I could not treat just anyone like I do my scorpio. Don't get me wrong, I don't think he would ever cheat on me, but I can't seem to get over how crazy he seemed about her...and shortly after, me.

Is this something I should worry about? Or am I missing something?

Damn another Virgo and Scorpio pair?!?! WTH?? Besides myself, there has been two others on this board who are currently or previously seeking advice about this pair.

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@PlutoVenus
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Maybe if he has a moon in gemini then he moves on easily after breakup. My friend has a 4 planets in scorpio one of them venus, but moon in gemini, and it doesn't take her more than a month to bounce back after a breakup and start dating a new person.

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Posted by Scorporella
"Are Scorpios fast to fall in love?" No. We guard our heart extremely well. We know that if we open our heart to someone, it makes us vulnerable, and we hate to be vulnerable. We know the pain will be excruciating if we let someone in and the relationship ends. We don't fall in love easily, but we can fall into lust easily.

"Also, do scorps move on easily?" Again, no. If we have given our heart to someone and they hurt us, we nurse that hurt for a very long time. We don't move on easily unless we are the one that makes the choice to end the relationship. If we have chosen to end the relationship, it is because it was already over for us a long time before. We hang on until the bitter end, and usually by that time, we no longer feel deeply for that person and can let go easily. However, if they end it, and we thought everything was wonderful....we'll hurt and hang on to that hurt for years.

agree 1000% on that.

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Posted by PlutoVenus
Maybe if he has a moon in gemini then he moves on easily after breakup. My friend has a 4 planets in scorpio one of them venus, but moon in gemini, and it doesn't take her more than a month to bounce back after a breakup and start dating a new person.

Very TRUE! lol

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@MadameAthena
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Honestly, Most Scorpios dont fall in love fast or easily mainly because "falling" in love with someone requires us to be vunerable, by removing our guard which makes us a target to get hurt. We don't like to get hurt, okay maybe a little in other ways. We can take physical pain but not emotional. Anyone agree or am I wrong?

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I fall pretty quickly but it's a lot like ellybd said. I fall quickly but that true, true love (especially the trust) takes a while to build..but I won't even bother TRYING to build it if I don't feel I've fallen. I've also never successfully built that kind of love so yeah...

It's kind of like...I see where my feelings are right now and I'm not too happy at how deep they are or how fast it's happened...but I'm here now so lets try and work on this trust and bond thing 😛 I wonder if that's where all those scorp 'tests' come from? Maybe it's like testing the waters that they've jumped into.

Anyway...I actually take a veeery long time to get over someone. If I'm not over an ex then I'm not with anyone else...and if I'm with someone else...I'm not thinking about my ex, especially not in that way.

I get tunnel vision when I'm with someone 😛 No one else exists in that sense.