
I am dating a Capricorn for the first time, any and all advice would be greatly appreciated. Should I run for the hills and never look back?





Posted by JoanieSagi707
I feel the same way as you ladies. I never really found a Cap interesting, they were always boring, but I am dating one to try him out and I'm finding that I'm feeling the same response: boooorrriiinnnggg.... the communication is so stale and we've only been out twice lol
I know I wrote a different post in the Capricorn section asking for advice, but I don't think I can last long knowing that it will take forever to move a boulder that doesn't want to move lol


Posted by vesperlynd83Posted by JoanieSagi707
I feel the same way as you ladies. I never really found a Cap interesting, they were always boring, but I am dating one to try him out and I'm finding that I'm feeling the same response: boooorrriiinnnggg.... the communication is so stale and we've only been out twice lol
I know I wrote a different post in the Capricorn section asking for advice, but I don't think I can last long knowing that it will take forever to move a boulder that doesn't want to move lol
The guy I was dating wasn't necessarily boring (we were always in constant communication and he always had a lot to say and joked around a lot). I think for me what was lacking was that "spark". I see that you have Venus in Scorpio just like I do. I think for people who have that placement we need to feel a certain level of intensity and passion with a partner or else it just become blah after a while.click to expand

Posted by Jenova
No, but I am kind of thinking about it.... he's lovely and not at all boring... that said he is on the cusp (25th Dec) and 3 placements of Sag in his natal, not to mention we are both Virgo moon.... 🙂
He's interesting and lots of fun to talk to... kind of goofy, makes terrible jokes to make me laugh, I find him very endearing... that said, I am also 48 years old 😉

Posted by JoanieSagi707Posted by Jenova
No, but I am kind of thinking about it.... he's lovely and not at all boring... that said he is on the cusp (25th Dec) and 3 placements of Sag in his natal, not to mention we are both Virgo moon.... 🙂
He's interesting and lots of fun to talk to... kind of goofy, makes terrible jokes to make me laugh, I find him very endearing... that said, I am also 48 years old 😉
lols I agree with the terrible jokes... this Cap has terrible jokes, I can never tell when he's being serious or not...click to expand

Posted by JenovaPosted by JoanieSagi707Posted by Jenova
No, but I am kind of thinking about it.... he's lovely and not at all boring... that said he is on the cusp (25th Dec) and 3 placements of Sag in his natal, not to mention we are both Virgo moon.... 🙂
He's interesting and lots of fun to talk to... kind of goofy, makes terrible jokes to make me laugh, I find him very endearing... that said, I am also 48 years old 😉
lols I agree with the terrible jokes... this Cap has terrible jokes, I can never tell when he's being serious or not...click to expand
Yes on the terrible jokes!! And also just cheesy comments in general... It's cute but I don't find that appealing. I like a raw, mysterious, rugged manly man so all the cutesy stuff just lands them in the friend zone lol

Posted by JoanieSagi707Posted by vesperlynd83Posted by JoanieSagi707
I feel the same way as you ladies. I never really found a Cap interesting, they were always boring, but I am dating one to try him out and I'm finding that I'm feeling the same response: boooorrriiinnnggg.... the communication is so stale and we've only been out twice lol
I know I wrote a different post in the Capricorn section asking for advice, but I don't think I can last long knowing that it will take forever to move a boulder that doesn't want to move lol
The guy I was dating wasn't necessarily boring (we were always in constant communication and he always had a lot to say and joked around a lot). I think for me what was lacking was that "spark". I see that you have Venus in Scorpio just like I do. I think for people who have that placement we need to feel a certain level of intensity and passion with a partner or else it just become blah after a while.
I like that you said that about Scorpio in Venus. I never thought of that but I think you're right! I need a level of intensity and passion, and depth. And I also think that it's the energy that doesn't feel right with him, the "spark" is lacking (also agreed). So perhaps boring was the wrong word but he doesn't excite me. He is very attractive, but I can't seem to get it moving for me lolclick to expand
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