are any of you sags stalkers

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venusSag30
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Hello board, str8 to the issue I have, This sag I started talking to May 2nd, will not leave me alone; Although he is always claim "YOU don't have to ever worry ABOUT me anymore" !!!

Thing is I always have to worry about him, because he began popping up at my home unannounced cause I kept trying to leave him alone in june; which really freaked me the fukk OUT, so I began to change my phone number frequently and avoid being at home.

He has an intimidation factor that makes me think he would do something crazy if he doesn't get his own way ; which is this assault gun which he carries around whereever he goes.

Since I told him it bothered me he claims he wasn't bring it around the past few times he's came, he's jealous, possessive and very annoying to me, which if he weren't I could totally deal with him, but he uses manipulation tactics to get back into the equation everytime I leave him alone.

I left him alone for good and then when he gets it into his head that he wants to be with me or talk to me he thinks I am supposed too LOVE unconditionally in his idea of whatever that is and hes a drunk (which I cant stand those) .

I moved on months ago but this idiotic jerk wont get the hell on cause i

'll think he's gone then he pops back in playing nice then he flips to questioning me once hes comfortable ; as if we never stopped that situationship.
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venusSag30
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Posted by youngali
sag men can get like this when they're being ignored. my advice is to stop all forms of contact. don't even attempt to be his friend or even engage in a conversation at this point because you're sending mixed messages. block him on everything. the end.


We've each done that t o one another but he still manages to pop back into the equation trying to get back some form of me. Now it's only been a few days but I'll be digging this page back up telling you of future events cause he won't just leave me alone

the twist here is we found out that our granfathers are 1st cousins that date sisters so we're kin and this bastard still is in his emotions about me
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Posted by youngali
sag men can get like this when they're being ignored. my advice is to stop all forms of contact. don't even attempt to be his friend or even engage in a conversation at this point because you're sending mixed messages. block him on everything. the end.


We've each done that t o one another but he still manages to pop back into the equation trying to get back some form of me. Now it's only been a few days but I'll be digging this page back up telling you of future events cause he won't just leave me alone

the twist here is we found out that our granfathers are 1st cousins that date sisters so we're kin and this bastard still is in his emotions about me
then just start calling him cousin...?!

that's definitely gonna turn him off. lol

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And I have thats not even working he reallyjust is crazy
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venusSag30
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Posted by venusSag30
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Posted by youngali
sag men can get like this when they're being ignored. my advice is to stop all forms of contact. don't even attempt to be his friend or even engage in a conversation at this point because you're sending mixed messages. block him on everything. the end.


We've each done that t o one another but he still manages to pop back into the equation trying to get back some form of me. Now it's only been a few days but I'll be digging this page back up telling you of future events cause he won't just leave me alone

the twist here is we found out that our granfathers are 1st cousins that date sisters so we're kin and this bastard still is in his emotions about me
then just start calling him cousin...?!

that's definitely gonna turn him off. lol


And I have thats not even working he reallyjust is crazy
then yes, block him.

or file a restraining order if you seriously fear for your life.
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sad part is he claims I never havetoo worry about him again after that last text so we'll see but do you really think I'd need a restraining order

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Posted by youngali
sag men can get like this when they're being ignored. my advice is to stop all forms of contact. don't even attempt to be his friend or even engage in a conversation at this point because you're sending mixed messages. block him on everything. the end.


We've each done that t o one another but he still manages to pop back into the equation trying to get back some form of me. Now it's only been a few days but I'll be digging this page back up telling you of future events cause he won't just leave me alone

the twist here is we found out that our granfathers are 1st cousins that date sisters so we're kin and this bastard still is in his emotions about me
then just start calling him cousin...?!

that's definitely gonna turn him off. lol


And I have thats not even working he reallyjust is crazy
then yes, block him.

or file a restraining order if you seriously fear for your life.


sad part is he claims I never havetoo worry about him again after that last text so we'll see but do you really think I'd need a restraining order

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again. block. him.
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Wow I am afraid for your life here. Home should be the place you feel safest at. I have a friend who had a guy who kept showing up at her house and she had to get him hauled away by the police finally. I happened to be skyping with her to keep her calm while she was scared he was skulking around her house.

The fact he is carrying a gun is enough to make you feel unsafe even telling him to respect your boundaries. I would be afraid, too. 😢
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Posted by GuardianAnu
Wow I am afraid for your life here. Home should be the place you feel safest at. I have a friend who had a guy who kept showing up at her house and she had to get him hauled away by the police finally. I happened to be skyping with her to keep her calm while she was scared he was skulking around her house.

The fact he is carrying a gun is enough to make you feel unsafe even telling him to respect your boundaries. I would be afraid, too. 😢
Your exactly right it does scare me to death and but the last few visits which aen't as frequent he claims he doesn't carry it. But yesterday he was bothered I would not give him the repsonses he felt like he wanted to feed his ego then began telling me I ALWAYS ACT like I have a problem with him lately and I don't give him any mixed signals to make him feel as though I want his ass so I don't understand why he picks months later to keep on with this bs
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If ignoring him doesnt work try to cling to him, stalk him and terrorize him for it, critisize him, make irrational rules, use break up threats, make irrational demands, wet blanketing his spirit, etc.. basically do what a sag hate.. he'll go away by himself

I love this advice. But I wouldn't stalk him cause he'd get the wrong message.

Just let him around you, make sure you look your absolute worst, be everything that he hates, talk about other guys around him - just act nothing like yourself. Be a horrid person. Be the opposite of everything he fell for.

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I actually have done everything that he hates instance he hates when a female farts or says she has to take a shit or she goes while he's around and I do just that it's like he doesn't care wat I say or do he stil tries to be with me

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Posted by youngali
sag men can get like this when they're being ignored. my advice is to stop all forms of contact. don't even attempt to be his friend or even engage in a conversation at this point because you're sending mixed messages. block him on everything. the end.
This sag guy keeps messaging me even though I say really boring responses in return hoping he'll get the message that i'm not interested lol. I even told him that i'm not interesting in dating right now one time and he still keeps trying to ask me out.
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venusSag30
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Posted by MagicMona
try to take his freedom!! that will send him running!

you could try this:

"yes, i really want to be with you. but we must get married next week. you dont get it. MUST. i have these wedding catalogs; i picked out my dress and your tux already. where is my ring? it's tradition that all women in my family get married after the first date.we come from the old country. I CANT WAIT TO OWN YOU. our wedding night will be so much funzies! before we breed, as old tradition says, i get to brand my name on your penis with my special heirloom branding iron. we used to own cattle hehehe. what do you mean no? I OWN YOU NOW!"

cancel all your plans. we're going ring shopping tomorrow. no more dates and talking to other women for you. YOU ARE MINE. do you have a good job and insurance? after we marry next week we can start on kids right away. i want 10. no more, no less. my dad and mom want to meet their new son in law tomorrow for dinner after we ring shop. this is so great! i'm gonna call all of my brothers and tell them the good news. and dont try to back out of this wedding. it will be shotgun. I WANT YOUR SOUL."

the thing is....you MUST sound serious. and call him every hour on the hour. send him crazy ass texts. really jeopardize his freedom. he will run away so fast.
This is hillarious and I actually did something similar to this and was trying to behave like I wanted to really take his freedom ; but my venus is in sag too so you know I really dont want that at all lol!!! But even that didn't work in due time he still arises back to the scenes and starts bothering me
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Posted by MagicMona
try to take his freedom!! that will send him running!

you could try this:

"yes, i really want to be with you. but we must get married next week. you dont get it. MUST. i have these wedding catalogs; i picked out my dress and your tux already. where is my ring? it's tradition that all women in my family get married after the first date.we come from the old country. I CANT WAIT TO OWN YOU. our wedding night will be so much funzies! before we breed, as old tradition says, i get to brand my name on your penis with my special heirloom branding iron. we used to own cattle hehehe. what do you mean no? I OWN YOU NOW!"

cancel all your plans. we're going ring shopping tomorrow. no more dates and talking to other women for you. YOU ARE MINE. do you have a good job and insurance? after we marry next week we can start on kids right away. i want 10. no more, no less. my dad and mom want to meet their new son in law tomorrow for dinner after we ring shop. this is so great! i'm gonna call all of my brothers and tell them the good news. and dont try to back out of this wedding. it will be shotgun. I WANT YOUR SOUL."

the thing is....you MUST sound serious. and call him every hour on the hour. send him crazy ass texts. really jeopardize his freedom. he will run away so fast.
This is hillarious and I actually did something similar to this and was trying to behave like I wanted to really take his freedom ; but my venus is in sag too so you know I really dont want that at all lol!!! But even that didn't work in due time he still arises back to the scenes and starts bothering me
it was for pretend. but damn he still doesn't get the point? is he stupid? girl, go with the 3 to the head.
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I promise he began texting me at around 9 or 10 saying he apologizes for everything he has ever done and could I forgive him, he does act stupid as hell but he has soo much intelligence which is the part I don't understand at all. Now he tells me that I gave him a reason to give a fux about anyone else after his last relationship, so he really doesn't wanna lose me and I am the only one who'll put up with his chit... I responded by saying that I don't think he is an ugly guy so why is it that he has such issues with women, his attitude and drinking, so he admits that yea he really does have a problem but he'll accept what ever love I'm willing to offer even if it's not what he really wants from me; which I know thats a trick to draw me back in but I already told him I am not coming back. I know the reason he contacted me today because he heard my aunt passed yesterday so he has mutual friends on facebook, but he had blocked my page before I got the chance to block him so for him to unblock me was to be funny cause he says he erased my number out of anger so I wouldn't even give it to him again told him forget where I live now too