Are Sag Men Typically Like This--- Cancer Lady Here!

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So, do most sag men like to make ppl of interest jealous? Im just kind of curios. I started seeing this sag guy and he has tried a time before last night to make me jealous so it seemed. Last night he really did try to make me jealous. He actually succeeded. He asked if it was cool if his "home girl" came out with us to watch game 7 and I asked if this was really his "home girl" or someone he has slept with. Well, he was honest and told me he has slept with her one time back in January, and that was it. I didnt see a huge problem with being around someone from way long ago. I met her and we clicked I mean after all we did have one thing in common "him". lol anyway, we were eating and I called my best friend because him and I were taking a poll about something. Her dad answered and he got up from next and went to the "home girl" he invited and started whispering in her ear and rubbing on her arms. Mind u he was drunk, but I sensed he was jealous and trying to make me jealous. When she went to the restroom I asked him what that was about and of course he wanted to play dumb. Then he asked me why I called a dude, I explained to him I called my best girl friend and her dad answered. He claimed that he wasnt jealous, but who does that? Um so we left there and went to a bar and I spoke to the girl about what was going (she's a sag too). She asked me if we were sleeping together and I responded with yes, and so I asked why did things end with them, she responded with they only slept together once and she was talking to another guy and pursuing him. So, sag guy introduces both of us to this guy he was talking to about the game. We leave and I go back to Sag guys were taking a shower and his phone starts ringing back to back to back to back. It was HER. she called him 7 times in a span of 3 minutes and 7 times before that cussing him out and telling him not to ever bring someone he's sleeping with around her again. She seemed cool until she was calling him that many times. Him and I go get breakfast and we had a heart to heart where he told me he doesnt want to stop hanging out with me, because I'm really cool and fun to be around and I "understand" him and his issues with his ex. So I mean I agreed to stick around. On the way back to his place he asked me so how did you like Jay? I asked Jay and he said yeah the guy I introduced you too and I said why? He was like it seemed like y'all were hitting it off and had somethings in common. Any who who Im a cancer, my moon is aries and Im kind of confused. We spoke on the phone earlier today and he asked me whats the point of being jealous. Idk what goes on in a Sag's mans mind lol. I think he's cool, but apart of me thinks the best thing to do is maybe just step back, and just be someone he can talk to.
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Sag men are always jealous they just don't admit to it. They like to play games over and over again until you get sick of the mind games. I knew a sag dude like that. He was definitely not marriage quality let alone a bf he was just a player.

Also my ex was a sag I broke with him not long ago we were better off friends. We were wayyyyy to alike.. But we loved each other, still do.
He was my first love so letting that go was sad but w/e move on.
I just focus on other things. Maybe in the future I will find someone to live a life with and journeys.

But yea maybe just go with the flow for now.. He might be just testing you.
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Thank you! I should've asked him exactly as you said, because I think it was very inappropriate for him to have done that. January really isn't that long ago. To answer your question, I don't understand why she was so mad. I don't understand Sagittarius men and women. She stated at the bar it was a one time thing and when they had sex she had a bae anyways so the sex didnt mean anything to her pretty much. However; when Sag guy and I got back to his place she called him 14 times. So I guess she was jealous or mad, but thats kind of crazy to do that. There's only 1 person in the world I've ever called that many times and its my mother. Oh but get this, when Sag and I were on the phone yesterday talking about things he actually told me that used to talk. But, when we were all going out and she was just a "home girl" he didnt mention all of that. Either way it was wrong, and I shouldn't have agreed to it.

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Yes girl you did good. When he's playing games don't ignore it or play along. Confront him just like you did. However I don't know if his character is good based on him thinking its a good idea to bring a girl he slept with before around a potentional love interest (you) next time he asks if it's "okay" ask him if he's trying to start drama and what makes him think it's a good idea at all? I would've told him to forget it completely and stopped talking to him. I always hear Sags are players but my Sag wasn't like this, I think it's more of a maturity thing. Honestly he sounds irritating. Why was the girl mad at him anyway?

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When you called your friend and her dad picked up, how did you greet him? As her father? Or like some bloke?

Anyways, he's seeing other people and hes perfectly allowed 2. Men love an ego boost and whats better than 2 girls? Especially since both girls want him. Making girls jealous is par dor the course...sucks. I usually bow out. Aint got time

Last question, how do you know she called him 7 -14 times while he was in the shower.



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I greeted her dad as hayyy baybay. I literally didnt realize it was her dad until after I greeted him like that. I thought it was her. Secondly I get that men love an ego boost, I didnt have a problem with her coming, but she had a problem being around me is what he said the next day. It was extremely inappropriate the way he handled hearing a man answer the phone. Like purposely trying to make me jealous. She's a sag too and apparently OVERLY clingy. I know she called 7 times because I got in the shower and he hopped in like a few mins after me. His phone was connected to his speaker which is how we were listening to music and everytime his phone would ring, it would ring through the speaker. I lost count in the shower so when I got out I looked and was like WOW 7 TIMES? Thats a little excessive for someone you haven't slept with since January. Then he told me that she called him once before the shower and he answered. The call disconnected and she called him repeatedly 7 times after that, and then another 7 while I could hear the phone ringing in the shower. Lol he was kissing me in the shower, and I couldn't even concentrate it was sooooooo annoying. Just kind of odd that the SAG GIRL made it seem like he wasnt **** because she had a "bae'' and thats why they only slept together once.


Posted by DMV
When you called your friend and her dad picked up, how did you greet him? As her father? Or like some bloke?

Anyways, he's seeing other people and hes perfectly allowed 2. Men love an ego boost and whats better than 2 girls? Especially since both girls want him. Making girls jealous is par dor the course...sucks. I usually bow out. Aint got time

Last question, how do you know she called him 7 -14 times while he was in the shower.



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Posted by Islandgal24
I greeted her dad as hayyy baybay. I literally didnt realize it was her dad until after I greeted him like that. I thought it was her. Secondly I get that men love an ego boost, I didnt have a problem with her coming, but she had a problem being around me is what he said the next day. It was extremely inappropriate the way he handled hearing a man answer the phone. Like purposely trying to make me jealous. She's a sag too and apparently OVERLY clingy. I know she called 7 times because I got in the shower and he hopped in like a few mins after me. His phone was connected to his speaker which is how we were listening to music and everytime his phone would ring, it would ring through the speaker. I lost count in the shower so when I got out I looked and was like WOW 7 TIMES? Thats a little excessive for someone you haven't slept with since January. Then he told me that she called him once before the shower and he answered. The call disconnected and she called him repeatedly 7 times after that, and then another 7 while I could hear the phone ringing in the shower. Lol he was kissing me in the shower, and I couldn't even concentrate it was sooooooo annoying. Just kind of odd that the SAG GIRL made it seem like he wasnt **** because she had a "bae'' and thats why they only slept together once.


Posted by DMV
When you called your friend and her dad picked up, how did you greet him? As her father? Or like some bloke?

Anyways, he's seeing other people and hes perfectly allowed 2. Men love an ego boost and whats better than 2 girls? Especially since both girls want him. Making girls jealous is par dor the course...sucks. I usually bow out. Aint got time

Last question, how do you know she called him 7 -14 times while he was in the shower.



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Posted by Islandgal24
I greeted her dad as hayyy baybay. I literally didnt realize it was her dad until after I greeted him like that. I thought it was her. Secondly I get that men love an ego boost, I didnt have a problem with her coming, but she had a problem being around me is what he said the next day. It was extremely inappropriate the way he handled hearing a man answer the phone. Like purposely trying to make me jealous. She's a sag too and apparently OVERLY clingy. I know she called 7 times because I got in the shower and he hopped in like a few mins after me. His phone was connected to his speaker which is how we were listening to music and everytime his phone would ring, it would ring through the speaker. I lost count in the shower so when I got out I looked and was like WOW 7 TIMES? Thats a little excessive for someone you haven't slept with since January. Then he told me that she called him once before the shower and he answered. The call disconnected and she called him repeatedly 7 times after that, and then another 7 while I could hear the phone ringing in the shower. Lol he was kissing me in the shower, and I couldn't even concentrate it was sooooooo annoying. Just kind of odd that the SAG GIRL made it seem like he wasnt **** because she had a "bae'' and thats why they only slept together once.


Posted by DMV
When you called your friend and her dad picked up, how did you greet him? As her father? Or like some bloke?

Anyways, he's seeing other people and hes perfectly allowed 2. Men love an ego boost and whats better than 2 girls? Especially since both girls want him. Making girls jealous is par dor the course...sucks. I usually bow out. Aint got time

Last question, how do you know she called him 7 -14 times while he was in the shower.



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And now that his behavior has been addressed, are you sure you called your girlfriend or some dude in retaliation because you were sitting there stewing over the attention he was giving the other girl. I'm sorry, but in your own words you described the male that picked up as her dad...you call her dad baby?? Lol.
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t said connected and I said Heyyy Baby before I even heard his voice. I was calling my best friend Ashley so I was expecting her to answer lol. But yeah after that happened thats when he went and started whispering in her ear..... any who I guess we have it figured out that he's immature.



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Posted by Islandgal24
I greeted her dad as hayyy baybay. I literally didnt realize it was her dad until after I greeted him like that. I thought it was her. Secondly I get that men love an ego boost, I didnt have a problem with her coming, but she had a problem being around me is what he said the next day. It was extremely inappropriate the way he handled hearing a man answer the phone. Like purposely trying to make me jealous. She's a sag too and apparently OVERLY clingy. I know she called 7 times because I got in the shower and he hopped in like a few mins after me. His phone was connected to his speaker which is how we were listening to music and everytime his phone would ring, it would ring through the speaker. I lost count in the shower so when I got out I looked and was like WOW 7 TIMES? Thats a little excessive for someone you haven't slept with since January. Then he told me that she called him once before the shower and he answered. The call disconnected and she called him repeatedly 7 times after that, and then another 7 while I could hear the phone ringing in the shower. Lol he was kissing me in the shower, and I couldn't even concentrate it was sooooooo annoying. Just kind of odd that the SAG GIRL made it seem like he wasnt **** because she had a "bae'' and thats why they only slept together once.


Posted by DMV
When you called your friend and her dad picked up, how did you greet him? As her father? Or like some bloke?

Anyways, he's seeing other people and hes perfectly allowed 2. Men love an ego boost and whats better than 2 girls? Especially since both girls want him. Making girls jealous is par dor the course...sucks. I usually bow out. Aint got time

Last question, how do you know she called him 7 -14 times while he was in the shower.


And now that his behavior has been addressed, are you sure you called your girlfriend or some dude in retaliation because you were sitting there stewing over the attention he was giving the other girl. I'm sorry, but in your own words you described the male that picked up as her dad...you call her dad baby?? Lol.
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Sag men are always jealous they just don't admit to it. They like to play games over and over again until you get sick of the mind games. I knew a sag dude like that. He was definitely not marriage quality let alone a bf he was just a player.

Also my ex was a sag I broke with him not long ago we were better off friends. We were wayyyyy to alike.. But we loved each other, still do.
He was my first love so letting that go was sad but w/e move on.
I just focus on other things. Maybe in the future I will find someone to live a life with and journeys.

But yea maybe just go with the flow for now.. He might be just testing you.

on point only mine has venus in scorpio even worse 😛
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Oh yea bless your heart! jks..
Yea that's intense I imagine that intensity.
My mom has venus in scorpio she's like the most jealous person I have ever met!
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Bitter and Jealous. One thing I don't understand and won't even try to wrap my head around is why she played it cool. Like "oh yeah we slept together once, but I had someone else I was talking to at the time, so it didnt mean anything.'' Then continuously tell me how I am cool to be around. I mean I had no problem being around her and she made it out that she had none being around me. But then as soon as we leave and she's blowing his phone up its a problem with being around someone he's sleeping with. No one told her she had to come out with us after the first bar we went to. Im pretty sure he told her we were sleeping together when I went to the restroom... any who. Its just too much drama. This guy seems sweet and fun to be around, but just not "boyfriend" material. Thought he would've been different, because before any intimacy started I saw a different side to him. Sweet, funny, genuine, isn't a player... guess the mask came off.



Posted by Arielle83
His female friend is fake as fuck.

Damn she's bitter.

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Oh and get this, when we were leaving I was like where did she go? He was already outside and he was like it doesn't matter lets just leave. I was like don't u want to say bye? He was like no. So I went back inside, because I thought maybe she already left ( I didn't know), and her friends who she was talking to were like she went to the bathroom. So I go to the bathroom and was like Hey, were leaving I wanted to say bye to you. She was like I really thought y'all left me. I was like well to be honest he was going to but I wasn't going to leave without saying bye. So maybe that had her upset too. Oh well. I kept it real with her and was nice the entire time, wasnt bitter, wasnt jealous until he purposely tried to make me jealous, but I was okay with the situation.


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His female friend is fake as fuck.

Damn she's bitter.

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Posted by Islandgal24
So, do most sag men like to make ppl of interest jealous? Im just kind of curios. I started seeing this sag guy and he has tried a time before last night to make me jealous so it seemed. Last night he really did try to make me jealous. He actually succeeded. He asked if it was cool if his "home girl" came out with us to watch game 7 and I asked if this was really his "home girl" or someone he has slept with. Well, he was honest and told me he has slept with her one time back in January, and that was it. I didnt see a huge problem with being around someone from way long ago. I met her and we clicked I mean after all we did have one thing in common "him". lol anyway, we were eating and I called my best friend because him and I were taking a poll about something. Her dad answered and he got up from next and went to the "home girl" he invited and started whispering in her ear and rubbing on her arms. Mind u he was drunk, but I sensed he was jealous and trying to make me jealous. When she went to the restroom I asked him what that was about and of course he wanted to play dumb. Then he asked me why I called a dude, I explained to him I called my best girl friend and her dad answered. He claimed that he wasnt jealous, but who does that? Um so we left there and went to a bar and I spoke to the girl about what was going (she's a sag too). She asked me if we were sleeping together and I responded with yes, and so I asked why did things end with them, she responded with they only slept together once and she was talking to another guy and pursuing him. So, sag guy introduces both of us to this guy he was talking to about the game. We leave and I go back to Sag guys were taking a shower and his phone starts ringing back to back to back to back. It was HER. she called him 7 times in a span of 3 minutes and 7 times before that cussing him out and telling him not to ever bring someone he's sleeping with around her again. She seemed cool until she was calling him that many times. Him and I go get breakfast and we had a heart to heart where he told me he doesnt want to stop hanging out with me, because I'm really cool and fun to be around and I "understand" him and his issues with his ex. So I mean I agreed to stick around. On the way back to his place he asked me so how did you like Jay? I asked Jay and he said yeah the guy I introduced you too and I said why? He was like it seemed like y'all were hitting it off and had somethings in common. Any who who Im a cancer, my moon is aries and Im kind of confused. We spoke on the phone earlier today and he asked me whats the point of being jealous. Idk what goes on in a Sag's mans mind lol. I think he's cool, but apart of me thinks the best thing to do is maybe just step back, and just be someone he can talk to.
If you want to have your heart ripped out by a Sag, keep seeing this guy. You deserve better.