Cap male and sag female

Hello everyone!

I met a Sag lady through a mutual friend. Her interest seemed super hot, then kind of tapered off. We hung out again and I was surprised at how flirty she was, touching me, laughing at jokes that weren't supposed to be 'funny'. So when I texted her to hang out again, we made sort of a tentative time over the weekend, but when that weekend came and I texted her to see what was up.. I didn't hear back.

Any of you sag ladies have any advice? This can really go either way for me. I mean it couldn't hurt to try, but every time I deal with a sag I usually trip... Are saggies just flirty with everyone?

i know that for me, i don't consider myself flirty. but, i am very friendly and i am a warm and affectionate person so, guys often tend to misinterpret that as flirtation.

i am just comfortable around guys as friends and i am warm with my friends.

if i really like someone, i'm usually more awkward and uncomfortable around them...

Posted by MzSagittarius

Posted by littlearcher
i know that for me, i don't consider myself flirty. but, i am very friendly and i am a warm and affectionate person so, guys often tend to misinterpret that as flirtation.

i am just comfortable around guys as friends and i am warm with my friends.

if i really like someone, i'm usually more awkward and uncomfortable around them...

Couldn't have said this better myself...

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so i think the consensus is that we are comfortable around guys and friendly in a way that might appear flirtatious...but we don't mean for it to be...

for me, once i realize a guy has taken my normal personality the wrong way, i try to pull way back. because i'm not interested and i don't want to lead him on...and i will do my best to drop hints that i am not interest. like confide in him about a guy i actually have a crush on etc...still, it never really works...guys i don't like fall for me a lot more often than ones i do like....

does this ring true for the other sagittarius ladies too?

this seems about right. thanks for the advice everyone! happy cappy continues on to another hunt...

littlearcher: I so agree with that statement. I flirt alot but it's just friendly flirting and guys are drawn to me for some reason but it is usually the ones that I only like as a friend. The ones I do truely like, like me but never seem to do anything about it. I always back off a little when I realize a guy likes me way more than he should and I don't feel the same way. I just experienced this last night again. I have a friend that I saw out last night and we were joking around flirting but it was a subtle flirting on my part but not his. When I got home last night he was blowing up my phone with texts. He wanted to just say how much fun he had, how good I looked, wanted to know when we can hang out again, etc.... I couldn't even finish responding to his text before he sent me another one. I finally just stopped responding and went to bed.

Posted by littlearcher
so i think the consensus is that we are comfortable around guys and friendly in a way that might appear flirtatious...but we don't mean for it to be...

for me, once i realize a guy has taken my normal personality the wrong way, i try to pull way back. because i'm not interested and i don't want to lead him on...and i will do my best to drop hints that i am not interest. like confide in him about a guy i actually have a crush on etc...still, it never really works...guys i don't like fall for me a lot more often than ones i do like....

does this ring true for the other sagittarius ladies too?

it does. theres this cancer guy who has been n2 me for awhile, but im not interested. so i will change my tone, joking, and create space and distance.

Posted by MzSagittarius

Posted by littlearcher
i know that for me, i don't consider myself flirty. but, i am very friendly and i am a warm and affectionate person so, guys often tend to misinterpret that as flirtation.

i am just comfortable around guys as friends and i am warm with my friends.

if i really like someone, i'm usually more awkward and uncomfortable around them...

Couldn't have said this better myself...

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This is so true for me. If I like someone, I don't know what to say or do. I go all weird and quiet and I really care how I come across to the other person.

If I don't, then there's no 'risk' so I'm just my bubbly Sagg self - which guys take on as flirting and a come-on. I'm too blunt to flirt so I don't know why they think that lol.

That is so true about liking someone and feeling uncomfortable around them because I don't know what to say or do. I NEVER have a problem saying anything to anyone except in that situation. That's when the shyness comes in. Go figure it would work like that for alot of us.

well that is what I'm not sure about with sag girls. Are they not interested or are they SHY? I've been interested in 3 so far and I cannot wrap my fishtail and goat head around them.

caper: I guess if you know them well and they flirt with you with a deep eye contact they may very well be interested in you. On they other hand, if I don't know someone well and I am attracted to them, I am afraid to show eye contact. Get involved with whatever they are doing so you get to know them if you don't already. I am very interested in another Sag and we seem to pick on each other alot in a very playfull way yet, when we are alone, we have some very deep conversations. We just seem to connect on alot of levels and we even told each other that we like each other but have never even kissed. Both of us are very guarded with our feelings. Someone has to step up and make a move but neither of us do. I usually don't have a problem making the first move but I have found that alot of men don't like a woman too aggressive so I am trying not to be this time.

Posted by littlearcher
i know that for me, i don't consider myself flirty. but, i am very friendly and i am a warm and affectionate person so, guys often tend to misinterpret that as flirtation.

i am just comfortable around guys as friends and i am warm with my friends.

if i really like someone, i'm usually more awkward and uncomfortable around them...

Thats me!!

Posted by littlearcher
so i think the consensus is that we are comfortable around guys and friendly in a way that might appear flirtatious...but we don't mean for it to be...

for me, once i realize a guy has taken my normal personality the wrong way, i try to pull way back. because i'm not interested and i don't want to lead him on...and i will do my best to drop hints that i am not interest. like confide in him about a guy i actually have a crush on etc...still, it never really works...guys i don't like fall for me a lot more often than ones i do like....

does this ring true for the other sagittarius ladies too?

yes!!!

Maybe she was just being nice. It's hard to tell

We'll flirt if you're there because we like the attention.

but she doesn't want you. If she did, you'd know it for sure.

If you want her to want you... stop talking to her, you'll hear from her in about 2 months. 🙂

Posted by yayforpuppets
We'll flirt if you're there because we like the attention.

but she doesn't want you. If she did, you'd know it for sure.

If you want her to want you... stop talking to her, you'll hear from her in about 2 months. 🙂

haha trueeee