Demanding

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BadSag12
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14 Years

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Is being demanding a sag trait? Because I finally faced it that I'm demanding when it comes to guys that come in my life. I just cant help it I want to stop but I always have them running away. I know its not completely my fault because I have a tendency to attract players but even one of my best friends who was a guy we would be on and off and after a while he must have got sick of my shit and went off with a leo. How do I stop being demanding?
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BadSag12
@BadSag12
14 Years

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What I mean by attract players are they 1st see me because they are attracted. I dont put out any type of signals verbally. I am a very lowkey type of girl and dont go to parties and such. That is why I dont put up with their crap because I feel like they are always wanting something and me being a virgin I dont have the time for them to waste my time if they just want to have sex. So I can come off a lil crazy (as my scorp friend tells me) because I want them to want me for the right reasons. I'm an honest person and dont have time for the games. Like recently this gemini and I had plans to go on a date. Then he started acting flaky so I told him I was not gonna put up with the games. He made it seem like I was the problem like I overreacted but maybe I did but at the same time he was acting stupid. My best friend who is a sag wanted me for the right reasons but then again maybe I was a bit too demanding so thats why he got annoyed with me and our on an off and found a leo. Probably not going to date till my 20's because either I'm being too demanding and crazy or they are being immature and stupid. I am a go with the flow type of person but I hate it when people are one way one day and totally the opposite the next.
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BadSag12
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14 Years

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I dont think its about me wanting or needing something. I just want the person to be honest and straightup with me. I get demanding and crazy when the person isnt acting how they usually act and they give no reasons for their sudden change. When the communication starts getting smaller a sort of caution happens in my head thinking of reasons an thats not good since I am an impulsive person. I give people space but if they dont give me the attention I deservedidI think thats when I get demanding. I'm never like this in my friendships. Only when it becomes more because I'm dealing with my emotions. My sag bestfriend wasnt ready for a serious relationship thats why hes dating a 15 year old and hes 18. I think pressured him to be a man and thats why he went with the leo.