female sag cnt let go!

well heres the deal... i was close friends with my sag female classmate... i had developed feelings for her in some time...but she had another one of those jerkoff guys as her close friend who she finally started dating....so i decided to end my friendship telling her my feelings. she was visibly hurt but i had no choice.i wont accept friendship instead of love. it was hurting on my side too but i dint show... made it look a bit heartless. we werent talking for like 6 months but she still used to try to initiate contact with me and make small talk...i used to avoid as much as possible. these past few days shes been sending mixed signals to me... like she tries to initiate contact and wanna know how i am doing and sometimes she dosent care to reply to a simple hi. anyways i want her to leave me alone because in the past one such friendship thing with my ex gf hasnt gone down too well.. she keeps on telling me that she ll quit bugging me when i find someone as good as her in my life....so what do i do to get her off my track—? i need to avoid her to start anew.

dude. your shell is going to become a prison if you let it 🙂 as a fellow moon in scorpio i can relate to not wanting the other person around me who i have feelings for. but geez your possessiveness got the better of you. she is just trying to be your friend. its not that she cant let go, she was also your close friend.

maybe you should try moving away and changing your phone number or tell her exactly why you cant be friends. be emotional, just turn the faucet on and let it pour. no need to be mean about it.

you cant tell other people to stay away just because you cant handle them. one of the lessons that im trying to learn is how to deal with someone you have feelings for when theyre in your face constantly. either you continue to evolve and grow up. master your emotions. or you give in and YOU yourself has to get lost. you know?

with sun and merc in the 12th, you keep alot of yourself hidden. merc in the 12th can also lend itself to fibbing. be careful 🙂

i wont touch on your other placements unless you want to talk about it. theyre pretty personal.

you obviously have a thing for her, pretty strong. Katie and Tom? kinda cute. us scorponic people dont go to the lengths that youve gone unless we feel very deeply for the other person.

she was a close friend and well fitted my standards after a long time. i dont agree with you on the giving in part..hasnt served me well in the past with someone as i said. it just makes me suffer more...and i refuse to do that this year!!! well pm me about my other placements...i would like to talk about it.thanks.

then you have to move away dude

ya... i did..but she keeps coming back! anyways for what its worth saggi girls are the best emotionally to understand us...love them!

thanks. i hope that one day you can be in the same room with her and not get overwhelmed emotionally.

You won't get her off so just ignore her or do what you want.

You can tell people to get away from you if you would like because you're entitled to do whatever you want, and should do what you feel is best for you. That silly notion of being merry and tolerant with everyone is not reality.

agree with you...

I am an Aries with a Cancer rising. You may want to ask yourself the following questions.

Do you want to date Miz Sadge?

If yes, go for it.

If no, then it is time to really communicate not the half-assed Cancer way of doing it.

Show her some tough love. Explain to her that you are not interested and you have moved on with your life. Block her number, email, and erase her from your life. Do this now. She will go away. She's hanging on because she regrets not giving you guys a try in the first place. Probably feeling pressure to settle down or date someone halfway decent...and trying to make you the Fallback guy.

really?

whats wrong with what i did— i told her immediately that i just wanted to be her classmate and no more friend...i cant be as i didnt see her that way..she was the one persuading me all the time...to get back on the same page with her!! sheesh...

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whats wrong with what i did— i told her immediately that i just wanted to be her classmate and no more friend...i cant be as i didnt see her that way..she was the one persuading me all the time...to get back on the same page with her!! sheesh...

Hey now, Mr. Cancer put your claws down. 🙂 We are only trying to help. Tell her straight out one more time and then let it go.

This is stupid for crying out loud u sound like my best friend
Accept ur losses she chose the other guy instead of u ur lucky she has a heart n doesn't ignore n treat u like crap look get over her it's not hard u were never with her she doesn't like u like that n if she did she would have left him for u but it's not Gunna n if they brake up do u really want to be the rebound guy c'mon give a break talk to me wen u actually hooked up with her n u have been with her for atleast three years went my guy best friend tells me this I'm like seriously stop being dramatic Ive never been with u !! N I've told him I don't like him he don't take a hint