How do you get a Sag to slow down?

Even just a tad?

I met this Sag man not too long ago (maybe like two weeks ago), and we've been talking sporadically. He's very sweet and I can see myself liking him, but he's already quite into me. And by quite... I mean a lot. He gives off this aura that I am already his, or at least he is trying to make it that way. I'm not being very flirty with him, and I do remind him that I'm a little busy with school so that I didn't want to jump into anything at the moment.

Anyway, this is his chart:

Sun Sagittarius 18.53
Moon Capricorn 7.19
Mercury Sagittarius 24.03
Venus Scorpio 21.15
Mars Aries 10.16
Jupiter Taurus 28.44 R
Saturn Capricorn 3.06
Uranus Capricorn 0.29
Neptune Capricorn 9.09
Pluto Scorpio 13.55
Lilith Virgo 23.25
Asc node Pisces 8.22

Hahahaha, his chart is so much like mine!
He probably is really intrigued with you and wants to get to know you more...
And all fire sign men act like they own a woman. (Well... most.)

Posted by bassace
have sex with him, after that youre relationship will come to a grinding hault haha. unless of course youre reallly special

i couldnt have said it better myself.

*his venus in scorpio is what is making you feel like you are his. why would you want him to slow down? why dot you want to change him? hes perfect the way he is.

Venus in Scorp, Mars in Aries....that basically = intensely aggressive.

I have a Sag friend with virtually the same placements (only an Aqua moon) and that girl is so possessive.
If she likes someone...she's not shy to pursue them. Heavily. She takes what she wants. *shrugs*
Also, once they return the interest, she basically claims them...even before it's anything official.
It's like a victory has been won. Her flag is planted. 😛

Posted by DMV

Posted by bassace
have sex with him, after that youre relationship will come to a grinding hault haha. unless of course youre reallly special

i couldnt have said it better myself.

*his venus in scorpio is what is making you feel like you are his. why would you want him to slow down? why dot you want to change him? hes perfect the way he is.

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Lol I'm just definitely not in my comfort zone yet. I literally know nothing about this guy, so it makes it harder for me to really just go for it because the more aggressive he is, the more I sort of just want to back away. I only met him like once since we go to different schools, and he texted me, "I want you. Physically and emotionally." I was intrigued and scared at the same time, so I asked him, what is it about me that entices him so much (since it hasn't been that much time between knowing each other). He told me that he thought I was beautiful, intelligent, I had knowledge about things he liked, and then he dropped kind of a bomb on me. He said he wanted to lose his virginity to me.

Now, I have no problem with that per se, but I wasn't even considering sex yet. I haven't even completely figured out where this is going. So, I told him that I was really flattered but that I needed to get to know a person more before I could get into that and I didn't want to jump into anything so soon. He told me that I was so right and so honest, and so we went into different conversation. He asked me what my favorite body part on myself was; so I told him my eyes. Simple. So I asked him the same, and he said his arms and then his penis. And then he asked me to guess how big his dick was; I didn't ask because I honestly didn't want to get into that subject at the time, but he kind of told me anyway lol. The conversation just got a little uncomfortable after that because he asked me if he could send a picture of his penis and more sexual, but not even the comfortable kind of sexual. Like I told him I was going to shower, so if I didn't answer, that was probably why, and he said, "Omg, I'd love to take a shower with you and kiss you and (insert whatever sexual thing here) with my dick."

And honestly, I wouldn't have so much of an issue with it if I felt on the same level. But, I'd be lying if I said I was. And it's not that I can't feel som

something, but it's like, when we first talked it was really cute and light, and then it took a 180 (blame my mars in taurus, I can move like a snail when I'm not at the same pace as the person lol).

Posted by WynterBourne

"He asked me what my favorite body part on myself was; so I told him my eyes. Simple. So I asked him the same, and he said his arms and then his penis. And then he asked me to guess how big his dick was; I didn't ask because I honestly didn't want to get into that subject at the time, but he kind of told me anyway lol. The conversation just got a little uncomfortable after that because he asked me if he could send a picture of his penis and more sexual, but not even the comfortable kind of sexual. Like I told him I was going to shower, so if I didn't answer, that was probably why, and he said, "Omg, I'd love to take a shower with you and kiss you and (insert whatever sexual thing here) with my dick.""

He says he's a virgin? lol

This guy's a wolf. He ain't gonna slow down. 😛😛

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well everyone starts off as a virgin....

*so whats the problem? are you looking for love?

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Posted by WynterBourne

"He asked me what my favorite body part on myself was; so I told him my eyes. Simple. So I asked him the same, and he said his arms and then his penis. And then he asked me to guess how big his dick was; I didn't ask because I honestly didn't want to get into that subject at the time, but he kind of told me anyway lol. The conversation just got a little uncomfortable after that because he asked me if he could send a picture of his penis and more sexual, but not even the comfortable kind of sexual. Like I told him I was going to shower, so if I didn't answer, that was probably why, and he said, "Omg, I'd love to take a shower with you and kiss you and (insert whatever sexual thing here) with my dick.""

He says he's a virgin? lol

This guy's a wolf. He ain't gonna slow down. 😛😛

well everyone starts off as a virgin....

*so whats the problem? are you looking for love?

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I mean of course. I don't have a problem with him being a virgin. It's how he threw it out there and I don't even know how I feel about him yet. And it's the way he's coming at me. One time he texted me "I've been thinking about our future together." And I was like, "...what future?" And he responded with, "I can see us in Cancun." And this was like five days after we just met. I just want to like, dude, chill out. Like I'm trying to get to know what kind of person he is, but he keeps taking it to another level.

Posted by WynterBourne
Well, yeah...he could be a virgin. A 22yr old Sag Male virgin.

Perhaps his Cappy moon lends him shyness. 🙂

Lol that's exactly what he is. He's 21 going on 22.

I mean, I felt no need to ask him why he was a virgin. He seemed sexually knowledgeable, and I didn't know him enough, so I didn't feel inclined to ask.

Ya probably that venus in scorp

LMAO! A virgin? With that mouth! Seriously doubt it. !ut I agree that venus scorpio and mars in aries is a strong combo. Most sag men are like this wHen your not giving in to them. I would tell you to tell him to slow it down, but I doubt that would change anything. He seems like once he sets his mind (o something he won't stop until he gets it. But I think He'll burn himself out eventually

I don't trust him lol
The more you run the more he will run after you. My ex Sag really loved the chase I didn't even like him in the beginning but he wouldn't give up. We ended up getting to know each other and becoming a part of each other's lives because of how slow I go. We are still friends now but I think if I had given into him earlier he would've had his adventure and then lost interest and vanished. You Sag people are so full of life and free spirited! I wish I could be more carefree like that sometimes.

Posted by virgodreamz
I wish I could be more carefree like that sometimes.

its easy, just think of everyday like its your last day.

Virgin or not, just sounds like he wants some.