How to deal with this Saggy

I met a Sag back in April when I was selling stuff at a convention. He kept walking past our stall and he seemed to get really depressive towards the end of the day. My boss said he was hoping I'd ask him to go someplace private with him. That wasn't happening. I really admire the guy I was working with and wanted to hang with him as long as I could. He told me this Sag wanted me to prefer him and that's why he was getting all melancholy. I thought nothing of if and we ended up Facebook friends.
Now he talks to me about some of the most pointless stuff. Like how he found black mould in his room and how he wanted to go as a character from a video game to the next con, with me as the other protagonist of the game (though I told him I only dressed in costume for work) and how much he dislikes his job, though I have told him how I find it annoying when I'd love a job and have more qualifications than him and he has one and constantly complains...
Basically, he says I'm the only friend he's made since he moved to the city he lives in. He's always got something to whine about and he seems to just want to date me to make his life better and that makes me mad.
Is he just going through a bad time or should I stop talking to him? Is it worth my striking around?
And no, I don't want to date him. He doesn't like any of the guys I talk to and I can tell he's only as nice to my workmates from the cons because of how much I like them.

It sounds like he irritates the fuck outta you. Why bother?

His clinging irritates me, yes. But he's not a bad person, I can see that. He kind of reminds me of what I used to be. I guess I can see that being lonely a long time would make him a bit obsessive and I wonder if he could just do with a friend to help with confidence.
I've seen it happen before. I tend to attract a lot of that type. Nice people but just in a difficult patch. I can help if I put the effort in, but I'm starting to wonder if I should. Especially when he admits so readily to having feelings for me. I think maybe that's just because I'm female and talk to him and I'm hoping I'm not so naive to think that will go away if he sees himself in a better light...
Or something.

One thing a sag male does not need is pity. So please put the cape away 🙂 but if u want to take a chance, go for it. What do u have to lose?

Hmm. Think I'll stop trying to be the hero. I'm always that person. It's interesting to me that you say that about pity because it seems to be the thing he's been using to keep my attention.
I have too much on my own plate to be a friend to someone who just wants to date me for their own selfish purposes.

Thanks 🙂

I dont think its out of selfishness. He obvi likes you but it sounds like you keep giving yourself reasons to notlike him. Im just curious as to what Saturn is doing n your chart.

Sounds like he is genuinely trying to get to know u. Spark up a conversation, even if it is about mold.

You say that you dont want to date him just to make his life better. Im confused, I think people get n2 relationships to compliment each other or make each other better. Especially men. A man needs a great woman by his side to make him even better.

Hes whining because hes bored. Why not go on an adventure with him?

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I dont think its out of selfishness. He obvi likes you but it sounds like you keep giving yourself reasons to notlike him. Im just curious as to what Saturn is doing n your chart.

Sounds like he is genuinely trying to get to know u. Spark up a conversation, even if it is about mold.

You say that you dont want to date him just to make his life better. Im confused, I think people get n2 relationships to compliment each other or make each other better. Especially men. A man needs a great woman by his side to make him even better.

Hes whining because hes bored. Why not go on an adventure with him?

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