Luz
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Even at 38 there are still things I'm naive about lol. I think you maybe over emphasizing the fact that he didn't have that simple piece of knowledge.
Our minds run constantly, and we tend to not pay attention to detail. Don't let this one thing distract you from the rest of him. We as human beings tend to ignore the good things in someone and focus on the bad...or better yet what someone is not doing without realizing the full extent of what we want.
Simply stated, is it that big of a deal that he didn't know the meaning? There was something about him that made you accept him "as your boyfriend." Perhaps the fact that he demonstrates behavior that you're not used to is the lesson you should learn. That love comes in different ways and to appreciate the forms it comes in.

Posted by AriesIntrovert16Posted by beautifulsoul74
Even at 38 there are still things I'm naive about lol. I think you maybe over emphasizing the fact that he didn't have that simple piece of knowledge.
Our minds run constantly, and we tend to not pay attention to detail. Don't let this one thing distract you from the rest of him. We as human beings tend to ignore the good things in someone and focus on the bad...or better yet what someone is not doing without realizing the full extent of what we want.
Simply stated, is it that big of a deal that he didn't know the meaning? There was something about him that made you accept him "as your boyfriend." Perhaps the fact that he demonstrates behavior that you're not used to is the lesson you should learn. That love comes in different ways and to appreciate the forms it comes in.
This is an old thread. I don't think they're even together anymore.click to expand
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Am I wrong to feel this way? I dont want to state what he didnt know because it's just embarrassing for him.