I'm in love with a Sag male and I'm so confused

So I'm a libra female and I've been dating a Sag male for about a year now. He's great, we are so compatible and the sex is mind blowing. But one thing I can't understand and frustrates me about him is that he does not express his emotions to me. It confuses me because I watch how he interacts with other people and he's so open to them but with me, its like he doesn't want to tell me his feelings. I know he has feelings for me, I feel that, its a crazy vibe I get with him. Can you Sag men tell me why you holdback? Or Explain that behavior

Yeah. I do that too. :/

We like to play it cool. I can imagine it's pretty annoying

Posted by brianafay
Yeah. I do that too. :/

We like to play it cool. I can imagine it's pretty annoying

I know that's how you sags do but is it only with ppl u like?

Well the fact that you've been dating a year is a little concerning...by now I'd be over that.
I'm just like that in the beginning...when I first meet someone I'm attracted to, I avoid them (as if that makes sense to anyone else in the universe.) I will talk to everyone except them and when they try talk to me I will avoid eye excessive eye contact and mostly act really uninterested. I don't even know. I just get nervous and I really don't want them to know that.

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Well the fact that you've been dating a year is a little concerning...by now I'd be over that.
I'm just like that in the beginning...when I first meet someone I'm attracted to, I avoid them (as if that makes sense to anyone else in the universe.) I will talk to everyone except them and when they try talk to me I will avoid eye excessive eye contact and mostly act really uninterested. I don't even know. I just get nervous and I really don't want them to know that.

Yea well he hides his emotions still but I tell him exactly what I think he's feelin and not tellin me n sometimes he fights n sometimes he stays shut so I don't what is more validating, his silence or his confrontation lol another thing that drives me crazy is the space he needs, I've become used to it by now but sometimes we can go without talkin for a day or two n my mind wanders thinking about what he's doin or if he's thinkin about me.. What's your best advice about what you sags like when it comes to space ?

@OP: I'll chime in later. Sag male.

id put $ 2 he is a venus in cap. have u talked to him about it.

He's actually Venus in sagittarius n he's moon in cancer

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He's actually Venus in sagittarius n he's moon in cancer

I haven't really told him because as a Libra I suffer from pride. I don't want to make him feel like he has the best of me. I hate being vulnerable unless someone shows me they're vulnerable too.

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He's actually Venus in sagittarius n he's moon in cancer

what is his saturn? fuck i lost $ 2

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He's actually Venus in sagittarius n he's moon in cancer

what is his saturn? fuck i lost $ 2

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His saturn is in scorpio

sag men love to play it cool. maybe his moon/pluto fucks with him. but i cant imagine not being expressive after a whole year. have u talked to him?

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He's actually Venus in sagittarius n he's moon in cancer

I haven't really told him because as a Libra I suffer from pride. I don't want to make him feel like he has the best of me. I hate being vulnerable unless someone shows me they're vulnerable too.

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I'm just asking a question here, but did you think that its possible that he's mirroring you? We do that ya know. If he's feels your not giving you're all and bring upfront and honest about the way you feel...he'll just dimply do the same. You may say he's the man and should lead but isn't it also about fairness...if this is the case?

Damn I'm staring to hate Ipads!

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He's actually Venus in sagittarius n he's moon in cancer

I haven't really told him because as a Libra I suffer from pride. I don't want to make him feel like he has the best of me. I hate being vulnerable unless someone shows me they're vulnerable too.

I'm just asking a question here, but did you think that its possible that he's mirroring you? We do that ya know. If he's feels your not giving you're all and bring upfront and honest about the way you feel...he'll just dimply do the same. You may say he's the man and should lead but isn't it also about fairness...if this is the case?

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If anything I think in this case I'm mirroring him. I'm very affectionate and loving but I hold a lot back with him because I feel like if I give to much of me he's going to get bored or think that I'm too clingy. He knows how much I like him though that I can't hide and I do tell him how amazing I think he is.

But yet you want him to be upfront with his feelings and you're not willing to do so with yours. Love is a risk and if you want him to express his deep feelings than express yours. Honestly, not wanting to seem clingy or worrying about him getting bored is simple insecurity. Be fearless. If anything it will inspire him. That's one of the things we look for in a woman.

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But yet you want him to be upfront with his feelings and you're not willing to do so with yours. Love is a risk and if you want him to express his deep feelings than express yours. Honestly, not wanting to seem clingy or worrying about him getting bored is simple insecurity. Be fearless. If anything it will inspire him. That's one of the things we look for in a woman.

Let me ask you this, have you ever dealt with a Libra woman? And if so what was the outcome?

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But yet you want him to be upfront with his feelings and you're not willing to do so with yours. Love is a risk and if you want him to express his deep feelings than express yours. Honestly, not wanting to seem clingy or worrying about him getting bored is simple insecurity. Be fearless. If anything it will inspire him. That's one of the things we look for in a woman.

Let me ask you this, have you ever dealt with a Libra woman? And if so what was the outcome?

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Yes, and we broke up but the situation was more complicated than yours.

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But yet you want him to be upfront with his feelings and you're not willing to do so with yours. Love is a risk and if you want him to express his deep feelings than express yours. Honestly, not wanting to seem clingy or worrying about him getting bored is simple insecurity. Be fearless. If anything it will inspire him. That's one of the things we look for in a woman.

Let me ask you this, have you ever dealt with a Libra woman? And if so what was the outcome?

Yes, and we broke up but the situation was more complicated than yours.

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So from your point of view would you ever want to be with a libra again? Do you think your personality is compatible with libra in comparison with the other signs?

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But yet you want him to be upfront with his feelings and you're not willing to do so with yours. Love is a risk and if you want him to express his deep feelings than express yours. Honestly, not wanting to seem clingy or worrying about him getting bored is simple insecurity. Be fearless. If anything it will inspire him. That's one of the things we look for in a woman.

Let me ask you this, have you ever dealt with a Libra woman? And if so what was the outcome?

Yes, and we broke up but the situation was more complicated than yours.

So from your point of view would you ever want to be with a libra again? Do you think your personality is compatible with libra in comparison with the other signs?

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Yes I would and yes it is. Why?.

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But yet you want him to be upfront with his feelings and you're not willing to do so with yours. Love is a risk and if you want him to express his deep feelings than express yours. Honestly, not wanting to seem clingy or worrying about him getting bored is simple insecurity. Be fearless. If anything it will inspire him. That's one of the things we look for in a woman.

Let me ask you this, have you ever dealt with a Libra woman? And if so what was the outcome?

Yes, and we broke up but the situation was more complicated than yours.

So from your point of view would you ever want to be with a libra again? Do you think your personality is compatible with libra in comparison with the other signs?

Yes I would and yes it is. Why?.

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Just asking, I want to hear it from a sags point of view. To me its like looking from outside of the box. What did you like about libra?

I can only speak from experience with the one I dated but I have a few friends that are Libras.

Most of all their belief in love. Their thoughtfulness and intelligence. wisdom, judgement, love of laughter, ability to be fair, and their string ideals.

I meant strong ideals

Can u specify what u mean about our belief in love?

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Can u specify what u mean about our belief in love?

The uniting of two people through love.