Love Hate thing with Sagis.

This is my... perhaps... 4th sagittarius now. I'm a cappy.. and for some reason.. I can't seem to leave them!

"Everytime I try to leave.. something keeps pulling me back.. me back..."

They give me the biggest headaches and sometimes heartaches, but the flipside of joy and happiness... is amazing!

Been going out with this sagi.. since September now. We're in a predicament where hes in the process of breaking up with his girl.. and hell, we tried to stay away from each other and cut each other off, but it's almost impossible. Being a cappy, I know that I would have completely cut him off.. but I am keeping my emotions under wraps.. and going on this ride still.

At times, I worry that he will just cut me off, or just leave me.. or something!!! but so far, he's treated me amazingly well. He's always doing things to please me... if I said I wanted to do something... he will remember it weeks later and surprise me with it. He takes me out.. dines me.. and we have such a fun time together. He hasn't forgotten any engagements we've planned.. and he's even taking me away for a weekend for my birthday. He has been on trips with friends in the last two months for a week.. and when he returns, the first person he calls and sees is me.. and he'll spend the whole day and night with me. He doesn't shower me with extravagant gifts and such, but he does spoil me with wherever I want to go and do and being a cappy, I love being given that treatment!! (I am not a gold digger, I have an amazing career and support myself entirely!).

Is this a typical sagi? The sagi's I've read on this forum.. hasn;t sounded that great.. and not to say mine is, but he seems SLIGHTLY more decent. *grin*

We both have sagi's in our venus's which probably makes us work... but I wonder how long this can go on before I say, "hey, settle or leave"

I know people say Sagi;s and cappys don't work.. i actually bought the report from cafeastrology and it says its slightly more promising than most (i guess our alignment and such!)

Inputs?

Well, I know whats going on... and I"m completely aware. I am no homewrecker... if he was happy and wasnt wanting out, I wouldn"t be here. But I have been in a similar situation and I was on the other end. You can not really judge a predicament unless you have been in it yourself sometimes.

its odd. and I think my PMS-ing period does not help much either. 😛

any other thoughts?

I agree with aquiella..... If you have been on the other end of the situation then, you know it won't work out. Sooner or later one of you will leave the other for someone else and/or you will never trust each other ever because of how you were originally with each other. I don't date more than one person at a time and I think it is wrong to do so. Alot of people don't think it is a big deal but, to most Sag's I know well, you just don't do that.

I just asked for an opinion about sagi's, not here to be judged about "doing something so negative".

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***I just asked for an opinion about sagi's, not here to be judged about "doing something so negative".***

When anyone on here asks for opinions, they are judged, no matter who you are. The only difference is that we don't know you or the total situation so, you can either take the advice or leave it. You can utilize some of the information or not. No one can tell you what to do but, we will share our thoughts if you ask and you did ask. If he isn't happy then he would of left. He is just leaving you hanging because he is not sure of what he wants. Alot of us are good at giving advice on here but, most of us don't take our own advice. Reread what you wrote and maybe that might help you. Since you have been in the same place as him before you already know it didn't work out so, what makes you think it will work now with him doing it to you. Just be careful and stay gaurded.
Hey Aquiella...thanks for asking, my girls and I are doing good. Just trying to get ready for Christmas. I'm really behind this year. I still have shopping to do. Hopefully will finish today.

I cant say if it typical Saggie behavior but I will say just have fun and enjoy the moment but dont get wrapped up in him untill you are SURE!!!!

How he is with her does not mean he will be that way with you, so dont compare your "you" with him to "her" with him. At the same time he could repeat himself so go neutral and if you bold and dare than be with him but dont ever factor out him doin somethin similar to you untill you KNOW and that you may never know, therefor LIVE.

Aquiella, I am a Saggitarius female and often find myself attracted to Capricorn males, don't know why but to me it is something magical that as long as it is spontaneous is good, as long as both want to keep it like free no obligation, then it is attractive, otherwise it looses its "magic"...

Nicely said Tanya. I'm a cap and just what you said keeps me with the wrong guy for too long. i hate giving up on someone.

In my sag experience.......if hes cheating on his gf now, he'll do it to you too. Personally I wouldn't trust him.

Trust me he's just using you. The right thing for him to do was to not- i repeat not- be a relationship with you in the first place, if he had a girl. What you are looking for is not true faithful love, you are looking for a homey lover friend, because that's all this man is really doing for you now.

sav, something about thos sag's that keep pullin people back them back... My libra friend who turned into FWB, who now seems like he might be interested in more, has broken up and got back with his sag girl 5 times since I've known him, now this last time they broke up I think I might be starting to actually like him, like him, so we will see, our relationship seems to be changing now that I have let him know how I feel. The funny thing is that song. Is the song he claims for their relationship.. Or past relationship. I guess the sag's can pull you in and keep you coming back and they also go back.. I dunno. Rebounding is scary, just make sure you aren't a rebound girl. As I am trying to make sure for myself as well... Good luck. What is your sign?

sav, something about thos sag's that keep pullin people back them back... My libra friend who turned into FWB, who now seems like he might be interested in more, has broken up and got back with his sag girl 5 times since I've known him, now this last time they broke up I think I might be starting to actually like him, like him, so we will see, our relationship seems to be changing now that I have let him know how I feel. The funny thing is that song. Is the song he claims for their relationship.. Or past relationship. I guess the sag's can pull you in and keep you coming back and they also go back.. I dunno. Rebounding is scary, just make sure you aren't a rebound girl. As I am trying to make sure for myself as well... Good luck.

sav... I know you probably are feeling attacked by us sags but thats part of the reason why caps and sags dont get along. We cant stand dishonesty with a passion, even though Im sure were all guilty of it to some point.Were also very open about our oppinions, so if you dont want that dont ask a sagittarius. I know personally I have crushed on some capricorns myself as long as it stays fun and games. When it comes to being serious....I tend to think that capricorns are bit too self absorbed and materialistic for my taste. In every relationship Ive been in Ive been out to please. I always remember the little things and like to surprise others with them. We like to know everything and we are very proud when others notice how much we pay attention.Its kind of an ego thing really. Has this relationship become physical at all? If it hasnt, are you sure hes not just trying to be a good friend. I often times get caught up in problems with people thinking I want more than friendship.When Im just being friendly. It could be the same for his ex too. Is he with her? or is he just still friends with her? If hes with her, I agree that he isnt going to leave her anytime soon and your just getting lead on. If hes just friends with her dont expect their friendship to end. I know personally I could never stop being friends with an ex even if I wanted to.