HELPP!

what can i say to a cancer thru txt messaging, that will make him wnat to speak to me, after hes blocked me, and told me not to call him? lol
(ps. he said we couldnt talk on phone, but we could still talk on msn, so why am i blocked?)
im bored, i need some of the drama.

Hmmm, I don't know if this will help any, but it seemed like by the time I turned "cold" and didn't want to be bothered with a guy he ALWAYS wanted to talk to me after that.lol

nvm, i decided not to txt . if he cared, hed unblock me. right? lol

ya leo/virgo... i always chase him, thats proly why im blocked on msn in the firts place, i couldnt just let it go, when he said we oculdnt talk on the phone ne more, i hounded him with phonecalls... no wonder he blocked me. so u kno wut, im jus not gunna care. if he comes aroudn he does, if he doesnt. then....ohwell.

Pleasssssse don't chase this man whatsoever. Come on now. Let him come to you. I'm not going to lie as I've done the calling thing also when a certain guy started to ignore me for no reason. I just lost it and did everything I could to reach him. You know what happened? I pushed him further away by doing that although at the time I didn't realize it. I just wanted to know why he was acting the way he was. Naturally, the more I tried the worse it got. Then when I finally gave up, he slowly came back to me. Now he gets in contact with me at least once a month. What you have to do is let him be now because the more you push it will take that much longer for him to come back to you, if that is what you want him to do. In my case, I had enough of the games and gave up but he liked being chased. When I stopped, he started up again. You have to keep your dignity intact and walk away for now. Speaking from experiencing. All the best to you.

P.S: Good for you not texting him. There is no need to do that. He'll get in contact with you later on.

THANK-U MYSTICAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You're welcome. I'm speaking from experience. Trust me. This guy of yours will eventually come around. He needs to "miss" you. If you are too available, there is no need for him do anything because you are always there. I'm not in playing games but I do feel the guy should be the chaser. God, if only I followed this myself a while ago, I would have saved myself a lot of heartache. Just be yourself and he'll be back. Things happen to help us evolve. Maybe this is a time for you to grow and not have him around so you can consentrate on yourself. Don't worry why he won't talk to you now. Men sometimes are going through things that they can't express. Make sure to be his friend first because all relationships normally start out that way in the first place.

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Mystical is 100% on the money.

He will *definitely* miss you, especially if you were "hounding him" with phone calls. Guys love attention as much as girls do, so he'll be missing that attention if nothing else. 🙂

Thank you Leo/Virgo75. I'm being perfectly honest with Lil.ladie.taurus. I showered one particular guy with so much attention that he didn't have to do a thing. It infuriated me because I couldn't understand what was going on. When I finally realized that I had to give up, he came back. However, I'm not sure why he calls me at least once a month now. Now when I don't take contact, he'll let about 4 weeks go by. However, before if I took contact with him, he'd ignore me. I've never understood such behavior and still don't. This is why I let the chips fall where they may. Now I just let him contact me and he does. I just wonder though why it takes about 4 weeks though. Well, anyway, I had to move on with my life and not worry about him anymore.

I personally can't stand people who don't get the hint... And I hate people who call and call and call... It's just irritating... I say leave the man alone...

Are you doing it to annoy him on purpose? I've done that to my bf before but only to annoy him for not answering his phone after an argument. It's like, dammit! argue with me!
First it's funny and then it bites me in the ass because I end up getting angry... all by... myself.. because I realize I've called so many times... goes something like this "LOL!" - "fukkin bastard! answer your damn phone! you'll pay for this!"

i got mad that he didnt wnat to talk to me on the phone, so i called him, to piss him off. then when i called and left a message asking for advice on sumthign, and he didnt call back, thats when i thougth to myself: fuck you.
im done.
and thats the day he told me off on msn n then blocked me. but i jus answere😱 yah im done.
and i havent called since. i was eager to txt this morning. but now . who cares.

well alil more than a week later, i caved... lol iano why, but i calle dhim, it went to the answering machine and i said: dont be mad, just call me back.
and later on that day, i got 3 missed calls form him. now im afraid to call bakc, thinking that hes jus gunna tell me off again n tell me to stop clalin, or ask me rudely: WHAT DO U WANT?
lol sooooooooo............... im not callin back.......
iano wut do u guys think? hes over it? or hes still mad? iano iano,.. im dumb lol

You're not dumb, you're just stubborn lol Somewhere down the line self-respect will prevail and you'll kick him in the ass 🙂

He's probably annoyed, unless his gfs away and that's why he's calling.