Jealousy or just plain Paranoid?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by ami_virgo19 on Monday, November 6, 2006 and has 8 replies.

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@ami_virgo19
20 Years
I have been with my sag for nearly 2 months, i cant fault our relationship its great! i know she cares Sooooo much about me i never doubt that for 1 second never ever ever! but my worry is that when were out on the town i see her having a laugh with other people and i worry that she'll find them more interesting them me - i have told her my worries and she has told me more then once that im the only one she wants and she couldnt be happier, i do believe her but i still worry! am i being stupid? its when i see her having a laugh with my best friend (Leo)i egt worried that she'll be having more fun wi her then she does me?
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@jayna001
19 Years
Actually I know how u feel and its not the first or tenth time i've heard it about sags and virgos. I'm a virgo and my boyfriend is a sag. I get that same worrying feeling, although I usually force myself to ignore it. I wouldn't worry, take her word for it, they seem to be pretty straightforward.
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@ami_virgo19
20 Years
Jayna001,

so you have heard this before? strange! as you have said i also do find myself ignoring it, i know she cares stupid amounts for me so i know she wouldnt do anything, but is there anything i can do to maybe stop me feeling like this. why do you think it is?

Ami xx
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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces
"i see her having a laugh with other people and i worry that she'll find them more interesting them me"

ami virgo19: If her friends make her laugh, that makes them fun to be around. If you sit back and spend your time worrying, that makes you boring.

You do the math.
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@jayna001
19 Years
ami virgo19: Whenever it starts to bother me I usually just end up quiet and deal with it with myself. I know I would be overreacting to worry and to bother my sag bf about whatever emotions I may feel over and over. And to stop you from thinking this way? I'm not sure you can completely, I think its just the way it is. Sags are so independent, it can become unnerving.