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Posted by TheSagLady_
Where's the be loyal and dont be an asshole part? ??

But other than that... YASSS VERY YASS for me gurrlll... ❤❤
I guess I'd say that the honesty part is where the loyalty lies. If someone's honest with me, even if they don't agree with what I'm saying or doing, they're being honest and that to me is showing loyalty. Stab me in the front instead of the back kinda thing, hope I explained it well enough lol.

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Posted by TheSagLady_
Where's the be loyal and dont be an asshole part? ??

But other than that... YASSS VERY YASS for me gurrlll... ❤❤
I guess I'd say that the honesty part is where the loyalty lies. If someone's honest with me, even if they don't agree with what I'm saying or doing, they're being honest and that to me is showing loyalty. Stab me in the front instead of the back kinda thing, hope I explained it well enough lol.




True.. i really like all truth in whatever front they might be..

But what if someone is honest about cheating on you? Would that be acceptable? ??

Me.. nahhhh ??

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Well, I've cheated on someone once before and it was forgiven. Young and dumb. I realized then (and obvs now) that it's wrong and dumb and just not cool. So, I'd like to think that I'd talk to them about it and figure out if they're sincere about an apology and willing to talk about it. Not trying to make an excuse but you never know what someone is going through sometimes, and people do make mistakes so if they can prove to me that they learned their lesson, I'm not going to judge them for something I've done in my past.
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@MagicMona Perception's key...maybe that uncertainty is because that person sees all possible outcomes from a decision and thus has issues making their mind up. Not saying it's right, not saying it's wrong, just that maybe people need to look at things differently in order to appreciate them, myself included (I love discussing things, so please keep sharing your ideas!) 🙂

I don't see it as orders, it's more or a 'take me as I am'...if someone can't deal with someone, or compromise, then maybe they don't need that relationship. No one needs to stay in stressful, unhealthy relationships - life's too short for that BS - either on the Sags end, or the other person's.

Personally, I don't order my S/Os around. I hate being told what to do so why tell someone else what to do. I enjoy a companion, someone who will wander around with me and be silly. 🙂