my leo some times loving more and sometimes ignoring too

This topic was created in the Leo forum by swetha on Wednesday, April 5, 2017 and has 11 replies.

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@swetha
9 Years

Hi,

I'm a sag girl I'm in relationship with Leo guy since 5 years. I can not understand my Leo guy. Because sometimes he is showing so much of interest but sometimes he is ignoring me so much. I really hate that dual attitude. I'm in confusion whether he is truly loving me or not. We had serious fight so many times which are lead to break up also. But he return back and rebound our relationship. If he is with I feel so happy. He made me really happy. But if he ignores it's really hurts me so much. He just say good bye after few days later he will start again conversation. Why he is behaving like that. Please help me.

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@Chuckcem
15 Years5,000+ Posts

A Leo who is in love with you, will not ignore you. It sounds like two fight a lot, so that's probably also why he bounces between paying attention to you and ignoring you. Without more detail or context though, it's hard to know for sure.

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@swetha
9 Years

Thanks for your reply.

His conversation only about sex. He don't talk about anything with me. After rebounding he will talk with me like affectionate only few days. after that he won't give any reply to my messages and Cal's. That's hurts me so much. Due that lack of conversation we fight each other. I thought he is treating me like a sex object. He won't care about me. He won't ask anything about my life. He talks with me only if he is in mood

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@Chuckcem
15 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by swetha
Thanks for your reply.

His conversation only about sex. He don't talk about anything with me. After rebounding he will talk with me like affectionate only few days. after that he won't give any reply to my messages and Cal's. That's hurts me so much. Due that lack of conversation we fight each other. I thought he is treating me like a sex object. He won't care about me. He won't ask anything about my life. He talks with me only if he is in mood

Sounds like he's just using you. You're already aware of the fact that he isn't being loving toward you. It's time to drop him.

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@marshmallow
9 Years500+ Posts

I am aware of the fact that leos are a lot about sex but most i know are not so shallow to just be into something just for it.

You have all the right to move out of a situation if you feel used .

To be honest your pride is in your hands . If he ignores your messages or doesnt take your call then you to ignore him right away .

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@swetha
9 Years

Every time if I ignored him. After Few days later he will come back and requesting me so much. He says please don't leave me I can not forget you Like that but after that if our relationship is good and smooth again he is behaving like previous.

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@desilove333
9 Years

I was in a 5 year relationship with my Leo ex from 20 to 25 and I'll shed some of my experience........

As a Leo myself, I can say that we love attention, HOWEVER, we love the type of attention we want. Smothering attention, not so much. Begging to talk to us, constantly asking what's wrong, not so much. My ex Leo guy would ignore me because I was trying to hard to be up under him and vice versa because I'm a Leo as well. (Leo and Leo= Bad Combination) He only cared and tried when I said I was going to leave or if I ignored him. Some Leos would rather beg for the attention rather than to be smothered with it. Leos also depress easily (don't let none of them say they don't) Its because we feel everything. Our emotions are over the top about good things or bad things. If he is facing something, he'd rather not tell you. Leo women will tell you every detail, not so much the men. Instead they will deal with it on their own and ignore every attempt you make to try to tall, be around or whatever. UNTIL you say you're leaving and really leave. Otherwise he'll think you're still crying wolf and won't budge. Leos put love over everything. If he loves you he'll always try to fix it or won't let you get to far away. Leos take work seriously and if work is frustrating him, he will have to mentally deal with it on his own. Nothing you can do, but be supportive. That will show him you care more than trying to force a conversation out of him.

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@Ophelia103
9 Years

Hi, I must say that I am guilty of doing this same thing.........personally speaking from a lioness point of view It's doesn't mean that he don't love you......he does. But I do this all yhe time with my boyfriend......if you show sign of weakness a leo will take advantage......we love strong people around us......the more you put up a resistance and push us away the more we value you.....this might sound weird but when you stand up against your leo partner leo finds it to be sexy...