Ok, laugh all you want, but I found The One

I met a sag about 4 years ago. We never imagined that we could be together (she is married and I was dating someone else). We both had an incredible sense of well being with the other, and spiritual connection, but we never even communicated that to each other at the time.

Her husband kept us from being able to see each other and then I moved away so we had a 3 1/2 year gap of seeing each other. We kept in touch though, and I always just assumed we were friends. She invited me to Hawaii repeatedly the last few months and I made a compromise to go visit her in S. Carolina for a few days instead. We reconnected, and then we were both so miserable when I left that I got her to come see me in Tx where she is staying until she leaves for Hawaii (and i will follow soon after).

She met my kids last night and that went great too. Sags are so generous. She gave my daughter a gift she had gotten her 3 1/2 years ago, but was never able to give to me before I moved back to TX. The sag said she save it "just in case". Wow, that was the sweetest thing ever. It really helped my kids understand that this isn't just another fling (i'm really self-conscious about how soon it's been since that last gf).

I'm all in for this one. No relationship has ever felt like this ... lol, I think we just went the longest together without making love (because my kids are here) ... and it still feels like paradise just being with her.

So, this is the one ... I'm gonna pull out all the stops and go for it. We got some obstacles to overcome still though.

Lol @metoo

meh

I'm not gonna rain on your parade!
Hope it all works out j, or at the very least is fun while it lasts. 🙂

Hawaii sounds like a good enough perk

Good luck

Posted by BikerCh1ck
🙂 Nice. When are you going to propose to her?

I already have in a way ... not with a ring and all ... she's gonna have to wait until her divorce is final for that. That should give us at least 6 months to get to know each other before we make anything official.

lol, we are just getting to know each other though. Oddly, i'm not sure she is quite as spontaneous as me ... I just have to communicate when i'm brainstorming ideas vs. making plans ... a couple times already she has thought i'm whimsical when really I hadn't settled on a plan yet; I had just been thinking out loud. She will hear the 1st idea out of my head and think that's the plan. I should be able to fix that by being a little more mindful about when I speak.

we are more laidback in unorthodox situations than most, so the rebound thing is nothing to be frightened about.
have fun!

oh...what sign are YOU?

Posted by msX
oh...what sign are YOU?

we are both sag.

huh, 1st little thing happened to bug me though ... we should be going to visit my family today. she stayed up all night. not sure what's up with that. Now her schedule going to be all off. I haven't talked to her yet this morning and I understand if you can't sleep, you can't sleep ... haha, but the question is ... why could she not sleep? Is that an avoidance tactic ... keeping her sleep schedule off with everyone else's? Is she just freaking out about meeting my mom?

I don't know, it's good though, this 2 weeks together. i hope she's really honest with me at the end of it because i'll have to move to accommodate her and her kids ... and that's a lot to do if we aren't really right for each other.

i stay up all the time. weird...

Posted by IntriguedScorp


I thought you knew she was "the One"? Isn't it kind of early to be questioning that already? Such a Sggie thing to do. And she's a Sag as well? Good luck buddy. Haha

My advice, just remember that you love it when someone allows you the freedom to be yourself and to do what you want when you want to. Nothing wrong with that. You also probably hate it when someone tried to confine you, right? Well, that's what your Sag is thinking too. Its really that simple. Give what you want to get and all will be well. 🙂

So, yes, I was being hyper-sensitive to that. It was no problem ... she's 12 yrs younger than me so a couple of power naps was all she needed the next day, and she wasn't even grumpy.

She met my family, that went well. She helped me cut bamboo at my mom's house with a hatchet. Back at my house, she helped me install a new window in the living room ... and, when she got bored on Monday night, and I was having hard time thinking of something to do ... she suggested we go golf ball hunting, so we did that and then went roller bladeing.

She is definitely "the one" ... lol, and why would any sag ever date anyone who isn't a sag?