Learn to love?

I feel stupid asking this question because I am a Sagittarius, but anyways. Can a sag learn to love someone? I met this great guy but am not super attracted to. I have never dated someone that I not extremely physically attracted to, but they were also jerks., so I think I should try a nice guy. This guy is perfect, but I just don't feel the chemistry. Thanks for any insight you can give me.

Posted by CluelessCancer
No. Move on.

+1

Why do you feel like you need to settle with someone who you aren`t attracted to? If the chemistry isn`t there you can`t expected to just jump out of nowhere...

wow

It's only because I am only attracted to the wrong guys. I go for jerks every time. I don't want to but I do.

why shouldn't she try it? it's just "dating"... hell.
i say try something/one new.
it is definitely possible to not be physically moved by someone but fall for them emotionally later.
just don't expect anything and, most importantly, have fun.
enjoy someone fawning over you.
enjoy all the cards being in your hand.
and why mention love so early? you two may become more than lovers one day...maybe business partners or soulmates 😉

Posted by H243
It's only because I am only attracted to the wrong guys. I go for jerks every time. I don't want to but I do.

It sure seems that way, sometimes 😛

I have done this and it is not good at all. The person will fall for you first usually and you will feel horrible because you more than most likely will not feel the same. Date yes, go out have fun. Relationship no be with someone who is good to you and you are attracted to.