SAG GAL Warming up to a Male Virgo... ??

Hi read up on most of the virgo/sag connect, seems to doom it. Any one has any positive things to say about this combo, and if any negative what they are, if you were a female sag. Tx.

I dated a virgo male and I'm a sag female. It was a good relationship. I felt he was straight forward and a nice guy.

You know, I don't think I've met a real live virgo male.
But I've met close to a million females (I swear they're everywhere, here.)
& I have to say...they suck.

But ya know, the virgo men on dxp seem pretty cool.
They try to act all rude but I know they're really little lovebirds underneath. 🙂




Evan.

Posted by cheenah
Hi read up on most of the virgo/sag connect, seems to doom it. Any one has any positive things to say about this combo, and if any negative what they are, if you were a female sag. Tx.

I had two Virguys.
In first place I did not want to be with them more than friends or colleagues. They both insisted on getting closer to me. We tried it for a short period and I kept asking why we should be together at all. Of course there are good things about anybody and they had good things in them too. But fact is they have a short scope of view and it is not what fascinates Sags.

The first one commited suicide by sleeping with his friend's wife. Those days the two men were involved in a reasearch project. I was 33, he 27, his friend and the wife in their 30s. All happens in a summer so it was nothing serious.


The other one kept boring me with prdedictable behaviour: mixed signals.
This man told me our sex was wonderful and could get better and better. I said to myself, "please ask me too" .
(this story was more complicated and took longer. we both over 40, in the same workplace, he has Saggi moon.)


I think Virgo/Sag combi is possible to last only if Virgo stops this damn salesman behaviour.
To Sags:
- playing sweet,
- touching the vanity and
- taking over the rationalization function is nothing but coercing someone into doing things.

Sags' allergy against restricting them goes for commands as well as for manipulation (soft violence). We don't listen to stories they like telling us, unless we haven't heard stories for a while. When we want to stay with someone, then we check the bigger picture: who is he? what can we achieve? does he offer something I called for? And because I did not call for "being a concubine", it is clear what I had to do with the second Virguy.

Posted by WinterBorn
Virgo men are no better than fucking cockroaches, and you'll probably regret getting tangled up with the slimy, sneering piece of shit. Getting together with that...thing will most likely be the biggest fucking mistake you'll ever make.

Lol.

Yeah, Arch, that didn't make sense. 🙂

LOL!!!! Oh god. He did get me Reloaded. Got me good!! He was a good balance of nice and mean.

ONce they are in a relationship, it can be surprisingly stable because Sag females have this inner "knowing" and understanding that virguys need their alone time too.

So they take the alone time to go to other people in the world and help them? and most likely a woman? Read the text of Archer please? Read "Virgo Dilemma Virgo female marine"

not all sag females have the time or patience to look beneath the apparent quiet and restrained front of Virguys.....timing again.

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Shak,
the first Virguy told me that he slept with a girl friend of his fiancee while preparation of their wedding. For that matter they canceled the marriage. They had been together for five years.

do you believe a Sag girl like me would wait five years for that END?

Posted by Archer

fire woman tries to make a warm hearth and shared joy by burning herself brightly,,, now this man gradually goes into society service too much since he knows there is a woman who can take care of herself very well

spot on.

water woman who can manipulate and earth woman who dominate

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right.
we know and everybody knows that we are defenseless like children. Only our (unfocused)intelligence, our pride and jupiter help us not to be doormats.

^LOL

Posted by WinterBorn

Probably dividing her up into meal sized portions as we speak.

they say Virguys eat children. we didn't ask cheenah how old she is.

Actually I have seen some of you replies, which had nothin to do with what i was asking. Im use to dp folks drifting off..
Any way things are great with me and the virgo, time will tell. I will say this hes very attentive, i never dated a guy so into me, my feelings, my happiness, wanting so much to please me and i dont just mean sexually. Its weird, since sags we always dish out the love and never get it. This time i am. Is that normal behavior for a virgo?

Cheenah,
take the time to be happy with him.

And do not rely only on the Sun/Sun relationships.

BTW I have found some Sag-Virg love stories in Lindaland. There the people give the relevant planets and planetoids when talking about their relationships.

Besides it is always important to know:
1. what do I need currently. what can I afford.
2. what does he need currently. what can he afford.

If one wants children and house the other one wants to wait until he is a college professor so it is a clear case of sad seperation despite the big love.

Check your needs.