
What do you hate most about your contradicting personalities? Are you secretly insecure and distrusting esp to love ones or the ones who love you? what do you need from ur lovers to keep you happy?


Posted by saweetz1988I'm a sag sun Scorpio Venus. It's a constant fight. I don't even know where to begin. it's draining, exhausting. I love everyone and hate everything. Im secure in my thoughts and terrifyingly insecure. I love love and hate love. I feel nothing but al the same time feel everything. I don't know where to start man, I don't know
What do you hate most about your contradicting personalities? Are you secretly insecure and distrusting esp to love ones or the ones who love you? what do you need from ur lovers to keep you happy?

Posted by Sagg101YeahPosted by saweetz1988I'm a sag sun Scorpio Venus. It's a constant fight. I don't even know where to begin. it's draining, exhausting. I love everyone and hate everything. Im secure in my thoughts and terrifyingly insecure. I love love and hate love. I feel nothing but al the same time feel everything. I don't know where to start man, I don't know
What do you hate most about your contradicting personalities? Are you secretly insecure and distrusting esp to love ones or the ones who love you? what do you need from ur lovers to keep you happy?click to expand


Posted by WynterPosted by Sagg101YeahPosted by saweetz1988I'm a sag sun Scorpio Venus. It's a constant fight. I don't even know where to begin. it's draining, exhausting. I love everyone and hate everything. Im secure in my thoughts and terrifyingly insecure. I love love and hate love. I feel nothing but al the same time feel everything. I don't know where to start man, I don't know
What do you hate most about your contradicting personalities? Are you secretly insecure and distrusting esp to love ones or the ones who love you? what do you need from ur lovers to keep you happy?click to expand

Posted by medusax94
Draining and devoted, easily taken for granted, and extremely intense. I hate it.

Posted by saweetz1988Too much to hide, but at first I will try toPosted by medusax94
Draining and devoted, easily taken for granted, and extremely intense. I hate it.
Do u show ur intensify ?click to expand

Posted by medusax94Me too when I want them. I'm also, sag sun ,Libra moon.
Draining and devoted, easily taken for granted, and extremely intense. I hate it.

Posted by medusax94Posted by saweetz1988Too much to hide, but at first I will try toPosted by medusax94
Draining and devoted, easily taken for granted, and extremely intense. I hate it.
Do u show ur intensify ?click to expand


Posted by WynterPosted by Sagg101YeahPosted by saweetz1988I'm a sag sun Scorpio Venus. It's a constant fight. I don't even know where to begin. it's draining, exhausting. I love everyone and hate everything. Im secure in my thoughts and terrifyingly insecure. I love love and hate love. I feel nothing but al the same time feel everything. I don't know where to start man, I don't know
What do you hate most about your contradicting personalities? Are you secretly insecure and distrusting esp to love ones or the ones who love you? what do you need from ur lovers to keep you happy?click to expand


Posted by saweetz1988For me it's always been love at first sight, it seems. I just want to jump right in while the fire is hot and live my life like there is no tomorrow.Posted by WynterPosted by Sagg101YeahPosted by saweetz1988I'm a sag sun Scorpio Venus. It's a constant fight. I don't even know where to begin. it's draining, exhausting. I love everyone and hate everything. Im secure in my thoughts and terrifyingly insecure. I love love and hate love. I feel nothing but al the same time feel everything. I don't know where to start man, I don't know
What do you hate most about your contradicting personalities? Are you secretly insecure and distrusting esp to love ones or the ones who love you? what do you need from ur lovers to keep you happy?
How long does it take you to fall in love with a person. If you do, do you deny it? What do you expect from the one who claim they love you?click to expand

Posted by WynterPosted by saweetz1988For me it's always been love at first sight, it seems. I just want to jump right in while the fire is hot and live my life like there is no tomorrow.Posted by WynterPosted by Sagg101YeahPosted by saweetz1988I'm a sag sun Scorpio Venus. It's a constant fight. I don't even know where to begin. it's draining, exhausting. I love everyone and hate everything. Im secure in my thoughts and terrifyingly insecure. I love love and hate love. I feel nothing but al the same time feel everything. I don't know where to start man, I don't know
What do you hate most about your contradicting personalities? Are you secretly insecure and distrusting esp to love ones or the ones who love you? what do you need from ur lovers to keep you happy?
How long does it take you to fall in love with a person. If you do, do you deny it? What do you expect from the one who claim they love you?
What do I expect from the ones who claim they love me? I expect them to show me, I don't want to chase their love. Don't do anything that makes me jealous. Jealousy makes me crazy and I've ruined many good matches because of it. Don't be demanding of my time and love. I'm in charge of us, and want to do things my way.click to expand

Posted by saweetz1988Oh dear, that sounds like my ex exactly.
One guy wiht this placement says, he has no feelings for no one in this planet yet he writes songs, deeply passionate n is a singer.. Make love to the deepest, yet at the same time hate love or fear love... When feel deeply connected, still withdraw .. push and pull... I don't get him .. we used to fight heaps not anymore, used to completely hate each other then wanted each other the next day.. It was a real battle. He says he misses me when he doesn't see me for ages then says to me he has no feelings. Yet he tells me the story only I know about n told me to figure it out myself why he told me coz he doesn't trust anyone or tell anyone anything.. but now that we have a baby together he's able to express his true love to his baby . Extremely affectionate to the core...which I love .. n also affectionate to me.. but will pull back if connection feels deeper or something. lol what a horrible placements to have I feel..

Posted by redoctoberPosted by saweetz1988Oh dear, that sounds like my ex exactly.
One guy wiht this placement says, he has no feelings for no one in this planet yet he writes songs, deeply passionate n is a singer.. Make love to the deepest, yet at the same time hate love or fear love... When feel deeply connected, still withdraw .. push and pull... I don't get him .. we used to fight heaps not anymore, used to completely hate each other then wanted each other the next day.. It was a real battle. He says he misses me when he doesn't see me for ages then says to me he has no feelings. Yet he tells me the story only I know about n told me to figure it out myself why he told me coz he doesn't trust anyone or tell anyone anything.. but now that we have a baby together he's able to express his true love to his baby . Extremely affectionate to the core...which I love .. n also affectionate to me.. but will pull back if connection feels deeper or something. lol what a horrible placements to have I feel..click to expand

Posted by bnr7013
The biggest issue for me is I seek to understand...everything. Love can't be understood so I assume that's why these placements appear "contradicting." My sag sun is always trying to figure things out & my Venus in scorp can be passionate when it comes to love. Try being passionate but unable to understand a f'ing thing. Whew ... Good question.

Posted by saweetz1988Basically just an incredibly manipulative person bordering psychological abuse. One second he's all over me, attentive and affectionate, then all of a sudden very distant and rude. It would swing from him inviting me to come with him on a trip to not looking at me and rejecting any form of physical contact. First he says he wants me to go and see other people too then he gets jealous of me going for a drink with an old friend. It was like a never ending hot and cold shower and it was impossible to predict what you'd get next. Whenever I called him out on being inconsiderate, selfish, and plain cruel he'd get super defensive and according to him, he was never in the wrong (not even when he'd disappear for a couple of days without any notice and we lived together). Eventually he decided to move back to his country, broke up with me the day before he left yet telling me he wouldn't want us to talk for a while and that we were done for good. All while inviting me over for Christmas. And when he got home, he'd text me almost every day about nothing, then called me saying he cared about me and missed me and was looking forward to visiting in a couple of weeks. He cut all communication off 10 days later.Posted by redoctoberPosted by saweetz1988Oh dear, that sounds like my ex exactly.
One guy wiht this placement says, he has no feelings for no one in this planet yet he writes songs, deeply passionate n is a singer.. Make love to the deepest, yet at the same time hate love or fear love... When feel deeply connected, still withdraw .. push and pull... I don't get him .. we used to fight heaps not anymore, used to completely hate each other then wanted each other the next day.. It was a real battle. He says he misses me when he doesn't see me for ages then says to me he has no feelings. Yet he tells me the story only I know about n told me to figure it out myself why he told me coz he doesn't trust anyone or tell anyone anything.. but now that we have a baby together he's able to express his true love to his baby . Extremely affectionate to the core...which I love .. n also affectionate to me.. but will pull back if connection feels deeper or something. lol what a horrible placements to have I feel..
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Posted by redoctoberSounds about right! They will out you through the ringer.Posted by saweetz1988Basically just an incredibly manipulative person bordering psychological abuse. One second he's all over me, attentive and affectionate, then all of a sudden very distant and rude. It would swing from him inviting me to come with him on a trip to not looking at me and rejecting any form of physical contact. First he says he wants me to go and see other people too then he gets jealous of me going for a drink with an old friend. It was like a never ending hot and cold shower and it was impossible to predict what you'd get next. Whenever I called him out on being inconsiderate, selfish, and plain cruel he'd get super defensive and according to him, he was never in the wrong (not even when he'd disappear for a couple of days without any notice and we lived together). Eventually he decided to move back to his country, broke up with me the day before he left yet telling me he wouldn't want us to talk for a while and that we were done for good. All while inviting me over for Christmas. And when he got home, he'd text me almost every day about nothing, then called me saying he cared about me and missed me and was looking forward to visiting in a couple of weeks. He cut all communication off 10 days later.Posted by redoctoberPosted by saweetz1988Oh dear, that sounds like my ex exactly.
One guy wiht this placement says, he has no feelings for no one in this planet yet he writes songs, deeply passionate n is a singer.. Make love to the deepest, yet at the same time hate love or fear love... When feel deeply connected, still withdraw .. push and pull... I don't get him .. we used to fight heaps not anymore, used to completely hate each other then wanted each other the next day.. It was a real battle. He says he misses me when he doesn't see me for ages then says to me he has no feelings. Yet he tells me the story only I know about n told me to figure it out myself why he told me coz he doesn't trust anyone or tell anyone anything.. but now that we have a baby together he's able to express his true love to his baby . Extremely affectionate to the core...which I love .. n also affectionate to me.. but will pull back if connection feels deeper or something. lol what a horrible placements to have I feel..
T-T please shareclick to expand

Posted by redoctoberPosted by saweetz1988Basically just an incredibly manipulative person bordering psychological abuse. One second he's all over me, attentive and affectionate, then all of a sudden very distant and rude. It would swing from him inviting me to come with him on a trip to not looking at me and rejecting any form of physical contact. First he says he wants me to go and see other people too then he gets jealous of me going for a drink with an old friend. It was like a never ending hot and cold shower and it was impossible to predict what you'd get next. Whenever I called him out on being inconsiderate, selfish, and plain cruel he'd get super defensive and according to him, he was never in the wrong (not even when he'd disappear for a couple of days without any notice and we lived together). Eventually he decided to move back to his country, broke up with me the day before he left yet telling me he wouldn't want us to talk for a while and that we were done for good. All while inviting me over for Christmas. And when he got home, he'd text me almost every day about nothing, then called me saying he cared about me and missed me and was looking forward to visiting in a couple of weeks. He cut all communication off 10 days later.Posted by redoctoberPosted by saweetz1988Oh dear, that sounds like my ex exactly.
One guy wiht this placement says, he has no feelings for no one in this planet yet he writes songs, deeply passionate n is a singer.. Make love to the deepest, yet at the same time hate love or fear love... When feel deeply connected, still withdraw .. push and pull... I don't get him .. we used to fight heaps not anymore, used to completely hate each other then wanted each other the next day.. It was a real battle. He says he misses me when he doesn't see me for ages then says to me he has no feelings. Yet he tells me the story only I know about n told me to figure it out myself why he told me coz he doesn't trust anyone or tell anyone anything.. but now that we have a baby together he's able to express his true love to his baby . Extremely affectionate to the core...which I love .. n also affectionate to me.. but will pull back if connection feels deeper or something. lol what a horrible placements to have I feel..
T-T please shareclick to expand

Posted by ladylibra21Posted by redoctoberSounds about right! They will out you through the ringer.Posted by saweetz1988Basically just an incredibly manipulative person bordering psychological abuse. One second he's all over me, attentive and affectionate, then all of a sudden very distant and rude. It would swing from him inviting me to come with him on a trip to not looking at me and rejecting any form of physical contact. First he says he wants me to go and see other people too then he gets jealous of me going for a drink with an old friend. It was like a never ending hot and cold shower and it was impossible to predict what you'd get next. Whenever I called him out on being inconsiderate, selfish, and plain cruel he'd get super defensive and according to him, he was never in the wrong (not even when he'd disappear for a couple of days without any notice and we lived together). Eventually he decided to move back to his country, broke up with me the day before he left yet telling me he wouldn't want us to talk for a while and that we were done for good. All while inviting me over for Christmas. And when he got home, he'd text me almost every day about nothing, then called me saying he cared about me and missed me and was looking forward to visiting in a couple of weeks. He cut all communication off 10 days later.Posted by redoctoberPosted by saweetz1988Oh dear, that sounds like my ex exactly.
One guy wiht this placement says, he has no feelings for no one in this planet yet he writes songs, deeply passionate n is a singer.. Make love to the deepest, yet at the same time hate love or fear love... When feel deeply connected, still withdraw .. push and pull... I don't get him .. we used to fight heaps not anymore, used to completely hate each other then wanted each other the next day.. It was a real battle. He says he misses me when he doesn't see me for ages then says to me he has no feelings. Yet he tells me the story only I know about n told me to figure it out myself why he told me coz he doesn't trust anyone or tell anyone anything.. but now that we have a baby together he's able to express his true love to his baby . Extremely affectionate to the core...which I love .. n also affectionate to me.. but will pull back if connection feels deeper or something. lol what a horrible placements to have I feel..
T-T please shareclick to expand

Posted by ladylibra21
@saweetz1988 my son's father was the same way when our baby was born you could totally see and feel the love kick up for out son and we are sitting there enjoying our new baby just the two of us while all of our visitors had left and I ask so what did it feel like when you first saw his face and he says I am not telling you that is something no one will ever know. I was kind of taken aback. He shows his love in different ways though he has worked really hard to put his life together but it took loosing lots of things for that to happen. He has gotten better at the emotional part as well because our song said "I hate daddy he is so mean." A couple times. My point is he is finding a balance but now that we have been broken up for a year now I don't feel anything I look at it like our purpose together was literally to create our son. And this lad Sag Sun Venus Scorp I dated wasn't as damaged but still very coucious with emotions and he is a wonderful father but still lacks self confidence and direction and trust.


Posted by saweetz1988Posted by redoctoberPosted by saweetz1988Basically just an incredibly manipulative person bordering psychological abuse. One second he's all over me, attentive and affectionate, then all of a sudden very distant and rude. It would swing from him inviting me to come with him on a trip to not looking at me and rejecting any form of physical contact. First he says he wants me to go and see other people too then he gets jealous of me going for a drink with an old friend. It was like a never ending hot and cold shower and it was impossible to predict what you'd get next. Whenever I called him out on being inconsiderate, selfish, and plain cruel he'd get super defensive and according to him, he was never in the wrong (not even when he'd disappear for a couple of days without any notice and we lived together). Eventually he decided to move back to his country, broke up with me the day before he left yet telling me he wouldn't want us to talk for a while and that we were done for good. All while inviting me over for Christmas. And when he got home, he'd text me almost every day about nothing, then called me saying he cared about me and missed me and was looking forward to visiting in a couple of weeks. He cut all communication off 10 days later.Posted by redoctoberPosted by saweetz1988Oh dear, that sounds like my ex exactly.
One guy wiht this placement says, he has no feelings for no one in this planet yet he writes songs, deeply passionate n is a singer.. Make love to the deepest, yet at the same time hate love or fear love... When feel deeply connected, still withdraw .. push and pull... I don't get him .. we used to fight heaps not anymore, used to completely hate each other then wanted each other the next day.. It was a real battle. He says he misses me when he doesn't see me for ages then says to me he has no feelings. Yet he tells me the story only I know about n told me to figure it out myself why he told me coz he doesn't trust anyone or tell anyone anything.. but now that we have a baby together he's able to express his true love to his baby . Extremely affectionate to the core...which I love .. n also affectionate to me.. but will pull back if connection feels deeper or something. lol what a horrible placements to have I feel..
T-T please shareclick to expand
Holly crap that sounds so alike!!!!!!! I'm so done too.. 😢 trying to figure out what's best n thinking not including him in my sons life at all is probably best. He bailed on his sons visit both times this week and I'



Posted by redoctober
@saweetz1988 sorry, something went from with that message! I was saying that this is of course a very private matter, but it really is heartbreaking to read stories like that and I will share my opinion in case it helps (I had a dream about having a baby boy last night and it makes me feel even more connected to the subject). If your ex is unreliable, he can't make a good father, especially for a boy. Boys need a strong father figure because that's who they will identify and associate themselves with. Even if your ex loves his son very much but can't show respect, appreciation, and love for the woman who gave birth to this little guy - that's not setting the right standard. If there's any way for you to have a civil relationship later on (which will require a lot of work on his part), then I'd assume it's best for the son to see his dad. But if things keep getting worse I'm afraid the boy wouldn't be better off without him 😢

Posted by Chelsey07
It is conflicting for me. My Sag sun is cool with my partner wanting space, but my Scorpio Venus causes me to get jealous. I hate it because I don't want to seem like I'm crazy.


Posted by saweetz1988Right! Like I can't even right nowPosted by Chelsey07
It is conflicting for me. My Sag sun is cool with my partner wanting space, but my Scorpio Venus causes me to get jealous. I hate it because I don't want to seem like I'm crazy.
LoL.. It's one or the other :pclick to expand

Posted by Chelsey07Posted by saweetz1988Right! Like I can't even right nowPosted by Chelsey07
It is conflicting for me. My Sag sun is cool with my partner wanting space, but my Scorpio Venus causes me to get jealous. I hate it because I don't want to seem like I'm crazy.
LoL.. It's one or the other :pclick to expand

Posted by saweetz1988I'm sorry that I'm just now seeing this, but I try my best not to let it get the best of me.Posted by Chelsey07Posted by saweetz1988Right! Like I can't even right nowPosted by Chelsey07
It is conflicting for me. My Sag sun is cool with my partner wanting space, but my Scorpio Venus causes me to get jealous. I hate it because I don't want to seem like I'm crazy.
LoL.. It's one or the other :p
Do You show your jealousy?click to expand

Posted by bnr7013Posted by scorpx3Posted by saweetz1988I have a friend who's Sag sun with venus in Scorp... They keep you around for the long haul. And by long haul, I mean, LOOOOOOOOONNNNNNNNNGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG HHHHHAAAAAAAAAUUUUUUUUUULLLLLLLLLLL. They don't understand the concept of "space". They can be insecure but can reaosn their way out of it. When practicing self-love, they are very wise, though, and truly a joy to be with. They need loyalty, clear grounds (i.e., we are together, or we're not - we are friends, or we're not), and a fun time with intelligent convs.
What do you hate most about your contradicting personalities? Are you secretly insecure and distrusting esp to love ones or the ones who love you? what do you need from ur lovers to keep you happy?
Bingo!! CLEAR grounds ... We think that's pretty simple but most ppl can't grasp the concept. We do understand "space" but we are kinda selfish....lets be honest. We want to suffocate & disappear at our leisure.... & don't even begin to question our loyalty.click to expand



Posted by Wynter
I can't hide jealousy. It's too painful. I'll just become bitter, controlling and demanding and if the one I love doesn't take my pain seriously I will freeze him out and leave the relationship.
I can't handle jealousy. I would rather be alone.

Posted by saweetz1988CapricornPosted by Wynter
I can't hide jealousy. It's too painful. I'll just become bitter, controlling and demanding and if the one I love doesn't take my pain seriously I will freeze him out and leave the relationship.
I can't handle jealousy. I would rather be alone.
So you will tell them straight u r jealous! ? What's your moon sign?click to expand


Posted by WynterHaha!! Difficult placements indeed
The Dreaded Moon In Capricorn.

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