Saggitarian friend

My relationship ended with my cancer friend. Ive been talking alot with my sag friend. I do love you sags because you guys are def honest. Hes been lifting up my spirits and just letting me vent. Now hes no saint, but we cant fight and argue and still remain friends. He did say that if I take my cancer friend back to write him outta my life. I thought that was pretty intense. I asked him why?.... he said because he doesnt deserve you and I dont want to hear about this shit two months from now. Well anyways thank goodness for honesty.

im not a big fan of people who write others out of their life due to factors like what you described above. i feel like a real friend wouldnt bounce.

I agree DMV. He just knows how much ive been to the fire with my cancer guy. I was there when no one wanted him. When he had two cents in his pocket. When he lost everything, i mean car, house, just devestated. The only thing I ever told him was "I got you". He never went hungry, nor thirsty, nor without whatever he needed. I shared all I had. I mad sure I told him how special he was and how amazing he was. WHen his mom died, I was there for him. When he needed a outfit for his interview, i got him one. I went to the absolute fire for him all in love.

My sag friend knows that so he feels strongly about this.

No, Ligeia, He left me.

He got on his feet and left. That sums it up. He did want to be my friend though.

do u think the sag is feeling you?

Posted by coldwater


He got on his feet and left. That sums it up. He did want to be my friend though.

sigh...alot of people do this. sign notwithstanding

Ohh he sure does feel me. We were intimate before and I got hurt with him too. He didnt know how to tell me that he wanted a military career, not wife and kids. When he finally did, after much distress I told him I already knew that...thats your big secret. He said he didnt want to hurt me. SO after that, after that we just stay friends.I told him i rather be hurt for a few days then months. So we made a deal to keep things real.


He wants to come visit me. Hes deployed now.... when he comes home. Hes very hardcore. Six planets of fire and five with air.

Yes... It shocked me. I would have never left him for anything. I mean I loved that man for who he was and the man he wanted to be. All I ever wanted was to be near him. He just made me so happy and I loved everything about him. His feet, the feel of his hair, his hard hands....everything. I would have never ever deserted him. I mean...people look their whole life for a love like this and he just saw it as a burden. We had an awesome compatibility chart. Some many trines like pluto trine sun and things....

Yes. his great loss. I am doing fine. I still cant eat alot. The first three days I couldnt eat anything. Now I can aleast eat four bites. But....I have great friends and well, I will be fine.

Hes so damn impulsive. He will sacrifice anything for money. He will not think. Then when he gets what he thinks he wants he begins to think. He will not listen to reason or anybody. He just is unmovable.

We were like talking off and on but when he told me he was gonna leave after the holidays, I just saw a flat line. I did get my vengence though.

Posted by coldwater
Yes. his great loss. I am doing fine. I still cant eat alot. The first three days I couldnt eat anything. Now I can aleast eat four bites. But....I have great friends and well, I will be fine.

Hes so damn impulsive. He will sacrifice anything for money. He will not think. Then when he gets what he thinks he wants he begins to think. He will not listen to reason or anybody. He just is unmovable.

We were like talking off and on but when he told me he was gonna leave after the holidays, I just saw a flat line. I did get my vengence though.

in his defense, a broke sag is a sorry sight. we cant do the things that we want to do if we dont have the cash. so we try our hardest to not ever get back there.

how long were you with the cancer?

I dated him nine months this month. We had not dated too long. He just needed help and because I loved him I did.

I mean he asked me to be his gf and then six weeks later he lost everything. I could not abadon him. I did what I would have hoped someone would do for me.

My sag friend is cool. I need time for me though. He will think the best way towards happiness is to have fun. I just need time to regroup and detox.